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OK...here's another...WR and I are on a roll over here! Choose your pleasure...remembering...this is for the REST OF YOUR LIFE - regardless of location, status, age, urge...only one choice! - EBF EDIT: by the way...this is BOTH receiving and giving. You can only receive and give oral, for example. Masturbation - self or mutual, but that would be IT! Hmmm....once again, I wasn't too clear, but WR would not let me make lots of choices.
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Okay the question is what is your number one sexual thought? The one act or thing that is sexual you find yourself thinking about the most? Yes I know everyone with a healthy sex drive thinks about a whole lot of sexual things through out the day, but is there one thing that seems to dominate those thoughts? Maybe it is giving or receiving oral, anal sex, tit sex, making out, some fetish, a position, Dom/sub thing, threesome, foursome or moresome, good old P in the V or whatever it might be for you! Also if you have a partner what is theirs if you know?
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I've been told by several men that I have a tight pussy. The first time I heard that I was quite surprised as I have had 2 children and thought I was probably otherwise. The first saying this was quite large in girth....7 x 6 1/2". I'd never been with a man that thick and the first time I saw him, I blurted out, "It's a damn tree trunk!" He was flattered.....but I was concerned it would fit.....thankfully it did. So I thought him saying I was tight was simply because of the size difference between us. He had been a swinger in the 70s and said there was only one woman he remembered and it was because she was tight, and I was the same. But others have been average and said the same. My Love is not average...at least I don't think so.... 7 1/2 by 5 1/2 ...and he is perfect for me. He also says my pussy is tight. Anyway, I would like men's opinions on our 'opening', and like the questions regarding a man's equipment, does a woman's size matter? My guy was with one lady who was just so loose/large that nothing happened and he had to stop...no friction...which surprised him as she was quite petite. As an aside...For fun I took a photo of my guy's erect penis. One day my SIL was looking at photos from a European trip I'd just taken. Sitting beside her I saw that the next image was going to be of that perfect dick...she looked so surprised when I grabbed the iPad from her so quickly...TMI for my SIL!!!!
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The very 1st time... Was it exciting, nerve racking, defeating? What was the conversation after the fact, did it effect you two negatively? Also did you discuss it before it happened? We are new and I am just unsure how it will effect me and/or her. She has been with 3 other guys since we started about 3/4 months ago. I have not had to deal with the above question yet, so looking for some insight from others.- 43 replies
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I find it difficult to cum through sexual intercourse with my wife before she gets raw and have me pull out. However with another woman, I can only last a minute or two before I reach the point of orgasm and have to slow down. I'm bareback with both women. I've been wondering why that is the case. My wife is thin while the other woman is a bit curvy. The other woman's pussy also feels a lot better than my wife. Maybe the curviness makes her pussy feel better. Novelty? I've been married to my wife for over 25 years and have only been having sex with the other woman for a couple of years. I don't feel the rush of NRE with the other woman when I'm with her. There isn't an emotional attachment. It's just sex. My wife has a low sex drive due to anti-depressants My wife has sex with me because I'm horny and she's doing it out of duty while the other woman is always horny. I'm thinking that this other woman exudes sex pheromones which my body picks up subconsciously. What are your thoughts and observations? Thanks in advance.- 16 replies
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It came to mind recently and I thought it would be fun to hear everyone chime in on their preferred speed of rhythm in bed. I actually do like it fast and it does seem like a lot of men prefer that as well. I only know of a very limited few who wanted to go slow with me.
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If you had something done to you sexually by the other wife or husband of a couple, do you tell you SO that they did something soooo good that it was the best ever, better than even you SO. If you do tell your SO, how do you bring it up or tell your SO?? I am interested in hearing from both sides on this issue. Thanks everyone! -
We have been active as a couple since November. We have met and played with about half a dozen couples since then. While the pre-play lead up, initial touching and foreplay, and actual sex is fun, we're finding it's not as satisfying or gratifying as when we play alone. This includes hotel play, hosting, and clubs. Is this normal? We realize the thrill of a new partner adds a charge to the scenario, but both of us has come away agreeing that it's not fulfilling. Has anyone else experienced this? We are beginning to think that this is good as a diversion/charge to our sex life. However, if there's not a better outcome, we've discussed curtailing our swinging playtime.
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Anyone have any tips for increasing sensitivity while using condoms? I've heard some people put a little extra lube on the inside of the condom, but I'd be a little worried it would fall off during intercourse then. We've been using lifestyles skyn and some other assortments of lifestyles condoms, and they all seemed pretty much the same to me. The people we tend to play with almost always have a latex allergy so non-latex is the way to go. Keeping hard isn't the problem... but getting "there" is! I usually get tired, call it a night, and plan on finishing with my wife after. But it's just a little downer not to be able to get there with a play partner. I've only came twice so far using condoms with play partners and it's quite frustrating. I'm sure a big part of it is mental and not just the condoms, but it sure could help to have a little help. lol!
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I Just Wanted To Know How Many Women Out There Do Or Don't Get Pleasure From Giving Head. My Wife Says She Gets No Pleasure From Giving Head. I Have Heard A Lot Of Girls Say They Get So Horny From Giving Head, And They Love To Eat The Cum And They Get So Much Pleasure From Doing This. So I Want To Know From The Ladys If You Get Pleasure From Giving Head And Do You Eat The Cum?
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Here's a simple little question for you... They say practice makes perfect. Have you found that through swinging you and/or your partner have gotten better in bed? It also seems that what a lot of swingers seem to enjoy sexually could be considered somewhat extreme (i.e.; DP, gangbangs, dungeon play etc...) Would you say that your experiences as a swinger has made you more receptive or for lack of a better word, more "kinky"? or are these things that you were already doing before you got into swinging?
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This may be the most important thread for men in recent recorded history. In fact, it may be so important that I could be the first primate winner of the Noble Prize. Chances are, if you don’t find value in this thread you hate pie, cute babies and all the things that make our country great* Here’s my theory about haunted houses. They really aren’t that scary. But, if you buy into them, they can be creepy as hell. Mrs Spoo and I love haunted houses because we know how to buy in, to really let ourselves be scared. And we always get our money’s worth! You see, being scared is what the haunted house guys are trying to do, but I can spoil that simply by not letting myself get into it. Being scared, therefore, is not so much their job as it is mine. They are doing their part – and when I do mine, it is an amazing experience! So – let’s apply that to sex. Men – the good ones anyway – obsess about their equipment and/or ability to please a playmate. I know for me, I read as much stuff as I can, I work out, I try to make myself fun for the person I am lucky enough to be with (which is usually Mrs Spoo – and I consider that the greatest luck of all!) So – I will start with the assumption (which, admittedly, often doesn’t fit, but for most of the men around here, is probably workable) that the men are doing their part. Where the theory comes in is with the women buying into the experience. I am quite sure that it is not me who gives a woman an orgasm as much as it is her who allows herself to have one. Women can certainly block the best efforts. There are two keys to this (as I see it): Chemistry, which is unpredictable and impossible to manipulate. It is either there, sometimes in the form of visible sparks, or it is not. Comfort, which is just a positive rapport that two people have that makes each able to relax and enjoy a situation. Both can increase the other, I think. Where there is chemistry there will be more comfort. Where there is comfort, chemistry can be found. “Buying in” to the experience does not mean pretending you are enjoying lame sex. Not at all! There will always be lame experiences – mostly because I can’t make ever male read this, the most important thread in the history of the written word. But, for those of us who do read it, the questions are these: What can a man do to help increase your comfort level? What helps you relax in a situation and “buy in”? That’s it! The answers to those questions – from women who are familiar with themselves and with what works, what doesn’t – are the Holy Grail that we men seek! It is not the dozens of penis enlargement spam we receive in our email every week. It is right here, in this thread. Your answers will raise this from the best board for swinging information on the net to the single greatest resource for mankind – a monolith of wisdom and evolutionary potential, ala 2001 – A Space Odyssey. Help us evolve, ladies. Help us help you -
After spending a HUGE amount of time reading many of the forums,( actually borderline ridiculous sometimes, lol ), and thinking about some of the responses that I have read, and sometimes thinking, " YES, YES, I get it", but then I'll encounter something that I'm a little uncomfortable with and think, " Ohhh, NO, NO, forget it", I HAVE TO ASK........Does anyone here think that its possible, for monogamous sex to be HOT??? Now I know that as time passes, itcan be a little difficult to keep things " spicy", but if you love eachother, and are committed to the relationship, AND ARE WILLING TO PUT IN THE EFFORT.....Is it not within the realm of possibility?? Swinging.....sometimes I TOTALLY get it......sometimes I can't even fathom it! Do you think that all those who practice monogamy ( more than happily I might add), are for the most part denying themselves an aspect of thier sexuality, that if they opened their minds for just a few seconds.....could possibly lead to some of the most mind blowing sex of their lives?? I hope that made sense, I can usually voice my opinion pretty well.
