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Has anyone found legit swinger people on Craigslist? I know that there is a lot of junk mail "bots" but aren't there real people on there too?
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Put up a ad on CC it was flagged which I really don't get. Someone answer before hand. We exchanged email most of the day yesterday. He is married wants to see his wife with another man. But at the end of the emails he told me that his wife wouldn't not be part of it but he was still willing to do it be behind her back. I don't feel comfortable about it. We don't want or need the drama that may come with it. I told him we are going to pass didn't feel comfortable without his wife.
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So surprisingly to me, last night during hours of fucking, at one point I after I had already cum and was laying next to my wife, she was fucking herself with this big,realistic dildo she has trying to make herself cum and I asked her what she was thinking about. She said "fucking a guy off of craigslist!". So I thought she was saying that for my benefit and asked her no really what are you thinking about?, and she repeated the same answer, she was serious. So we started talking about it and I asked if she would be willing to try that sometime, you know, find a guy and then meet him at a bar in town and hang out with him at the bar for several hours and maybe even do that a couple of times before we decide to actually take him back to our hotel room. She said she might be willing to do that! I am shocked. I had thrown that out as a suggestion awhile back, thinking she would NEVER consider it, but apparently she actually is! Do you guys think this would be a good idea, or is it too sketchy and dangerous? I figure it would be similar to Tinder or on-line dating, which is how we met.
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It amuses me to see all of these ads on CL in regards to swinging. I feel that most of them are fake and don't impress me at all. Once in a blue moon I will find a post with normal looking people (no nudie shots) who are interesting, intelligent, but I'm worried they are either flakes or psychotic. Has anyone had a positive or negative experience when it comes to CL and swinging?
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Craig's list emails leads to firing Another good reason to think twice about trying to hookup on line. -
We used craigslist twice and it just turned creepy people which is probably why we were even more curious. Has anyone used craigslist as a means to find someone to play with and turned out to be a good experience? -
Hello, everyone! Long time no post! It's been quite the long time. For awhile we lost all hope in finding that unicorn, but recently we decided to get back into looking for her. So here we are! (female posting, as always). I do have a question, I just want to know if this is common with unicorns. So, we posted an ad on Craigslist (I know, I know: not recommended but we were really careful in what we posted). Got at least five hits in two weeks which is more than what we got on SLS. Sidenote: Our old account got deactivated due to not using it in forever, so we created a new one. So here's hoping we get more hits there. Anyway, I digress. The second girl that replied to our ad was hot. Like, really, really hot. We thought it was too good to be true (turns out it was, but let me finish). Hubby and her trade emails through Craigslist, where you have your real email masked. Then she tells him she wants to email with me, too which is fine. So we do that. Then we trade pics. She wants to know about my experiences, which wasn't much. We talk about all the sex stuff which is fine. Then we wanted to know more about her, like interests, etc. I personally feel more comfortable when I know more about the female than just sex. Couldn't get anything like that out of her, it was like pulling teeth. Then after awhile it turns out she only wanted to be with me, and not the male at all. She claimed to be bi when responding to the ad, but turns out she was a lesbian. We are only interested in playing together, so having the hubby watch isn't going to happen. Then we got another response recently. Did the same thing as above except we got a lot more info that seemed to be legit. She kept wanting to see me completely nude, with face in the picture. Then she sends me a picture of her exposed, ahem...you know. I then ask for a picture like that with her face in it, and she wouldn't do it. Haven't heard from her in over a week. So, basically my question is: Is this normal? Our ad on CL is probably buried under hundreds of other postings so we most likely will not be re-posting there and sticking to SLS, since it seems like you get more verified, real people there. If you got all that, you get a cookie. -
We're somewhat embarrassed to say we use Craigslist due to its reputation, although we defend it fairly vehemently (Example!). We thought that the best thing we could do is outline what helps us determine who is real and who is not, while debunking some common misconceptions. Despite how savvy we think we are, we still get it wrong some of the time though so, feel free to take this with a bit of caution. There are plenty of posts discussing peoples' opinion about Craigslist. This is not one of them A post on CL is a lot like an ad, except you have to renew it if you plan on continuing to use CL as a meet resource. We'd love to hear other pointers on how to navigate the CL environment. Finally, we use CL to find other couples only. Our experiences may not apply to other areas of Craigslist. We do not define ads as fake or real, they are all real. There are no 'bots' on Craigslist, every respondent to your ad and ever ad was created by a human being. Your challenge lies within determining whether or not the poster or respondent is truthful about their intentions; not whether they are real or not. Red flags when viewing ads others have posted: 1. Pictures are 'thumbnail' sized, irregularly shaped, or of their genitalia only. 2. Pictures have copyright or blurred copyright/ownership tags on them. 3. There is too much emphasis on trying to prove the poster is real. For example: multiple mentions of the weather, whether or a local sports team has won or lost recently, asking respondents to add a word to the subject or their response. 4. Abundant use of lingo or stock ad. (Link to Swinger's Board Dictionary). Our definition of a stock ad is the following: "Wife recently changed her mind and we're looking for another couple for full swap. We're not Ken and Barbie and do not expect you to be either. Both DDF, non smokers and looking for the same. The weather is 63 degrees today and the Sox won! Put "some random word here" in your response so we know you're real!" The emphasis is on a one, two or three line ad with common terms and making a point to prove they are real. 5. Too much ambiguity. If you cannot say why they swing, describe how to they look (from a picture or description) or exactly what they are looking for, then their ad is too ambiguous. You should take this is as a sign they are not serious or not truthful. 6. Excessive white lines. If the post starts after 2 or 3+ blank lines, they have done a very sloppy job copying and pasting their ad to other city's sections. Determining if a respondent/poster is posting a fake ad/response 1. Images should be equally sized but you should take into consideration cropping if they are not sending unaltered photos. Images should be sent through email and be larger than 400kb. 2. If there is a clue in the photo to a preference from either party, casually ask them about it in a later email. Similarly, pay attention to whether or not their later answers match up with the information in their ad. For example: He is wearing boxers that say Ohio State University on them. Ask if he is a Buckeyes fan. 3. Simply verify they are who they say they are with a quick call. Both of you should be available at the time of the call, and if you prefer the same from the other couple, ask that they both be present. 4. If something is too good to be true, it probably is. An 11 inch penis is most likely not his. 5. Very quick reference to anal, double penetration, or excessive swinger activities should be a sign of either poor judgement or too much pornographic influence. 6. Requests to trade pictures of wives are always, without fail, false. If you're looking for another couple or person, you should be passing over these anyways. 7. Use of age appropriate terms. If someone is over 30, we do not expect 'lol' to be used after every other word. 8. If the poster refers to themselves too objectively, it is probably a single male trying to live out his fantasy. For example: "the male does x, or the female does y". Use of 'he' and 'she', to an extent, is acceptable! 9. If a respondent or poster quickly jumps to describing, in detail, what they want to see happen or what they'd like to do to you/your partner, etc., it is likely they are living our a fantasy. Positive signs the poster or respondent is truthful 1. Their post or response is detailed, descriptive and lengthy. 2. A picture is G (or X, but not hardcore) rated with both people clearly pictured. 3. They can speak accurately about a local swinger's club. 4. The respondent has CC'd his or her partner or does so in a later email. 5. Knowledge of the local area or lingo is helpful. This helps demonstrate an understanding of the area. Common Myths 1. There is no such thing as 'bots' responding to ads. Once you understand what you mean by 'bot', you'll understand why this is not a realistic concern. 2. Asking for a respondent to put a word in the title will prove the respondent is real. All posters are real, the question is whether or not they are truthful. Personal Notes 1. If you post an ad and it is very, very obvious you are truthful, at least half of the respondents will be real/truthful. Thoughtful ads that relate a quick impression of how long you've been swinging, who you are and what you are looking for, why you are looking for it especially with a link or mention of a paysite profile; will have equally truthful respondents. 2. Posting a picture does not tremendously help your cause if your ad is truthful and well thought out. Pictures are quick ways out of putting work into your ad. 3. A mention of 'No Single Males' in your ad will not deter single males. This requires patience over a quick tongue. 4. A 'pic collector' is someone whose goal it is to collect as many pictures as possible of yourself and your partner. Ask yourself, have the pictures you've sent given the other couple a reasonable expectation of your looks and physique? If so, feel free to voice your questions about their intentions. 5. Craigslist is the only resource for letting the area know you'll be at a bar, club, or restaurant and are looking for another couple or single person. Simply posting that you will be at X tonight and are looking for another couple can have very positive results. We've been using Craigslist for 5 years (off and on). If you can navigate the internet, you should not have much trouble with Craigslist ads Real Examples Section This is what a picture collector's post looks like: This is what a post that is non-truthful ad looks like: Another! This is a truthful ad (Can you see why?): Another!
