What intimate acts do you reserve just for you and your partner?
What acts are reserved for "intimate" partners?
1,566 members have voted
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1. What acts are reserved for "intimate" partners?
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French Kissing334
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Masturbation / Mutual Masturbation70
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Oral Sex performed on him73
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Oral Sex performed on her74
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Vaginal intercourse - with condoms113
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Vaginal intercourse - without condoms688
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Anal intercourse (with or without condoms)689
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Other (post in the comments)49
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None - we have no restrictions with other playmates472
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