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Some insight please- mmmmm I’m craving
hunterdonNJcpl replied to Lynnishungry's topic in Finding People to Swing With
Show up a little early next time. Folks generally mingle a little early in the evening and sometimes you can make connections before things begin to heat up later. Just don't be shy! Otherwise, as @njbm says, it's perfectly fine to cozy up next to a couple in an open playroom and politely ask to join. I promise you won't offend any one. -
Some insight please- mmmmm I’m craving
njbm replied to Lynnishungry's topic in Finding People to Swing With
At a club, spot a couple that you like in the playroom. Play with your spouse next to them. Ask them if they want to play. -
My husband and I have been in the lifestyle somewhat for awhile but we have been more reserved as we don’t know how to find others. We enjoyed our time at a club last night, being naked, playing with each other, so amazing. However, I was reserved because I haven’t been with a woman in awhile, and I want to be fondled, played with by men and women alike but I wasn’t sure if I could just go up to someone and ask them if o can touch them or if when I was being pleased by my husband if I could just join in with someone else. Any advice welcome- looking to meet more like me!!
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That's very true. She had experiences when she was younger where she was teased about certain aspects of her body, and even after we were married she was very shy and embarrassed about it - which ironically led to exhibitionism, which then led to swinging. Crazy journey when I think about it.
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It may not have been a lack of confidence, rather social and religious indoctrination about her body.
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That was loving, kind, and generous. Did it also feel liberating for you?
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it might be time to post a few pix!
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Two other thoughts: When Clair got pregnant by David despite being on birth control, she was upset and offered to have an abortion to keep us "as is" in our relationship. It took me about two seconds of thinking about it to decide that there was no reason not to start having children. We took the rest of the day off from work, she took three or four pregnancy tests, we cried together and I immediately decided that I would try to get pregnant as soon as possible so we could have our children as close together as possible. That part of it wasn't hot sex, but it was emotionally charged whenever one of us women was or was trying to get pregnant. Second, while trying to get pregnant is exciting on different levels, trying to make sure it is with the other guy instead of the one who did it the first time is a bit frustrating in a poly situation. Only p-in-v with one and nothing to waste the sperm with the other to save it for the other woman/women. (We had our children together in three tranches.)
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Although my internet research has been brief and shallow, I was disappointed when looking for female cuckolding porn. I believe once more women have been ignored. My desire is to see a wife watching her husband screwing another woman, then the wife getting "sloppy seconds" from her husband - sucking her vaginal juices off his dick, getting him up and off again, and taking whatever remaining ejaculate he can produce, and displaying it in her pussy. All the better if she orally recovers his initial deposit from the other woman's pussy. Trying to sort out the terms cuckoldess, cuckquean, cuckcake is also a challenge.
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Some of the most memorable, satisfying sex for me was after Clair had gotten unintentionally pregnant and I wanted to get pregnant as well, as soon as possible. I stopped the pill and went at it (sequentially 😉) with David and Red. I'm always turned on by the thought of having a living part of the men who I've had sex with living in me for days, but this was better than that. Within three months, one of those little swimmers had found the prize, but we didn't know from which man until after the birth. My next attempt at reproduction was to have Red’s child, since the first was David’s. Nice as well, but nowhere near as thrilling as "potluck."
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my cuckold fantasy with my girlfiend
blackrabite replied to blackrabite's topic in Adventures in Swinging
we went again during the week (on weekend it is reserved for couple but during the week is mostly men) because I knownwe would find mostly men. it was fun let me know if you wann hear the story -
My wife Amy has nice full breasts. It's so exciting when she tells me or her lover "squeeze my boobs". Two of my swinginging partners have little boobs but it's exciting seeing their nipples getting hard as they get close to having an orgasm.
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I appreciate the thoughts, they are all valid! Adam you are on the money because that's exactly what he said when we revisited the prior discussion. Neither of us has any interest in taking that step and he texted back that we only play as a couple and would be happy to see them both soon. Thank you to everyone!
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I’m weaning off porn a bit, mostly because of dopamine fasting and rebuilding my reward system. But I agree, cuckold amateur porn is the hottest because it’s the most genuine expression of that lifestyle on camera. some couples upload videos for no money at all. I have agreed to be in a few videos (that may or may not be in xhamster). Even if I don’t find myself attractive on camera at all, It is really hot to have that piece of media out there.
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It seems to me you may be at a cusp in the LifeStyle. Assuming your husband would like to play with her, he is being careful about your feelings. And he is to be commended for that. Now, assuming you really don't mind if he plays with her without you participating, you may choose to encourage him. This will open up your relationship to soloing, which is simply another flavor. If you have that talk, and he decides to have fun without you, then when/if you decide you'd like to play without him present, he should be willing to allow you this boon. On the other hand, if this is a step either he or you don't wish to take, then you'll still be having fun in foursomes or the other flavors you're already participating in, right?
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I believe I’ve posted this elsewhere, but the absolute hottest sex I’ve ever experienced was to impregnate my (three, but sequentially 😉) wives. No exotic positions, just straight on missionary fucking. At one point I asked a close friend, who was then a veterinary medical school professor of large animal reproduction what was the most effective strategy for getting my wife pregnant. (Hey, from that perspective humans are just another large mammal…) "Cover her as often as you possibly can." YES! 😊 Given that we both had jobs with long hours and long commutes it was amazing how much fucking we did till she conceived.
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If either of you says No then it’s No for both.
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Golden rule in the LS, never take one for the team. It leads to resentment. if the vibe is wrong, just don’t
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Mostly people don't think of reproduction when having sex, they're just wanting sex. Otherwise, sex would be done out in the open and considered a sacrament. And such a tangled mess - desire, jealousy, maybe intense love, sometimes none at all. The instinct is there, and the consequence of reproduction, but the instinct is for the pleasure of interlocking genitals.
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God bless the instinct to reproduce! And thank you Science for effective contraceptives!
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There really is no greater feeling than being in a tight pod or group. you can even say I was “monogamous” with a group of 3 guys and their wives. Once you’ve developed enough comfort and trust to join for sloppy seconds (or thirds or fourths) you know you have made friends for life. I miss that
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To quote Nine Inch Nails, Closer: "I wanna feel you from the inside My whole existence is flawed You get me closer to God You can have my absence of faith I drink the honey Inside your hive You are the reason I stay alive"
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Thank you. I have normalized and even fetishized many things that other people would find unusual.
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I like peculiar, different in femininity.
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Thank you! And I miss Ol' Barney. Haven't seen her in a few years!
