What intimate acts do you reserve just for you and your partner?

[Chris&Amelia 253]

What sex acts do you consider to be "reserved" for your significant other and/or very very special friends?

 

You could vote for multiple items on the poll!

[Brit_Pair 59]

Woman to woman: anything goes. For us, it feels completely different, and doesn't threaten the boundries of our intimacy. As for male-female exchanges, we haven't gone beyond the women in the foursome masturbating the opposite male partner, so we haven't exactly charted the boundaries of our intimacy on that side of things. Intercourse without condoms would definitely remain off the menu.

[teknurse 18]

We have two reserved acts: vaginal intercourse without a condom and anal intercourse with or without a condom. Other than that anything goes as long as we are in the same room and both participating parties agree.

[Vjklander 136]

Using the "L" word.

[OhioCouple 38]

That is basically what we reserve for ourselves too. We are pretty open, as long as all are comfortable and the situation is right.

[Chris&Amelia 253]

Yeah... saying "I love you" to a playmate would be... bad.

[Roxysbayou 19]

I checked other before I saw the anal choice, I don't think that I would do that with anyone but my hubby. Just because it's not my cup of tea, and I have to be really ready to do it, and he has to be very gentle. I would be afraid that someone who doesn't know me would be to forceful. Plus, the STD thing.

[thump29 16]

I would have to say that vaginal intercourse without a condom and anal sex is reserved for my husband only. To me those things are the most personal that you share with your mate.

[naughty A 23]

vaginal intercourse without a condom

 

and absolutely NO anal penetration... no fingers either, too easy to introduce saliva into the anus...

 

okay so I'm phobic about it...

 

The "L" word has never come up... but would definitely make me uncomfortable... except in a joke setting or group setting applicable to both members of a couple ... as in "I love you guys" but I really don't think it ever has come up????

[BradAndJanet 69]

We really can't think of any physical acts, but would use condoms for intercourse under almost all scenarios. Hearing, "I love you", would be most unwelcome and inappropriate from anyone other than J. "I love what you're doing to me!", would be just fine, however.

 

-B

[Misty&Todd 16]

Intercourse without a condom and anal sex with or without a condom ... those are reserved for only hubby and I.

[bbcpl4cpl 17]

Originally posted by teknurse

We have two reserved acts: vaginal intercourse without a condom and anal intercourse with or without a condom. Other than that anything goes as long as we are in the same room and both participating parties agree.

 

This is us to a T! I would just be echoing this statement for our feelings on this.

 

Love,

 

Tigress xx

[Ashley 21]

Finding it hard to believe that french kissing came in third.

[Chris&Amelia 253]

Originally posted by Ashley

Finding it hard to believe that french kissing came in third.

 

I don't. For some, kissing is considered a very romantic and intimate act. Amelia has no problems if I have sex with a another woman, or even go down on her, but I better not kiss her while I'm doing it!

[keila 17]

Intercourse without condom, no anal, and only French kiss the ladies.

[steuge 15]

I would reserved french kiss, and penile-vaginal sex without condom for intimate partner only.

 

I rephrase the questions:

What acts are reserved for your intimate partner? and

What acts would you like your intimate partner to reserve for you?

[lauriern 16]

People with the kissing thing are an automatic "Danger, Will Robinson."

[robnbarb 40]

Been thinking about this a lot.

 

Definitely intercourse without a condom (plus that can be dangerous)

 

Cuddling and snuggling afterwards would be bad (not a simple hug and kiss in the afterglow, I mean lying together for about 20 min).

 

All I have been able to come up with.

[zebrahead7557 15]

Intercourse without a condom. That is way too much sharing.

 

I always tell my husband that he bought the cow, so he can drink milk from the carton & that unless another woman wants to take care of him when he is sick, do our housework, put up with the uncouth inlaws & all of that non-sexual "wife-stuff" everyday, maybe she can have some of his "naturalness"

[KarlnRenee 15]

I voted for vaginal without a condom and anal...those are reserved just for him.

[Avantgarden38 17]

Gosh, looking over this list and the posts we have done everything most people consider too intimate. Including the use of the "L" word.

 

We have been swinging with one couple for two years. It just isn't in me to play with a woman a hundred times and not feel something. I have hugged her and told her I love her. The word love needs to be divided into at least a dozen sub-categories in my opinion. Of course I don't love her the same as my wife, or my mom, or a nice motorcycle, or chocolate cake, or riding in a convertible, or summer vacation, or. . . . . . . you get the idea.

 

My wife and I are 40 years old and have been together 25 of those years. The thought of reserving something just for us never crossed our minds. I suppose we have such a sense of comfort with each other that sharing something physical with someone else just isn't an issue.

 

Either that, or we are just free-love-hippie-sluts.

[dave110256 21]

Kissing is a must during intercourse...but cumming in my wife without a condom isn't going to happen with anyone but me. STD's are too common nowadays...

[Divemaster 52]

I am surprised by the amount of people who have the "kissing" rule. Kissing to me is so much a part of hot sex. Thats like saying "sex=love" or "kissing=intimacy" I disagree with both these terms. Love is in the heart, and intimacy is in the mind.

 

Joe

[BettyAnnMBSC 24]

any pressure for 1:1 private time or "dating"

[sensuality 2]

Betty Ann and Avant Garden...love your avatars... And, absolutely...there should be no 1:1 or pressure to actually date! Can you imagine someone even trying that? But, you'd be surprised!!