What would you do going to a new vanilla friends home for dinner?

Do that.

46 minutes ago, cplnluv1 said:

Good for you. I wish others looked at sex as only a fun thing. 
If it doesn’t hurt anybody it should only be fun. 

Old joke: how do you get to Carnegie Hall?

I've talked about this on here before, but when Mrs. E and I first met, she was actually pretty reluctant to give head. Sometimes it would happen in the course of third dates, etc., but she felt it was extremely intimate and a little too scandalous to do casually. I was from a very different background where I was used to women giving head casually to put off intercourse.

The funny part is, she gives amazing head. When we started talking about exploring with others, one of my biggest fantasies was seeing her suck cock, and she was open to it but struggled with the idea of finding a third comfortable to try it on.

As we got started, whenever she'd get a little anxious about boundaries around trying specific sex acts, what I'd think of her, if it was too much too fast, my go-to was "it's just cum". You've picked somebody you're comfortable hugging, comfortable kissing and exchanging saliva with, comfortable having your nipples stimulated by, comfortable stimulating their penis. Ejaculation is what men's bodies do. Sure, we reserve cumming inside her for us as an intimate act, but the fluid itself is just another thing that gets spread around during play and it's not a big deal.

We've both evolved a long way about sex and bodies through experimentation. She's at the point where she just wants to know her hair is out of the way and there's a towel and a shower, she's putting on a show with her body and comfortable in her skin - which she really should be. She doesn't think twice about semen anymore, and she knows I'm sincere about loving the theater around it and don't think less of her.

The punchline: Practice, practice, practice.

10 hours ago, ROCKlandCpl said:

When a friend asks me why I let him do something my standard answer is if I didn’t like it I wouldn’t do it. At my age I’m there for the laughs and giggles. 

Good for you. I wish others looked at sex as only a fun thing. 
If it doesn’t hurt anybody it should only be fun. 

When we first registered we had blurred pictures on our profile with full face shown when we believed the others were not fake. We had full nudes, non-sexual pictures we would share as our texts went along. 
Presently our picture is blurred again. 

People are who they are and there are no set rules for social graces in the LS for meet n greets, situational setups or for just plain ol’ sex play.  I’m not including parties or an organized gatherings.  Just plain one on one, couples or themed play sessions.

During our years of hosting parties, threesomes, moresomes or fantasy experiences I would always advise single/solo males on expected etiquette, behaviors….expectations.  I often, for first time single/solo male party attendees that bringing a single flower (no roses) for each female attending or a nice bar of chocolate to hand out when introduced to wives/girlfriends, single and solo ladies was a great icebreaker.  But this was for or semi closed swinger group.  Not open to the public.

under normal/regular LS events maybe not very accepted.