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My Angel came home after a tryst looking pained. She meets married men from a cheaters group with my knowledge and shares all with me. She’s a great actress in her sexting messages she has before meeting the married men. The majority are in sexless or very vanilla marriages looking to work out his sexual thoughts. Rape Play is real, I read his messages and her answers. She set boundaries and told me she had safe words and promised to keep her phone close.
I asked her if he hurt her, Yes. With a smile. Did he stop? Once when I used the word.
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21 hours ago, EroticGent said:
Thank you for introducing this very interesting and relevant thread! I have also experienced the challenge of being perhaps too open during intimacy with a female vanilla partner and sharing a fantasy that I found (and still find) arousing. The fantasy included FFM and sex toys. I also simply viewed it as dirty talk and as an opportunity for my partner to see into me and discover my deepest level-- a way to know me more deeply. Alas, that relationship with great sex declined soon after my expression of my fantasy which was just that. I had no intention of pursuing it although if she had expressed a positive reaction that might have led to a wonderful conversation about our hidden desires. I was surprised by her negative reaction even to sex toys alone. She was unwilling to discuss her reaction to my dirty talk. In retrospective, I am grateful I discovered this side of her early since I prefer ladies and couples with great open minds and with a desire to explore sexually. Fortunately, the fantasy did eventually turn into reality with other females and couples. The reality was indeed amazing; so glad I found the right partners with whom to take the leap from fantasy to reality!
It can be difficult without the right communication, and impossible to enjoy with a partner unwilling to communicate like you experienced. Some are put off if it doesn't align with their own fantasy, some want to please and go about making that fantasy said in the moment come to fruition, some make unnecessary judgements... So much can go wrong when we let someone into our head like that, especially under the most heightened arousal. I absolutely loved that I can do that with my husband and not worry about anything at all. Screwing that up would be like losing trust to me. I'm glad I decided to ask an open minded group here, one that my husband had actually told me about. Thanks for your understanding and encouragement!
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lcmim 1,000
Other than one that I or someone I trust very well I am about as likely to to even get into a hot tub as I am to swim in their toilet. That includes hotels and clubs. I have made the exception in hotels when the chlorine made my eyes water.
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5 hours ago, lovefest04 said:
I love a woman that can and will express her fantasies during sex and outside of sex. I DO NOT however, expect any of those fantasies to be made real.
I think teasing and foreplay (as it was once called) are super hot. They are lubricant for the mind and when used before, during and even after sex, makes the entire experience more fulfilling. At least for me.
I'd hope your husband can enjoy the moment, and not assign expectations. Really being in the moment is hot as fuck.
Enjoying the moment is exactly what I worried was in jeapordy. For both of us! How not fun to imagine my husband playing along but thinking "suuure" in response to me. He was not, but I got caught up in some over thinking about it.
Awhile back I went through a whirlwind of trying to make something happen, in real life and outside of my current comfort level, similar to what I'd expressed as a fantasy in the moments. Not really from any pressure from him, but it truly intrigues me up until and honestly way too close to actual circumstances. So confusion, expectation and ultimately disappointment led to shelfing that fantasy talk. Then, a couple of moments felt very familiar and I wondered...have I completely ruined sex talk? Which would just be the worst as yes - super hot!
Turns out I ruined nothing at all. Viva la "tease!"
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