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Ms. Julie's thread about being able to stay hard after cumming made me think about the few times Keith has managed to orgasm without actually ejaculating which leads to him having multiple orgasms in one session, with no break at all needed in between. I was wondering if any other men have been able to do this. I know I've read about techniques where men can learn to isolate the muscles but it is supposed to be a rather tedious process. The times it has happened to us have been purely accidental. If you have been able to do this, what do you think causes it? Did you learn to do it or is it a specific activity or situation that allows it? I think if more men were able to do this the whole "sex is over when the man cums" idea could be overturned sooooo much easier!
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Here's a question for the guys and gals. Which way do you prefer...a man cumming in his partner's mouth, vagina, or ass OR cumming on a body part? The reason I ask this is I have heard many prefer to see the orgasm rather than hear it.
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We've noticed in recent months that Pet has a new super power. He no longer goes limp right after he comes, instead he comes and we keep going and he stays hard as long as I want him to. He's managed to pull off a few multiple orgasms, but once he gets that initial one he's not overly concerned with a second (much to my pleasure). I'm wondering how common this actually is. I know I posted in another thread that it was my experience that most guys are 1 and done (and a few disagreed that they had not had the same experience - lucky them). I'm also wondering since this is a recently acquired super power for Pet, if it's related to him having had a vascectomy in the last year.
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There are men who are "one and done" for the night and others who can go a few times a night. I thought it would be interesting to hear the different refractory periods of the men here. Or, perhaps you were one but then switched to the other? Maybe you do certain exercises to help decrease your refractory period? When we first dated, Mr. Sun was able to go a few times in the same night but now he's usually a one and done.
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How many times have we heard that question ladies? So tell us where do you want it? Where would you prefer a guy to come? And guys where would you prefer to come? On or In? Breasts or Face? Ass or Stomach?
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Are there any husbands or "bulls" that stay hard after they cum? I've cum in my wife, embarrassingly, after only a few strokes, to get the party started. I tried hard not to but the excitement of knowing she was going to be getting fucked by another man was more than I could resist. If he wasn't ready at first, watching her getting fucked usually made him hard enough to take my place. Most first timers with her didn't last long either. Watching her getting fucked was keeping me hard and after he came in her she thought the party was over but I wanted to fuck her again. She was really wet and I could barely feel her at first but I was able to stay hard and fuck her longer than I did the first time. I noticed that he was still hard also so after a while I let him take a turn. We fucked her for hours until she became so sore from the friction that she begged us to stop. That is when I rolled her over and fucked her ass. Fucking her ass made me cum again. He was still hard and fucked her ass also after I was done but couldn't cum again. She called a time out and the party was over (as the sun came up)
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The gf mentioned to me the other day that the guy who we swing with had asked if she was ok with swallowing his come. She'd only ever once swallowed before with me and said she absolutely hated the taste. We discussed it and i agreed to let him come in her mouth and for her to swallow. I casually added that if she liked it then she could do whatever she wanted in future... having a feeling that she wouldn't like it!! So last weekend we all got together and he was about to finish up and came in my gf's mouth then she swallowed it. I wasn't prepared for what happened next when she proceeded to tell him he actually tasted pretty good!! The guy then looked at me with a grin that could have stretched across outback Australia!!!! Anyone been in a similar situation??... it's pretty awkward!!!
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According a recent article women aren't the only ones faking orgasms. So how bout it guys, fess up. Have you ever faked an orgasm?
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Which would you prefer? For the ladies: If you are having sex with a guy, would you rather he came too quick or that he couldn't come at all and therefore you never recieved the pleasure of seeing him in orgasm... and ended up chaffed and sore from too much sex. For the men: Would you rather come too fast and have the opp. to possibly go again, or would you rather be hard as a rock and unable to blow your load. -
I’m curious as to how to handle an issue of not being able to cum. With my wife I am able cum somewhere between five and ten minutes. When I play with others it seems impossible to achieve orgasm. A condom is definitively part of the problem. When we play with couples we don’t know very well we always use condoms. I don’t think the condom is the real issue though. We have a close play couple that have been our friends for over fifteen years. We full swap with this couple without protection. Even without wearing a condom it takes me upwards of a half hour to cum. Even then, to cum in a half hour I have to fuck hard and I’m not sure she’s enjoying twenty plus minutes of pounding. I don’t know why but I start to feel pressure to wrap things up and that seems to make things worse. My wife and the other guy are done and it seems like everyone is waiting for me to pop. How do I tell our play friends I’d rather not always cum? At first I was thinking yeah, I'm Superman. Now it's stressing me out. Nobody wants to feel stressed when they're playing. I'd prefer to fuck long enough to know we’ve all had fun and then just quit. I’ll finish later with my wife. I don’t want to offend anyone. It’s not her, it’s me… And… why does this not happen with my wife. She can climb on top of me and slowly ride me to orgasm in five minutes???
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At the regular on-premise club we attend, their is a single male in his mid twenties who has established a reputation for being able to go a long time. He will regularly pump away for 45 minutes and has been known to go on for as much as 2 hours. We were recently having lunch with some swinger friends and the subject came up of how long is too long. It seems that some people have the belief that longer is better. But the consensus among the three women at lunch was that they would much rather have a guy who had an orgasm after ten or fifteen minutes and then came back later for seconds than someone who pumped away for 30 minutes or more. So, my question is, excluding foreplay, from the time of actual insertion, how long is the optimum time before reaching climax? -
What does it mean to be multi-orgasmic? Is when you come many times in a row O-O-O-O, non-stop. Or is just that you can actually have several really good O's in one night?
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We were with a couple and had a same room swap. My wife has all ways held me in her mouth as I came. I unintentionally upset the other woman by assuming that it was OK to do the same with her. Can't believe that I was so stupid. I was wrong. She couldn't get me out of her mouth fast enough when she realized that I was about to cum. ASK FIRST!
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Figured we'd see if we could start a discussion... We are fairly new to the "lifestyle" and have enjoyed a daily, great sex life before swinging. It has only gone up from there...literally (sorry for bad pun). One interesting thing my wife noticed was that guys hold back a lot from cumming. She loves cum/male orgasm in all its form (inside even in a condom, on her, or BJ swallowing). I (husband) have noticed that my "staying" ability varies wildly in swing situations from "go forever" to "oops" - and seems really dependent on mood. I thought the ladies were more subject "mood" but in swing situations really seems to be the guys - or at least me We've also both discussed how much we would prefer a situation where the ladies get the guys off first...relax, girl play, etc...and then pick up again. This is our preferred mode at home but again have run into reluctance during play (both m & f). At least we are direct and ask...and the play situations have been great for all regardless. So...wonder what everyone prefers (guys/girls) and what you do to "assist" longevity besides working square roots or imagining Hillary Clinton naked....and what is the ladies view of this - my wife's inquiring mind wants to know...is she the only lady that likes this part of swinging sex ?
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We are a newly married couple in the Triad area of North Carolina. We are new to the lifestyle. Our question is, what sex act is the easiest was for you to orgasm?
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Ok...so your wife is really hot for you. You get her into bed, and she spends a little more than an hour slowly riding you...she reaching orgasm again and again. You haven't. She finally dismounts and is absolutely spent. Do you look at her completely spent and satisfied and leave her be, or do you turn to her and say "my turn" ? And if you say "my turn" do you do it, to get off... or do you expect her to f**k you like you have never been f**ked before? -
In her poll, Julie asked about faking orgasms and MagicEnigma brought up the idea of "exaggerating" orgasms...wondering what the numbers would be for that. Interesting, I thought. So, that's the question...for both men and women...have you ever exaggerated an orgasm?
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I can't remember the last time I saw a movie where the guy came inside a woman and then the camera zoomed in to where you could see cum dribbling out or messy hair. Any time I get the chance (darn seldom these days) I always look. Actually if I haven't done as good a job as I should have, I use my cum as a lubricant and diddle her clit. Am I strange of something? I guess I am. The least laid among mice and men. -
Any other guys out there have a really hard time getting off from oral stimulation? I have no problems cumming vaginally or with a hand but it takes me a really long time to get there through oral stimulation. It creates some uneasy moments when the women seem to think it should happen quickly. Any ideas on how to improve?
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Interested in how the parties in a MFM finish in different situations. Assuming that making sure the woman gets off first, how do the guys finish? Who goes first, both at the same time?
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I ask this question because my guy, has a very difficult time reaching orgasm from oral stimulation alone. (And if he's tired, forget, I could try alnight & still nothing) & yes, I'm doing it properly I have brought many other men to orgasm without a problem. Thanks for your input!
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What is the best way to make a guy cum just by oral? My guy doesn't like to have intercourse when I have my period but I still want to make him cum. So here are the questions. How do I make him cum with oral? How long should it take? I'm always giving him blowjobs and he says it is great but he doesn't cum. And also, do guys like to do it when the girl has her period. Intercourse and/or oral?
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Originally quoted from JustAskJulie in another thread This brings me to a question/concern I have regarding orgasm and oral sex. How many of you cannot achieve orgasm this way? I have always had difficulty (to say the least) achieving orgasm while receiving head. I've never been able to reach orgasm without taking matters into my own hands after the female's jaw is about to lock up from trying! I do not know why this is...I've been with many women that I found more than attractive and am always excited and enjoy very much receiving head, but I'm not able to cum that way. Anyone else have this problem? And why do you think this is? Julie?
