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What is the most outragious thing that you've seen/experienced while swinging? Here's my contribution. We hooked up last week with a guy last week and wound up coming back to our place for a threesome. As the guy began to orgasm he ripped the loudest and most disgustingly odorous fart you've ever smelled. Worse, then he tried to blame it on our dog!
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Has anyone had the experience of air coming out of your vagina It happens when my husband wants to do it doggy style. It is so embarrassing. I don't know why it happens or how to make it stop? -
Ok, so I’m curious. Hubby and i really want to go to this big Halloween party that a big lifestyle group hosts every year. I checked my period app and of course, my cycle is supposed to start a day or 2 before the party. We are NOT playing on my period, so I’m wondering should we still go to the party as a way of networking and making future play partners? Or would it be weird to meet a couple we connect with and then tell them we can’t play because of the time of the month? : Thanks.
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Hi everyone, my husband and I are early 30s and fairly new to swinging. We have a night planned this weekend with a couple in their late 40s who we've met up with twice before. My husband and I recently did anal (not something we usually do) and it resulted in me developing a small hemorrhoid. I've been treating it over the past week hoping it will go away before our meeting tomorrow but as of this morning it's still there. Icky detail time (sorry): it's only visible if my ass is spread open. If I refrain from letting anyone spread my cheeks open, it won't be visible. We're faced with the decision of whether to cancel the meeting or not. A hemorrhoid is not exactly conducive to a sexy swinging environment and it's embarrassing to have anyone potentially see it. On the other hand, apart from the embarrassing nature of the subject the actual hemorrhoid itself is really small and not actually that unsightly. My husband took a photo of it for me and it just looks like a small ever-so-slightly bluish lump on the inside of my anus. If I saw it on the other woman's bum and I knew what it was, I don't think I'd care. 1. Do we cancel and tell the couple the honest reason? Or do we make up an excuse in case this is too much information to share with a swinging couple? 2. Do we tell them about it and leave the decision in their hands? They might have dealt with hemorrhoids themselves in the past and don't find it a big deal. 3. Do we continue with the meeting but don't mention it, and state that there is to be no ass play this time? Your opinions are greatly appreciated. I'm really not wanting to lie or mislead them and want to do right by everyone involved. I'm leaning towards being honest and letting them decide.
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Mine would have to be when my wife and I were in high school. My then girlfriend and her friend snuck over to my parents house at night. I had my buddy sleeping over who's girlfriend was also the one who came over with my girlfriend/wife. I had a bedroom on the ground floor so we snuck them in through my window. It must have been around midnight. Little did we know we were swingers at such a young age. Well we set up a wall in the middle of my room and each couple took their side. After about 20 minutes of doing what teenagers do their was a knock at my bedroom door. Can you say my heart just about stopped !! I was thinking my mom is going to kill me. Both couples were naked!! I did not know what to do. So my wife and her girlfriend jumped on one side of the wall together so they could not be seen. My buddy jumped into my bed. And yes it was a water bed so their was a lot of noise. I jumped on the other side. As soon as I got into bed the door opened. Now picture this two naked guys on a water bed with no blankets at 12:30 at night. My heart froze ... it was my sister!! Who was about 19-20 years old at the time. She was in the family room with her boyfriend. She opened the door and saw us naked and just closed the door. I know she was going to tell her boyfriend that she just found out I was gay! I jumped up and went to the family room and said "I'm not gay, we have our girlfriends in the room" We laughed about the situation and my parents never knew. They were sound asleep.
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Sex Accidents - What's Your Worst Case Scenario?
JustAskJulie posted a topic in Let's Talk About Sex
Sex Accidents Send Victims to Emergency Room Twice a Week So now after reading it, what is YOUR worst case scenario, either real or imagined (and please do specify if it really happened. I can honestly say I have had to go fishing for condoms at least twice that I can recall and I have broken one bed. Luckily, I've never (yet) had anyone puke on me. -
Just a silly question & reason to tell a story... Have y'all ever walked in on your family members while they were having sex? (Parents? Grandparents? Siblings?) ...or had them walk in on you while you were having sex? I haven't had any of my family members walk in on me having sex with anyone other than myself (...but that's a different topic). I have, however, wandered over to my parent's bedroom one night with math book in hand with a question for my dad about a homework problem I was having and just as I got by their bedroom door, I heard the distinctive rhythmic squeaking or bedsprings ... I promptly turned around and went back to my room ... figured my homework wasn't THAT important at that point. -
The above quote in the current thread regarding viagra use in swinging made me think about something I've been wondering. Why does ED have to have such a bad stigma attached to it? It happens! I think most of the time it is nerves or distractions more than anything else. Not being able to get it/keep it up only has the power that we give to it. If we treat it like it's no big deal then it's no big deal. If we continually act like it's a big deal then we make it an even bigger deal and thus increase the nervousness the next time around AND create our own distraction (with the worry). Rather than focus on whether or not it's hard or how great the sex turns out to be, why not just focus on the overall fun of the next and exciting experience. Chances are when everyone is laid back and just enjoying the fun without focusing on something so insignificant, the relaxation alone will decrease the chance of the "issue" arising.
