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I haven’t tried CBD oils like Foria, but me and my partner have messed around with best THC gummies a few times, and they really set the vibe. Popping one about an hour before things get started helps you relax and kind of makes everything feel a little more in the moment, if that makes sense.
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With us, I usually coordinate the first couple meets and do all the messaging, although it does flow both ways. After one or two successful meets my wife gets involved and, in most instances, takes over correspondence and scheduling. So sometimes I come home from work and she'll tell me we're seeing so-and-so this werk. Sometimes I come home from work and so-and-so is already there.
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Guess it is just me then
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Swingers clubs in Denver?
Enzo replied to MixnMingle's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
The Ranch is great. We really like their vibe. Upscale and classy and super sexy. We always have fun when we go. This couple did a great Scarlet Ranch review of our local club. There's also Mon Chalet which is a cheaper version, not classy, but sleazy and sexy. They also did a Mon Chalet review. We haven't been there yet but it sounds like a sleazy sexy hotel you gotta try once!- 1 reply
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I've heard of Scarlet Ranch... anyone been? What's it like? Anywhere else?
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This relationship is still new, primarily we are “dating” without much contact with my friends, many know my past. Once he gets to socialize with my friends he might catch on to how well we know each other. You say most guys would be excited to join in the LS, I don’t want our relationship, wherever it leads to be based on this, I want to make sure the attraction is us not the other things Thank you Kelli Our relationship is still new, more than just friends. He met my roommate, I don’t think he has any idea we are “close” roommates. I tend to agree sooner is better because my life will give question to someone close to me. Thank you. Smiling through wounds that will take more time if ever to heal. I am trying to be more cautious in my choices.
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Living in Utah I can attest that there are many active Mormon couples in the Lifestyle, and I've swung with them and Catholics that would play until 3:00 AM or so and then go to church in the morning with rug-burned knees.
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Has anyone swapped spouses…for awhile?
WesternSwing replied to njbm's topic in Adventures in Swinging
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Ummm. Yeah... No. Those rules are HUGE red flags for me. Creepy, controlling, and borders on kidnapping. To each their own, but I would have ended the night right there and blocked them on the swinger's site.
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I've always though the opposite -- kind of. I've done and watched quite a few gangbangs and have noticed that it can be kind of awkward for the men. You usually have two or three guys who are occupied with the girl at one time and the rest are just hanging around, trying to stay hard and hoping their turn comes soon. You can tell they want to tap in but some aren't sure about the etiquette and it can get a little weird. There are some groups of guys out there who do gangbangs pretty routinely, so they all know each other and kind of have the script down. I have found that I enjoy those gangbang groups because everything goes pretty smoothly and you don't have the awkwardness that you would have with a group of random guys who don't know each other. I've never seen a girl get gangbanged who didn't really want to be gangbanged. That includes myself.
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I user to think that, but in our 27 years of LS experience we have seen a few women who love it. One night at one of our fave clubs (that allows single males) we saw a woman take on what appeared to be a dozen guys. It was quite a spectacle. Later that evening we bumped into her and I asked how many men she had. Her only answer was "Not enough. Never enough".
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Not often, but a few times we couldn’t wait to get the hell out of there after sex.
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Hi Lioness. It's nice to see you posting again. I won't pretend to know the exact nature of your relationship, so I really can't tell you when the right time to tell him is. I do think sooner, rather than later is better though. He is likely to find out anyway. It's always a little uncomfortable the hear the question, "So, when were you planning to tell me?" Make sure you tell him before he asks that question.
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We’ve been curious about using stuff like this too, especially after hearing people say how it can change the whole vibe.
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Do other women want to be gangbanged? I read gangbangs are man fantasy not anything most women want. I was exhausted after having sex with 2 men without a rest. Even with a break I was sore the next day with five actual sex. Sex with several men is quite different from having multiple sex with my husband in a night.
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The biggest Gangbang we have held was 30 Guys + 1 woman. She used to meet us once every 3 weeks. Her and her husband were staying in Perth. They are from overseas but hubby had to come here for work for 8 months. Her first Gangbang she asked for 10 guys she rapidly increased the numbers of men in her gangbangs and the last 3 gangbangs were with 30 men. One of the most cum hungry women we have ever met
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Deprivation is harsh discipline.
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Good advice to consider, but from my wife and my perspective one thing stands out Let it flow, both ways. Not that you got to gush everything, but see where it goes. Your parents, your ex-spouse, your childhood, what you wanted, what you achieved. Eventually, when we got to sex, it flowed oh so naturally even though we were totally different - me having been monogamously married for 20 years; her barely older than that, bisexual, many times more partners than me. It was, however, so interesting, loving, intimate, binding. So talk, let it unravel slowly, see how it goes, make you decisions.
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PSULioness, I'm very, very happy to hear that you're smiling again! What you tell him is the truth as best you know it. It's hard to know when the right moment is to discuss such things. The problem is most people wait a lot longer than they should have. Not discussing these things will make it worse with time, not better. Earlier is better. If you've been dating for a couple of months or more, I think the time is now. Make it clear what your wants and desires are, and see if the two of you can get to a common page on this. If not, keep working on it together.
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Since I like anal -- A smooth, vibrating Dildo, 7" x 1.25" and a woman using it in my ass. Makes me hard as a rock, and in 10-12 minutes, make me cum !
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On my Facebook feed . A NY Times article
PeterJ replied to cplnluv1's topic in Swingers and Sex Positivity in the News
The Times Wirecutter section also last year did a comparison of personal lubricants: https://www.nytimes.com/wirecutter/reviews/best-personal-lubricants/ The "Gray Lady: has "evolved" since I was a correspondent for the paper in the late ‘70s through the ‘80s. When I started, the Times forbad the use of "Ms." Women were either "Miss" (single) or "Mrs." (married). 🙄 -
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From The NY Times https://www.nytimes.com/wirecutter/reviews/best-vibrators/?smid=fb-nytimes&smtyp=cur&fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR2sgmU9t-IgqnwWF1mlTT2AJ1_aV7ckcgbEQRluKHBumG-YCKlNlJpo_Fk_aem_WBqgdN--I9eJKsQ8d3SPHw
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https://www.nytimes.com/wirecutter/reviews/best-vibrators/?smid=fb-nytimes&smtyp=cur&fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR2sgmU9t-IgqnwWF1mlTT2AJ1_aV7ckcgbEQRluKHBumG-YCKlNlJpo_Fk_aem_WBqgdN--I9eJKsQ8d3SPHw We have a few of these and Agree that the Wand is one of the best -
Lioness, Durable relationships are built upon shared values. All parties will grow and evolve during a relationship. Behaviors will also change. The values should not. Your/his shared values will shape your behaviors and your growth. Disclosing your past is a behavior. Is that behavior consonant or dissonant with your shared values? Our (Mrs FL and my) shared values are public, frequently communicated, and even listed on our profiles. They are, of course, ours and not (necessarily) yours. For convenience, I list them here: Honesty - Always, even if it seems potentially painful Authentic Affection - Really meaning it when we say/show "I love you". Trust - In each other's actions to do what is "right for us" Communication - Wide open, bidirectional Honor - Honoring each other as individuals with lives that enhance our relationship, not simply "part of our relationship" (Yes, there's an easy-to-remember acronym there: HATCH) If one of us was at a point that we were even thinking of disclosing something undisclosed from our past, we would go back to these five values and ask ourselves whether disclosure--or non-disclosure-- was most consonant with those values. We also happen to have a method for speaking about difficult topics in our relationship. We call it "Safe Haven". Either of us can call for a "Safe Haven" conversation. Here is how it works. 1. The calling party states the need. The other party guarantees undivided attention. 2. The calling party states the situation/concern. The other party is allowed to ask for clarification. 3. Conversation on the topic is suspended for 24 hours to let both parties time to reflect/process/formulate a response. 4. After the 24 hour period of reflection, the other party speaks about what they heard, how they feel, and proposes a go-forward path. We have found this to be a useful tool in our toolset. It is designed to suppress instinctive reaction and unnecessary hurtful remarks. It gives both parties time to reflect not just on the situation, but the likely feelings and visceral responses of the other person. We don't use it often. But, on occasion, it's a very useful way to introduce a sensitive topic. Good luck.
