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Put up a ad on CC it was flagged which I really don't get. Someone answer before hand. We exchanged email most of the day yesterday. He is married wants to see his wife with another man. But at the end of the emails he told me that his wife wouldn't not be part of it but he was still willing to do it be behind her back. I don't feel comfortable about it. We don't want or need the drama that may come with it. I told him we are going to pass didn't feel comfortable without his wife.
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Angel and I had met a couple for a no pressure drink, to see how we all got along, pre swap. Well after our first meet, everyone seemed to enjoy each other and things were moving along nicely. We all aggreed to meet one more time for dinner to discuss a play date and what each couple expected and our boundries were. As the dinner progressed, it was very clear that the husband was ready to do Angle right then. The wife appeared ready also, so we made a date to meet the next week end at the on premise swing club Angel and I are membes of. They had asked if they could bring another couple that they played with regularly, we said Ok, but would hold off on deciding on playing with them until meeting them in person. We met as planned, sat and talked to the other couple and watched a porno movie. As the evening progressed everyone seemed to be getting along great. the other two girls asked me if I would like to join them in the hot tub, I asked Angel if she was cool with it, as was one of our rules. She said sure have fun, she would sit and enjoy the movie with the guys. As we entered the room where the hot tub was located, the gals removed their clothes and helped me strip, libarally places their hands all over me. We got into the tub and the girls took up postions on either side of me. We had been in the tub for about 10 minutes, with some light petting and stroking going on, when Angel and the other 2 guys came in. Angel said she was going to go to one of the semi- private rooms with them, if I was ok with it. I said sure, since I was with their wives and thought I was going to be playing with them soon. The semi private rooms have large windows with curtains on them, that can be left open, if you want other to wacth or closed if not. Angel said she asked for the curtains to be closed and one of the guys did close them. But sometime during thier play, one of them opened them for others to view. After about 30 minutes, I asked the girls if they would like to go to a room and play. They looked at each other and said sure, so we dried off got our stuff and headed to the rooms. As we were passing the room Angel was in, the girls stopped to look in. I was a little confused because Angel always played with the curtains closed:confused: As I was watching Angel was getting it from all directions from these 2 guys, she was having a good time, whicich is what we were there for, but had her back to the window. One of the girls wandered off down the hall and returned a few minutes later.We watched them for about 10 minutes, when I said let's go find a room, but the girl hesitated and the one that had left said all of the rooms were occupied, so we should watch some of the action in the other rooms, saying it would get them more worked up. At this point I was thinking that I was being strung along, I told them that that was what I thought and one said oh no, we just aren't quite ready yet, but she would give me a blow job right there to hold me over till we could all play. She did suck me off right there outside of the room Angel was in, but would not finish the job, instead had me jack off on her tits. We watched a few couples play and one large orgy, by then Angel had finished her fun and came up and said they were going swimming. All of a sudden the 2 girls said, that sounds great and took off for the pool with the 2 guys and Angel, I followed and caught up to Angel and told her what I was thinking. She said no, the guys told her theirs wives like to just wacth things for a while before getting started, that when they do get going they would play all night. Well to make a long story shorter, they never did play, at least not with me. One of the girls and the 2 guys asked Angel later if she would like to have anoher go round, at which point she looked at me. I said no, she gave me a puzzeled look and got out of the pool and headed to the locker room. The one girl that had asked her to go play followed her. I told the 2 guys that I thought they were playing games and I wasn't happy. They assured me they weren't and the "fun would be movong into high gear soon" We sat at the pool and talked for a short while when one of the guys said he had to go piss and headed to the bathroom, or so I thought. Angel and the girl had left the locker room and went to a room and were enjoying some girl - girl fun, when the guy entered and said I knew he was there. So the 3 of them started a some. When the guy and girls didn't come back, I knew something was up and headed off looking for them. His friend tried to stop me, at which point I lost it. The club has stricked rules about fighting and I almost broke it, but one of the clubs bouncer stepped in and asked what the problem was. As I explained to him what I thought was going on, he got another of the club members and went with me to find Angel. The bouncer had played with us on other occasions and really liked Angel, so he was concerned too. When we found them and I told Angel what was happening she too was upset. Both with the 2 couples and herself, for not realizing what was going on. The 2 couples were asked to leave the club and told not to ever come back. This couple had a profile on SLS, SN and AFF, but as word got around about thier games, they eventually took them off. It seems that we weren't the first couple they had pulled this on.
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We arranged a play date using a popular on-line hook-up site and the first-night sex was breat. BUT, there was an unsettling aspect to the meeting. Nothing about their on-line profile suggested any smoking of cigarettes. Comparing notes during our drive home from the encounter we realized that both were rodelent of burnt tobacco. Why would people commit such a sin of omission?
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Greetings, this is my first post but I have been lurking/reading for a while. I really dig this community and love that I have found a place to talk to other folks in the lifestyle! I realize that the following is the result of being a newbie and making mistakes of my part. I am getting way better about recognizing the various "characters" in the swinging world. 1. Getting duped by a woman. She said she wanted to kiss a girl in front of her bf because he was just such a sweet good man and she wanted to give him a little something as a gift. She was totally straight and blah blah. I thought- aww sweet man? Sign me up! What is the harm in a kiss?? Well apparently she was very very very predatory and preferred girls to guy and it was her way of luring a newbie unicorn. I will always remember the sad sad look on his face as she tried to ravage me the min the door was closed. 2. Also getting duped by a woman. She invited me into the room with her/bf, got naked in 2 seconds and only then informed me she was on her period.. uh.. ew.. Then she FLIPPED out on her bf for me being there. (she set him up he was entirely shy and had never been there before). She was abusive and jealous and actually made me feel shame as she freaked out on him. They completely ignored me as I put my boots back on and left. In both cases felt used like I was a pawn in someone elses game. I guess Im just frustrated because this seems to happen alot (pet peeves are for another post). now that I have vented I can move on=) To the adventures ahead! *ps when I first wrote this post it was much longer and more detailed. However apparently my login had timed out before I finished it so it was lost! So apologies if this one seems a bit terse! -
I was reading an old thread questioning if it was possible to go too far in trying to reduce your flaws in order to "market" yourself. Reading this made me wonder, how far do you go to minimize your flaws? Do you shoot for the absolute best angles, photoshop your love-handles away? What do you do to make your photos as attractive as possible in order to draw the most interest? -
This is me on the outside looking in. I will try to describe this situation as best I can. I have some swinger friends who have a single male friend whom the husband of the couple I am friends with has been friends with since childhood. The situation lies with the single male friend. What's funny to me is that when he's single he is a very active swinger. He tends though to date vanilla girls. He claims that he is completely monogamous when he dates. (but of course has a lifetime membership to one of the swinger websites) He is now in what I would call a serious relationship. He has been dating the same girl for about a year. She is completely in love with him and of course they spend a good amount of time with my friends. The girlfriend sees my friend (the wife of the couple) as a good friend and confidant. What I have failed to mention so far is that yes the single male and my friends have had a swinging relationship. It did stop when he became involved with the girl. The single male friend (knowing that the girlfriend may hear some conversations that would leave her scratching her head) outs my friends as swingers to his girlfriend but of course leaves out the "minor" detail that he is as well. You know kind of running damage control so that she won't think anything of some off color conversation that she may overhear. Here is my question. They have chosen to keep their involvement with each other a secret from her. This is just my opinion, but I would feel wrong being a confidant and close friend of someone that I had such a big secret to hide from them. I would not want the worrying all the time that someone would reveal our secret (my friend likes to mix her vanilla and swinger friends at vanilla parties). Why leave a bomb like that waiting to go off at any moment? Tell the truth, get it out there so she can decide whether it's something she can deal with and move on. I feel sorry for this girl at times because know I would probably feel like a fool if everyone knew this but me and I found out after my relationship had been serious for a while. I hope ya'll were able to get the situation I was trying to describe. I am curious to see what the majority thinks on this. -
Is it just us or is this that difficult??? We've had a fantasy of having another man join us for a MFM for years. We're VERY happily married, considered attractive by most and very secure with each other. We knew this would eventually just happen so we never arranged anything. We recently took a vacation and met a man one evening. He came on very strong with my wife all night long flirting. When my wife and I went back to the hotel room for the evening she asked about possibly going back down and asking him to join us. To make a long story short....so was he. He was hung like a mouse, couldn't get it up, she said he was just terrible. So a few months later we thought we'd give it another try and chatted for quite a while on AFF with another man and finally met with him for lunch. He seemied like a great guy so we scheduled a get together that weekend for an evening at a hotel. This guy lied about his age, name, cock size and sexual abilitiies. My wife is very sexy and did just about everything possible to get this guy excited but he was anothe complete dud......and she's fantastic in bed. He couldn't keep it up and had a little cock as well. What are we doing wrong? We're about to give up! We're in our late 40's, maybe we need to go for a younger guy? We'd really like to do this but can't handle more disappointment. Do we ask for referrences?
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Ok let me lay some background on our weekend...me and the mrs. went to nashville last night to go tour favorite club and we had fun over all. Met this couple that seemed cool, they were nice, we danced, alot of grinding going on, chemistry seemed to be there, and then we decided to play, so we got a private room at the club. It was really hot watching the other Mrs going down on my wife and some heavy foreplay. Then the other Mrs had not gotten naked yet. Although I soon found myself in a situation finding out that she looked better with clothes on, and I lost the mood totally after that. However, I was polite, this couple finishes with each other anyway, so it just accelerated her going back to her husband. Me and the Mrs... just made out while they finished, and didn't make a seen. We had a fun night anyway, all things considered. I know what does this have to do with profiles. Now if it wasn't bad enough that I was turned off, when we got home, me and the mrs. decided to just go look at the profile SLS and I started reading their profile. I get a couple of minutes into the profile, and my wife points out the weight that they had posted. Don't get me wrong we realize that many probably understate or underestimate by 10 lbs., but this couple had understated by 40-50 lbs on the female half and 20-30 lbs on male half. This just made the situation worse, because I thought I was being nice by not causing a scene. However, now I'm sitting here viewing these individuals as blatant liars. Someone, Please tell me have you found yourself in a situation where you wanted someone to put their clothes back on, and what did you do? (keep in mind, I'm not the Ken doll, and that we really aren't that superficial) Also, More Importantly: Please tell me what are your views on this obviously blatant False Advertising on profiles for swinging/dating sites?:eek:
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... We know of a couple who recently married and claim they are in the lifestyle as a straight couple. However this couple have placed ads and attempted to meet with bisexual males while trying to hide the fact but most people have seen their pictures have realized that it is indeed the same so called straight couple in the bisexual male ad and want to know why they are hiding an important fact like male bisexuality. It is not a crime to be bisexual ....so why hide the fact , the lifestyle is about honesty and trust. Lying and saying your straight when in fact your not is wrong in Swinging. Especially males considering most males are straight in the lifestyle with a small percentage being curious or bisexual. Most couples have a real problem with bi males mainly because most males of lifestyle couples are straight. What this couple just does not understand is people talk and word gets around that they are not totally honest which makes others feel well what else could they be hiding or lying about? How do you all feel about this situation ....if a man is bisexual and his woman straight should they lie in an ad or profile? for fear of not being accepted ....or when meeting other swingers say they are totally straight ? because they are nervous that the couple will run for the nearest door if they disclose that he is bi. Is that acceptable or should they be honest and say he is bisexual ,she is straight and be proud of who they are...not hiding or lying about important facts like that in the lifestyle. Who cares if people can not handle what your sexuality is just move on ...but in the long run it beats lying and pretending to be something your not. Dishonesty is not swinging , it's like kinda like cheating really isn't it ...
