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We've noticed in recent months that Pet has a new super power. He no longer goes limp right after he comes, instead he comes and we keep going and he stays hard as long as I want him to. He's managed to pull off a few multiple orgasms, but once he gets that initial one he's not overly concerned with a second (much to my pleasure). I'm wondering how common this actually is. I know I posted in another thread that it was my experience that most guys are 1 and done (and a few disagreed that they had not had the same experience - lucky them). I'm also wondering since this is a recently acquired super power for Pet, if it's related to him having had a vascectomy in the last year.
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There are men who are "one and done" for the night and others who can go a few times a night. I thought it would be interesting to hear the different refractory periods of the men here. Or, perhaps you were one but then switched to the other? Maybe you do certain exercises to help decrease your refractory period? When we first dated, Mr. Sun was able to go a few times in the same night but now he's usually a one and done.
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Are there any husbands or "bulls" that stay hard after they cum? I've cum in my wife, embarrassingly, after only a few strokes, to get the party started. I tried hard not to but the excitement of knowing she was going to be getting fucked by another man was more than I could resist. If he wasn't ready at first, watching her getting fucked usually made him hard enough to take my place. Most first timers with her didn't last long either. Watching her getting fucked was keeping me hard and after he came in her she thought the party was over but I wanted to fuck her again. She was really wet and I could barely feel her at first but I was able to stay hard and fuck her longer than I did the first time. I noticed that he was still hard also so after a while I let him take a turn. We fucked her for hours until she became so sore from the friction that she begged us to stop. That is when I rolled her over and fucked her ass. Fucking her ass made me cum again. He was still hard and fucked her ass also after I was done but couldn't cum again. She called a time out and the party was over (as the sun came up)
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What does it mean to be multi-orgasmic? Is when you come many times in a row O-O-O-O, non-stop. Or is just that you can actually have several really good O's in one night?
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In your experience with swinging, either being the guy yourself, or the woman experiencing it, when does the guy normally cum? Do you have the woman perform oral and cum through there so you last longer for sex? Do you let the woman get you started with oral but only cum during sex? Or do you skip oral completely and just cum through sex. Normally we cum through sex, but sometimes the girl is really good at oral so I (male) don't know to make her stop or let it go...Just curious what the rest of you do in a similar situation. -
Figured we'd see if we could start a discussion... We are fairly new to the "lifestyle" and have enjoyed a daily, great sex life before swinging. It has only gone up from there...literally (sorry for bad pun). One interesting thing my wife noticed was that guys hold back a lot from cumming. She loves cum/male orgasm in all its form (inside even in a condom, on her, or BJ swallowing). I (husband) have noticed that my "staying" ability varies wildly in swing situations from "go forever" to "oops" - and seems really dependent on mood. I thought the ladies were more subject "mood" but in swing situations really seems to be the guys - or at least me We've also both discussed how much we would prefer a situation where the ladies get the guys off first...relax, girl play, etc...and then pick up again. This is our preferred mode at home but again have run into reluctance during play (both m & f). At least we are direct and ask...and the play situations have been great for all regardless. So...wonder what everyone prefers (guys/girls) and what you do to "assist" longevity besides working square roots or imagining Hillary Clinton naked....and what is the ladies view of this - my wife's inquiring mind wants to know...is she the only lady that likes this part of swinging sex ?
