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Playful1 last won the day on October 4 2012
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Swingers Board Addict
- Birthday 10/20/1984
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Single Female
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Location
Maryland, US.
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Swinging Experience
10 years
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Sebastiane
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Playful1 started following Swinging and The Self: Body Image and (In)security, Swinging separately vs. open marriage - semantics, We're leaving and never coming back! and and 4 others
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Swinging separately vs. open marriage - semantics
Playful1 replied to SW_PA_Couple's topic in Swinging Solo
swing separately = you fuck others solo open marriage = you're open to having romantic relationships outside the primary those are just my reads though- 9 replies
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We're leaving and never coming back!
Playful1 replied to mauijanedoe's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
No consensual sexual activity would keep me from coming back. Too high a percentage of stand and model types/too little play, would. Smoking in the club is also an immediate no for me.- 16 replies
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I do see a reason for including one good one on a profile. I say this because I do know several people who actually are turned off by huge cocks, myself included, and want to know about it before meeting. I'm being blunt here, lol. Try for something quasi-artistic...could be use a tripod and a tier or remote and have her hand on it, or make it a couples photo where you can see your hard cock. Doesn't need to just be "hi, here is my cock." As for showing size...dear god, no bottles or remotes or cans please. Show enough of the rest of your body, or have your wifes hand on it to give people some idea of size. Add in being honest in a profile about the size if you are particularly small or large (in my mind over 8" or super girthy needs a disclaimer).
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Honestly, I wish there was a "hedonistic" label...that covers it all without promising anything and doesn't come with the baggage and bs of most other labels.
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I am not big into hard line labels, but I would probably not consider her bi. I tend to consider bi women as those who are sexually aroused by women, even if that is on a case by case basis.
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Eh, the computer can only use the data put into it...if someone butt ugly says they are model material, or they claim to be 35 when they are 60, that is what the computer matches based on. So I don't really think it's anything so great.
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Some advice please from the more experienced
Playful1 replied to Mollymoo's topic in Curious About Swinging?
Some like big, some like small. most will work with a variety. Hell, I have turned down men for being too big. No joke. Once you're in it for a while, you'll see this. The key is for him not to let his anxiety get the better of him. If he does, then he may have issues getting it up, and that, women often don't deal well with (god, I've seen some bitchy women). -
Singles: What do couples do that make you uncomfortable?
Playful1 replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Swinging Solo
Treating me like a human sex toy (in the sense that it becomes very clear they don't care if I enjoy it, as far as they are concerned I'm there solely to please them) Women who claim to be bi, are not, but do the "oh ok, i'll touch your breast" or something to make their guy happy Approach me like prey or some prize to be won- 24 replies
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Swingers As Escorts? We stumbled on a few!!!
Playful1 replied to NYFlirts's topic in Curious About Swinging?
Having done a paper in law school about why prostitution should be legalized and regulated... street level hookers tend to pay as much attention to protection as the average chick in a bar. High end, several hundred dollar types...excellent attention to that stuff. Fucking for money doesnt make you any less likely to want to NOT catch something. -
Swinging and The Self: Body Image and (In)security
Playful1 replied to Methos's topic in Look and Feel Your Best!
Every single woman i know is insecure to some degree. Hell, most days I loathe my image in the mirror. One of the keys with this is that most women simply do not see themselves the way anyone else does. I can look at a woman and go 'damn i wish i looked like her' and have several people look at me like i am crazy because apparently, i tend to see other women through rose colored glasses. To be blunt, the best thing I have found for it, is just being exposed to every shape and size, in the nude, and realizing everyone has their flaws and their great points and that physical beauty winds up meaning not a damn thing when someone is as asshole. Being exposed to it really is freeing to a degree. Also, honestly, my experience is that most women who express what your wife has, have, at some level, a very natural fear that you'll go nuts over the younger/hotter model and ignore her. So, don't do that. I know, sounds simple, but really, it's just making sure you go at her pace and let her know you think she is a goddess. That said, bending over backward because of the insecurity, and never ever pushing a boundary, can wind up just feeding it. so, find a balance. -
The block the flight/stress chemical that makes your hard-on go down. Essentially, when you are getting all stressed or intimidated, your body responds as though under attack, including losing the erection. These pills block that signal. They won't make you get hard if you're not turned on. Your situation actually sounds perfect for them. and fyi....tons of men in the scene use them.
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my experience... the younger and prettier the total crowd = less playing no question. they want to party and think that flirting, touching and an occasional flash of boob makes them HOT. or that a girl kissing a girl makes them WILD. mention swapping, and they look at you like you're a disease ridden insane person.
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Swingers' preferred birth control method?
Playful1 replied to AngelandTiger's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
I'm on the pill. Many many condoms come without spermicide now. Try them. In particular, the non latex ones are great. Most of the women I know use condoms regardless of their tubes or pills or whatever. You might not get pregnant, but, you can still get STI's with your tubes tied or a vasectomy. I am latex allergic and allergic to spermicide. I use the plain lubed non-latex condoms and they work great. -
Is it better to come too quick or not at all
Playful1 replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
I should add...5 minutes of fucking at a party, is fine for me. I do not consider that too soon. Seriously, sit and watch your watch for 5 minutes, then imagine being fucked for that time period, non-stop. It's enough, lol.- 66 replies
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For some people it is a need in the sense of "id never do this without being tipsy" and thats not a good thing. for others, like myself, its a "i have social anxiety and a drink or two lets me relax" (not getting drunk mind you, but one or two drinks). If they do it just to try and relax, dont worry. and honestly...as long as you are both having fun/no drama...dont over think it. only worry if drama happens or some other thing to make you wonder about continuing with them.