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curiius 0
I am really curious about a meet with another couple but don't know how I would feel seeing my partner with another man. What was your first experience like and how did you feel
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Shore2Please 539
11 hours ago, Half MT said:In our intro:
We are early 30s
I was a virgin when we married with my only other sex being extremely limited before with no total sex
Congratulations on living. Not many women can claim that on this group.
I take your comment as your husband was not the first intimate man or was it a girlfriend you played with.
We are told not to compare or ask was it better but we all know it will be different. For me it was the difference that attracted me not the comparison to past lovers just as my husband is different than lovers I had before our marriage. My advice is incorporate what those differences you felt into your marriage sex. I can tell you are willing to talk with your husband, do it while that glow is fresh.
Be careful what happens next, don’t rush. As you and HunterdonNJ our first was after a natural meeting in a non-swapping environment- 1
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42 minutes ago, oldswinger64 said:
Wow, you sound very angry, not just at swinging, but at females in general. There are no guarantees in life, or in swinging. You want a guarantee, then go to a hooker.
After many years in and out of the lifestyle, I have learned that appearance is a small portion of what attracts women to men. There are so many other levels, and yes, a formal date can bring those out. And a formal date can also show the woman that the person is not right.
I would suggest you leave the swinging scene. You do not have the right attitude. There is more to an encounter than just cocks and pussies, but that is where your brain is stuck.
I would say you are just too old and delusional. Today, appearance is everything to women. Then, they will build on that.
but then I remember more than half the profiles here are men, who
fantasize about swinging but never actually have. I think that’s you. Because anyone who has actually been in the lifestyle (especially in the last few years) would agree at least partially with my experience.
Leave? Don’t think so, there is still that 0.1 % of couples that actually live the LS like it should be, and I’ve gotten lucky in the past.
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oldswinger64 89
Wow, you sound very angry, not just at swinging, but at females in general. There are no guarantees in life, or in swinging. You want a guarantee, then go to a hooker.
After many years in and out of the lifestyle, I have learned that appearance is a small portion of what attracts women to men. There are so many other levels, and yes, a formal date can bring those out. And a formal date can also show the woman that the person is not right.
I would suggest you leave the swinging scene. You do not have the right attitude. There is more to an encounter than just cocks and pussies, but that is where your brain is stuck.
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Half MT 17
47 minutes ago, hunterdonNJcpl said:Yes. Our first time was while vacationing on Sanibel Island. Like you, we were thrilled by the experience and wanted more. We live in an area where there is a variety of swing clubs within a 2 hr drive and the one we decided on was great.
Look around online and see what's in your area.
Funny. I’m finding dance clubs.
If we find a swing club we would need to travel far and make a weekend trip and I’m not sure we would fit in with swingers or group sex yet. We are not that experienced with others.- 2
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489 To Swallow or Not to Swallow (when swapping)?
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1. To Swallow or Not to Swallow (when swapping)?
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1567 What acts are reserved for "intimate" partners?
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1. What acts are reserved for "intimate" partners?
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French Kissing
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