lovinher
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lovinher last won the day on November 17 2012
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- Birthday 11/10/1959
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married to lovinhim
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Location
cleveland area
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Boating, motorcycle cruises, ATV's and the faster the better, music, pretty much anything outdoors. The usual guy stuff-OK gardening too.
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Construction Contractor
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lovinher started following Is a "Hot Wife" a part of swinging?, Swinging to love?, First time threesome issues, could use some advice and and 3 others
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You didn't think you would fall in love with Becca either-but you did. Unless all four of you are OK with a poly relationship in the near future, IMO, this a train wreck waiting to happen. At the very least someone will get hurt. Keep us updated.
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First time threesome issues, could use some advice
lovinher replied to alwayscurious34's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
I dont have any advice that hasn't already been said. But if this is enough to cause you two to split up then perhaps your marriage wasn't as bad ass you thought. I hope things work out. Who knows your marraige may be stronger after the storm dies down. Let us know how things go. -
Kissing a woman after she has given oral sex
lovinher replied to cuzzeyesaidso's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
Jeeze...how times have changed.- 128 replies
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Other than getting caught by ours kids, neighbors and strangers throughout the years, I think the worst and funniest was while we were out late one night in the middle of nowhere. Lovinhim and I decided to have some fun and parked at the end of a dead end country road. You couldn't get more remote in southern Ohio if you tried. It was a beautiful pitch black night but with a billion stars out. As we were going at it rough, loud and butt naked, instantly the inside of the car was so bright we couldn't see a thing and a lot there was a lot of banging on the car. It was four devious deputy sheriffs, neither of which couldn't have been older than mid twenties. They had parked up the road in two different cars and thought it would be funny to scare the shit out of some kids. We are by no means kids. They must have thought this out because they walked up to the car and turned on their flashlights while hitting the car all at the same time. When they saw we were not kids, I think they were just as embarrassed as we were. We were sheepishly told we should leave. I sternly told them I wasn't going anywhere until they turned off their flashlights so my wife could get dressed. I wasn't too happy about their little prank and let them know it. I was then ordered out of the car, still naked , while they turned their lights on me as she got dressed. I'm standing there naked with snow on the ground making small talk, joking around and kind of berating them at the same time. I'm surprised they put up with it. They didn't ask for a driver's license, look into the car or check to see if I has been drinking (I hadn't). After she got out of the car and back into the front seat I got dressed and we were on our way. I have no clue as to how they knew we were there.
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Some good comments so far. You were still inside of her and you didn't know so it's entirely possible she didn't either. But if she did maybe she kept it from you because she knew how you would react? Talk about it without judgement and move on.
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I'm guessing she's having too much fun to post.
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How many swinger certifications do you have?
lovinher replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Finding People to Swing With
Why don't you tell us why a lot of certs is a bad thing? What's your limit between good and bad?- 37 replies
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How many swinger certifications do you have?
lovinher replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Finding People to Swing With
Explains what exactly? Is there something wrong with that? I can see a club owner getting a lot certs because I would assume they are very active in the lifestyle. But I don't care if someone has 100 or none. It's what we think of the couple/person that matters.- 37 replies
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Let's not forget the Judge's. Every club has them.
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Clearly not the case. Would you be able to show him your post? Now that would be honesty.
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Is a "Hot Wife" a part of swinging?
lovinher replied to Alura's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
A question was asked, and an opinion was given. You are no more correct than Chicup. Who draws the line where swinging begins and where is it? Certainly not you, Chicup...or me. I find it amusingly ironic when a board member insinuates someone else is narrow minded (or flat out says it) when that someone doesn't agree with them. Like someone mentioned above "It is what they say it is". But, not everyone would agree them.- 66 replies
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She acts differently with other partners
lovinher replied to Ibrew's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
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Why is it so hard finding a guy for a MFM?
lovinher replied to sexykccouple25's topic in Swinging Solo
Free during the day but not at night means they can blow off their job but their wives.