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Football loyalty is much more important than politics!
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I cant believe that in 2024, men are still getting online and chatting as if they are their wife.
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I can see both sides to this post. The OP is new to the lifestyle and needs a comfort zone. Read her posts, on vacation she was relaxed, her inhibitions disappeared in that comfort. I’m not a therapist, to me she is looking for sex without pressure or guilt. Many look for sex as the main focus of swinging, it certainly is the reason though others want the social factor too. Politics aside we would go to football games in NJ wearing my Giants jersey and approached Eagles fans. Sex with the enemy!
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Only having dick pics on your profile is like!
TricianMike replied to enhancer's topic in Swingers Talk
How about the Gallery right here on the board? Dick pics? Pussy pics? Boob pics? Why? -
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I posted that as its own post so as not to make it personal towards you. I am sorry, as it seems as if it was taken that way. It was not my intention and I should have worded it better. I am concerned, in general, that many Americans are afraid of each other based political beliefs. That makes me sad.
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Only having dick pics on your profile is like!
enhancer replied to enhancer's topic in Swingers Talk
An even bigger wtf is guys that post a pic of their dick with a women’s face going down on them, but no face pics of themselves anywhere on their profile! Like anyone is going to trust a guy who puts other people who have no clue out there , but not themselves. Huge fail. -
Only having dick pics on your profile is like!
GoldCoCouple replied to enhancer's topic in Swingers Talk
A woman that posts nothing but pics of her vagina...is probably a dick (as in a 'guy') as well. -
My Angel said the same thing about men not leaving wives yet she fears a man falling in love with her so she limits the number of times she will meet. Angel once told me she met 4 men in three days.
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Just saw “Palm Swings” last weekend with my husband, and I agree it one of the best movies that represents the Swinger Lifestyle. Me and my husband thought it would be like “Swinging with the Finkels” with Martin Freeman and Mandy Moore. This movie ain’t. Palm Swings really goes all in. It was like watching a softcore porno. It on Tubi which is free for anyone that is interested on watching it. Quite surprising it was originally made in 2015, then released in 2017. But both IMDB and Tubi said that the release date was in 2020. Not sure why they have different dates of release. I highly recommend in watching this especially if you’re thinking about it being swingers or you’re in the newlywed phase of the swingers lifestyle. This movie does give advice on the do’s and don’t of the lifestyle. Some spoilers ahead, if you can call it that. You are warned. 1- Don’t be afraid on making friends. Talk to them. Have 1on1 conversations with them. Have a talk with the wife/gf. Have a talk with the husband/bf. Then switch. Have a better understanding of the lifestyle from both sides of the relationship. Many of them give good insight into the lifestyle. 2- I don’t recommend that your first official swing be a key party like the movie. You 2 should share the pleasure in the same room. But to each their own. 3- And Don’t be afraid in talking to your significant others in what you want to do and try. And also Don’t be afraid to tell your significant other on what you do NOT want to do. It took me and my husband a good year to fully integrate and be fully comfortable into the lifestyle. Yes we had our bumps in the road. A bit my fault. I knew I was going too fast in the early stages but I was having too much fun. But we talked and we worked it out. We had people that help us out.
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You are right, we read the signs and flags as negatives as we knew it was a “sex party”, the hostess could have been a very willing participant and she wanted everyone to know she wanted to F*ck Biden. I don’t know how we misread her intentions.
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The real issue here seems to be the assumption that people strongly for the "other side" cannot be trusted to be safe. I cannot imagine thinking another human being is not safe to be around based on his or her political leanings in any direction.
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Political signs are about both saying who one is for and hoping to influence others. I'd say that proselytizing is the whole point of political speech. People often put political signs in their yards. Friends of mine have done that, voting for the "other guy". Does not mean they are still not friends. Now, if you don't want to swing with anyone who is engaged in political speech like that, that is 100% your business.
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Ah, but go watch 'Excalibur' (1981) if you can find it - your library might have a copy. It's the clear, unvarnished story of the adultery of Guinevere. Since the story was created sometime in the late Middle Ages, and the film stays fairly consistent with that, it doesn't turn out as happily ever after. -
And in the "Nothing wrong with that" category, the OP says So as a couple, they are a mix of provocative and conservative. Nothing wrong with that, but I would think that they would have more success looking in the gay world for oral only encounters where the wife could watch. I question, however, how she will be "off limits for anyone but me," potentially engaging in sex with her husband, yet "but never nude." -
Turned on by the thought of having sex with another man's wife
couplers replied to Numex's topic in Swingers Talk
Although I hope that for our children non-monogamy will be normalized in society, still personally I agree: "I thank God I was raised Catholic, so sex will always be dirty." -
Pre-birth control on an instinctual level, women wanted more than one man, but are (unlike men) choosey about who they reproduce with. So I wouldn't say "sluts." With bc, women can put the reproductive aspect out of mind and have the option of recreational sex and being sluts. In that context, it is attractive because of its daring. Paternity testing has also added an intellectual aspect to what once was instinctual.
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Hopefully, a day will come when having a spouse does not demand nor expect monogamy. The story of King Arthur and Lancelot sharing Guinevere is a Disney movie.
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"Ask Amy" is an nationally syndicated advice column by Amy Dickinson of the Chicago Tribune. I got this from the Washington Post.
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A slippery slope. Did other women participate in the activities, or were they spectators?
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It's my belief that women are naturally sluts and men naturally, although perhaps unconsciously, competitive when fucking to make it his baby. Especially with his wife or partner. So she wants multiple loads and he naturally gets excired wanting to get his chance in there as well. Very exciting for both of us. We were eager for us to get it on afterwards. Frictionless
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I don't know who Amy is or why the writer is asking for her opinion, but at least her response considers "lifestyle" options. -
I, and I believe most men, appreciate a pretty cunt as much as a pretty face. If those are the only pictures though, that's weird.
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It's not a problem that someone has political leanings, even strong ones. It becomes a problem when they need to make it in your face, proselytizing.
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The same with me. I have a SO and a bf, but in reality the distinction is already superficial now. I have child from both. The relationship naturally evolved into polyamory. The only problem is if your wife is not wired as polyamorous. If the mindset is mono, she might choose only one of you. You have to explore her wiring. If she is mono, tell her it's game over on your swinging lifestyle.
