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Maybe TMI here. We are somewhat new just playing a handful of times. We have attended 2 parties and have played with two couples alone. Both of our one on ones were without protection. Parties play was safe only (mostly safe). When my husband and I are alone we haven't use protection in forever. Birth control and both of us being fixed. We really never had to deal with stopping in the middle or mood busting. I sort of don't remember the hassle and what the implications of using a condom were. We have enjoyed our sex life and what we do in bed. We have easily gone from one position to another, oral to sex back to oral. We both enjoy oral so we sometimes stop in the middle of sex and return to oral. My most enjoyable orgasm come from me on top and from oral. My husband says he many times thinks he cums the most from oral so even after having sex he like me to continue with oral. It is just our way. I told him to me I couldn't tell the difference during the sex act, once we are in the act I felt the same. He said it is completely different. He said he lost the feel of the woman and the heat of her body. He also missed the changing of going to oral and back again. He never even went there knowing that a blow job with a condom is stupid to him. I asked him if he would rather we don't go to these parties again. He was honest and said he liked the idea of swinging but he just has to get used to the condoms. He also said we had been with 2 of the couples with using so isn't the use of them with other couples a waste.
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Anyone have any tips for increasing sensitivity while using condoms? I've heard some people put a little extra lube on the inside of the condom, but I'd be a little worried it would fall off during intercourse then. We've been using lifestyles skyn and some other assortments of lifestyles condoms, and they all seemed pretty much the same to me. The people we tend to play with almost always have a latex allergy so non-latex is the way to go. Keeping hard isn't the problem... but getting "there" is! I usually get tired, call it a night, and plan on finishing with my wife after. But it's just a little downer not to be able to get there with a play partner. I've only came twice so far using condoms with play partners and it's quite frustrating. I'm sure a big part of it is mental and not just the condoms, but it sure could help to have a little help. lol!
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Joined the board last fall, after the wife & I had one random swing (several years ago) and several soft swing experiences, all great times! We finally decided to go for it! Business, kids, the economy - you name it, has gotten us off to a slow start! But were ready to get on with things. The problem I have is condoms! I didn't think I was overly big (about 8", maybe 8 1/2" on a good night) but I guess I'm pretty thick (in our only experience the lady grabbed my manhood and her comment was "Ohhh - a thick one!". First of all I hate condoms for the obvious reasons but realize they're essential, my problem is they strangle my penis! I even tried a Trojan Magnum and it seemed no better, it's like when you were in grade school and you wrapped a rubber band around your wrist until your hand throbbed - same thing! I spent $15 at the Hustler store today to buy "Kimono Large Condoms" today only to find they're smaller than the Trojan Magnums! I could sure use some advice, does anybody make a larger condom? Or are there any other techniques to help relieve the stranglehold pressure?
