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Wife is wanting to be naughty and explore it
KatrinaandDriverX replied to Adventurous5682's topic in Curious About Swinging?
Together 34 years and just now discussing your deeply buried 'kinks' ? So much for transparency. Hmm, she wants to be naughty and is good at hiding stuff, your words, not mine. My guess is somehow you've both lived out a sexual experience or two under each others radar or perception. You're simply ready to try it together, for the first time. I'd encourage watching the movie Eyes Wide Shut. Ultimately the film is about a marriage where he (Tom Cruise) is trying to go to, she (Nicole Kidman) has already been. -Katrina - Yesterday
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After several years of active swinging, there really isn't too much left on the sexual bucket list at this point... Bareback makes group experiences soo much better, we've enjoyed that in 6 sums and it would be hot to increase that number to 8 or 10. Creampies, cleanup, sloppy seconds, amazing! We've enjoyed some m/m play, but I haven't had a man cum in my mouth before--I suppose that would be on the list. I suppose the thing I'm really craving is a separate, extended date or minivacation with a particular girl who is becoming increasingly special to me...
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Looks like you are getting back to enjoying life. You are not the first woman to divorce or to be abused. You are fortunate to have good friends who support you. My advice is to be honest with your therapist, what happened to you is not your fault and nothing to be ashamed with. Your history is a learning experience teaching you what to be aware of in future relationships. You are young and have plenty of life ahead of you, enjoy it for you not for what others want.
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Hey Everyone. A couple that my wife and I are swinging with wants us to help build them a shed for swinging whenever we go over to their place. Obviously we're gonna put up walls, a door, electric installations, few windows, lay down carpet, air conditioning, etc. Now, once we are done, we gonna need to decorate. My question is, what would y'all suggest we decorate it with? It can be furniture, toys, different paint colors for the walls, other decorations, etc.
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You are looking for the other 1 in a billion?
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All sound good, but have you considered: "A couple swap of the girls sitting right next to each other while the guys switch places and lick their clits and tongue their vaginas until they cum right there together."?
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Why not? Your lady and your friend (and probably you) would enjoy the two of them playing with new partners. You could just stand aside; it would be a confidence builder for him, especially if you told him that your fiancé really wants a turn with him.
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Bad experience in first threesome
FreshCouple607 replied to Niall's topic in First Swinging Experiences
A similar thing happened to me, but the reverse of it. My fiancé and I, and our best friends had been talking about fooling around for awhile, but we didn’t know where to start. We finally agreed on him and I taking turns, fair trade we were going to double team his girl, and then a day or two later return the favor with mine. The day came and I went over to their house late, everything was going well, and he stopped out of nowhere and said we had to stop because he couldn’t stomach me being quite a bit bigger than him, and went soft in her mouth when he was hearing her cumming from me fucking her. Needless to say, we didn’t finish and the trade was never made. And a few times since he has told me that his girlfriend has brought up that she would like to finish what we started. Which is a little awkward considering she knows it bothered him and it seems she now just wants to have sex with me again. -
We haven’t taken the leap yet, but a few of our biggest fantasies to do together are: 1. A couple swap of the guys sitting right next to each other while the girls switch places and suck our dicks until we cum on the other girl’s face right there together 2. FFM threesome where the girls eat each other out while I fuck them both from behind and she finishes me onto the other girl’s face and makes out with her 3. MFM threesome taking turns on each end of her and we both cum on her face 4. Full swap with doggy style right next to each other 5. Sex/blowjob on a hotel balcony where people can see and hear us
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We’ve been considering and talking about things for a very long time now. And one of the things I want badly is to see my fiancé taking a huge cock. We know 100% of each others histories and experiences, and she’s already told me she had an ex in college that was right around 10-10.5 inches and that it was great for a few minutes but then it mostly just hurt because he just rammed the bottom of her pussy. She has said she would try a dick that was as big or potentially be her biggest ever, once or twice just to do it. And I’ve been trying to find the right one ever since she told me that. Admittedly, I’m like 7 1/2 and extremely thick so I’m not worried about too much. And on top of things, she is tiny so I’d love to see a huge cock just absolutely pound her little pussy, and she gives by FAR the best blowjobs I’ve ever had, so watching her work her skills on a massive cock will be so much fun.
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Anyone ever swing in Rome?
Page replied to Bertha's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
wife and i hit swingers 69 and really liked it. we found the vanilla swingers podcast that did a great swingers 69 review. -
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Sue and Tom got it on. He had her over the edge of the bed. His mind drifted into a wife swap scenario. That got him harder. His wife started to orgasm as he held her down by the shoulder blades. Even as her spasms subsided, his thoughts kept going to another man having his wife. Thrusting into her. He was living vicariously himself as he imagined his wife fucking anyone just for the raw pleasure of a horny fuck. So raw, so animalistic, so unavoidable. Another man’s cock just to make her feel more like a woman, more feminine, wetter, more relaxed, more hypnotized for cock. Now he visualized another wife watching passively next to him as they both just observed as their spouses fucked each other like masters. That made his back tingle with goosebumps, the prickly hair stimulating his whole body. Now back from his fantasy it was he that plunged into his auburn-haired wife, her butt naturally swinging back in perfect frequency to his thrusts. She loved it. Being taken. He could tell. Now he could not slow down. With a few more deep strokes his nuts contracted and shot as deep as he could make his pumped lightning go, repeatedly, just the way she liked it, rough, hard, and animalistic, delivering his seed. IF YOU WANT PART TWO, THE CHAT, LET ME KNOW.
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It’s great to have friends you can trust.
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Thank you for still being around. You're part of our community, and we would sorely miss you. We're all in your corner, and cheering for you!
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Simply put: What is said to one is said to both. If you do not want that do not put it out there. The confidentiality of what is between us is absolute.
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Do you try to keep your kinks a secret?
lovefest04 replied to Anon321's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
I'll chime in. Our 45 year relationship is partly based on our open, honest and complete divulgench (is that a word) of information. There are only a handful of things that friends have asked me not to share and sometimes I don't. I tell folks up front if our conversation gets into delicate waters, that I share almost everything with my wife. I won't go running to her to tell her things, but I won't lie when asked. It's worked really well for years. My opinion, and that's all it is, is that the activities completed during 'hot'GF'ing' would be open for complete disclosure. In fact, that would be some of the hottest shit out there. I love to hear of her escapades, it's part of the game. Sounds like you're having a great time and I see no reason why she should keep anything in that space private. -
Life has many paths with some roads leading back to the starting line. Eight years ago I spent a night with a college friend and her boyfriend after a snowstorm at a football game. Plenty has happened to me since that night, engagement, learning some friends were swingers, getting married, an open marriage, a pregnancy that was terminated, a divorce, an abusive relationship and lots and lots of therapy. My life returned to what some call normal, dating men and occasional women. That original friend married, not the boyfriend I knew, had disappeared from my life and now reemerged. Not the scene of the crime she called and asked if I wanted to join her and her husband to the football game at our school. Reluctant to be “used” and anxious to feel free, I agreed. I found out another sorority sister my ex and I had played with had also married, a guy I never met, were also going to the game. The hardest part was reliving my last few years, I only gave an abbreviated retelling. With that all told both of the husbands couldn’t have been sweeter to me.
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It is always sad, a void created when we loose someone we have known and shared thoughts with even if we never met them in person. He will be missed.
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In our hotwifing (well, hot-GFing) lifestyle, we are at a place where the rules are very simple; if my GF consents to it, it's fine. Obviously a lot of the guys she fucks are good friends of ours. They were either my friends, her friends, friends we met together, etc. Obviously we engage with strangers as well but that isn't related so much to this. Anyway, what I've noticed over the years is that some guys, especially some of my close friends, have requested to keep some of their actions or kinks private between them and my GF. Of course early on my GF was a bit hesitant to divulge all of the information as she felt awkward or bad about it but ultimately she does. Nowadays she pretty much just opens up to me about everything, which is how we like it. However, I told her early on that I would never tell any of my friends that she told me about what they did or what they requested to do if they asked her to keep it private from me. Have any of you tried to explore your kinks, fetishes, etc., this way while trying to also keep them private? Do you actually think the person wouldn't divulge it to their SO?
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God welcome them both home.
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It's funny how the power dynamics work. My GF always liked to pretend that her boss had all the power. So she would submit to all of his requests, even a few things that made her a little uncomfortable (which is rare) because he had the "power" over her and she "had to do it." In reality, this was just her playing into her submissive fantasy. He was the superior and she was the subordinate and he would have gotten into a lot more trouble than she would have if she ever decided to come forward about the relationship (which she never would have done anyway). So, in a way, she really held most of the power in that respect, even though she didn't want to think of it that way.
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RIP Alura
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My partner and I are looking at taking a holiday together. I noticed the hotel takeovers don’t tell which hotel until a paid booking is made. My concerns are hotel quality (I do like nice) and location from other tourist activities we may want to do. Also we do love the idea of themed dance parties as listed in one. Good music not ear splitting loud, not a fan of techno or remixes. I’m wondering other’s experiences, what the play spaces/ where you can play are like. We’re also looking at Desire Maya Riviera. Best times of year to go? Same questions as above.
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Hey all! Been out for some drinks with work colleagues the other day and as I kinda fancy one of them, not sure if he does or not, we end up talking. He said he goes to swingers club and want to meet me for a drink to discuss planning. I never been to such things and I must admit I am intrigued and would want to but it’s like I have all this silly questions in my head that I don’t want to ask him as it might be embarrassing. I think I look more confident than I really am. Help by sharing your first night at a swingers club🤦🏻♀️ all details! Ta x
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55 and up still swinging?
Fundamental Law replied to Bill George's topic in Finding People to Swing With
As with most seemingly simple questions, the answers are rather more complex. There are really two questions here. The first, how long do couples keep swinging, admits to a range of answers. Some never try it, some try it once, some are off and on, some see it as a hobby, some see it as part of their identity as a couple. Longevity in the LS generally means one of the last three categories. If you have met one couple, you have met one couple, which explains the two questions--how did you start in the LS and (more often implied than posed) what keeps you here? The second, about 55+. Passion has no expiration date. The question becomes why is there attrition at 55+? More often than not, it's for health reasons, or for loss of interest by one or the other partner. It's usually not because there is a problem with the relationship. Marriage specifically and relationships generally have an arc; there's plenty of literature on this. What we do not see in older couples long in the LS is a threat of "grey divorce"--they are generally happy with themselves, happy with each other, happy in their relationship. We know plenty of couples who were in sexless or otherwise unhappy first (and even second) relationships who seem quite happy and content to be in the LS with their current (and often final) relationship. We'll add that older couples in the LS tend to look after each other and make sure that health and wellness are prioritized. What does tend to change with age is the character of LS behaviors. The excitement of finding the next couple wears thinner, and many older couples have people they know well, have travelled with or encounter in groups and so on. The reason is that in the seventh and eighth decades of life (60s and 70s) there is a natural tendency to simplify and declutter life. The awareness that at least 2/3 of life is past triggers a focus on "what matters to us". Usually it is not NSA sex but rather sustaining and deepening relationships. You are not "late to the party", but it does beg the question "what has happened that has catalyzed curiosity and interest now?"
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