When it comes to sex, people are irrational, even towards their own kinks.  That's especially true with male homo/bi sexuality.  (Women have it so much easier in that regard.)

Humans just have a lot of baggage around simple acts.  That's just the way it is. 

14 minutes ago, SilverFoxGen said:

I've allowed my current girlfriend of 11 years many times to be the fluffer of plenty of gangbangs in the past. I'm fully aware of her amazing oral inclinations & the pure enjoyment she gets when it comes to taking dicks in her mouth. I truly appreciate how comfortable & aroused she gets at showing off her slutty nature whenever having me around during the entire time. Not to mention I get to act out one of my darkest fantasies by seeing her mouth being used as a cum dumpster while she's getting throat pied by one guy after another all taking turns shooting their loads down her throat & hearing the sweet sounds of gulping every single drop of cum. I'll have you know I am very confident in her ability to take large dicks ever since she took around 17 inches of a enormously large & thick cucumber 🥒 this one night we were having fun experimenting with her abilities on taking large insertions.  She happily has been able to act out one of her very dark extremely taboo fantasies which is being simulated ANAL raped. Before we started the gangbang she explained to us all the way she wanted her BOOTY 🕳️ to be brutally violated & how rough she wanted for us to pummel her ASS without using lube. We did just that. I'm very happy to say she's has adopted the ANAL ONLY LIFESTYLE for about a year now & has opened up to participating in being involved with ANAL ONLY GANGBANGS including AIRTIGHT sex with me as well. The most she's taken while having ANAL GANGBANGS is 27. I persuaded her to have everyone finish in her ASS & both she & I were surprised at how many different loads her ASS was able to take before being completely filled to the brim with cum. Even though I wasn't her first ANAL experience I'm proud to say I am the one who has been able to resize her BOOTY 🕳️ to a much larger appearance & was the first to make her have ANAL ORGASMS. I'm very satisfied in the way she is in complete control of her ANAL abilities to GAPE on command or tighten up when need be. I was kinda impressed with the way her BOOTY 🕳️ was literally turned inside out after taking 27 guys & how stretched opened her ASS was left for several days afterwards. It did take her over a week to fully recover & be able to walk right & sit down to where she was able to have ANAL again but she said it was definitely worth pain. 

I've allowed my current girlfriend of 11 years many times to be the fluffer of plenty of gangbangs in the past. I'm fully aware of her amazing oral inclinations & the pure enjoyment she gets when it comes to taking dicks in her mouth. I truly appreciate how comfortable & aroused she gets at showing off her slutty nature whenever having me around during the entire time. Not to mention I get to act out one of my darkest fantasies by seeing her mouth being used as a cum dumpster while she's getting throat pied by one guy after another all taking turns shooting their loads down her throat & hearing the sweet sounds of gulping every single drop of cum. I'm very happy to say she's has adopted the ANAL ONLY LIFESTYLE for about a year now & has opened up to participating in being involved with ANAL ONLY GANGBANGS including AIRTIGHT sex with me as well. The most she's taken while having ANAL GANGBANGS is 27. I persuaded her to have everyone finish in her ASS & both she & I were surprised at how many different loads her ASS was able to take before being completely filled to the brim with cum. Even though I wasn't her first ANAL experience I'm proud to say I am the one who has been able to resize her BOOTY 🕳️ to a much larger appearance & was the first to make her have ANAL ORGASMS. I'm very satisfied in the way she is in complete control of her ANAL abilities to GAPE on command or tighten up when need be. I was kinda impressed with the way her BOOTY 🕳️ was literally turned inside out after taking 27 guys & how stretched opened her ASS was left for several days afterwards. It did take her over a week to fully recover & be able to walk right & sit down to where she was able to have ANAL again but she said it was definitely worth pain. 

On 2/12/2007 at 5:14 PM, JustAskJulie said:

I chose yes and would again... but I would have liked to have chose Yes and I might again. It was one of my great fantasies but honestly it didn't go as I had hoped (see other GB threads for details). I would probably do it again under the right circumstances that in no way involved me having any part of the planning of the event.... in other words, I wouldn't go out of my way to do it again.

On 4/9/2009 at 10:43 AM, kellimc said:

We didn't have fluffers at the gangbang that I posted about earlier. There were a number of couples there to watch but one of the rules was that they wouldn't play with the gangbang guys until after the gangbang. We didn't want their attention wandering elsewhere. After a while I found that a good rhythm was getting dp'd while doing oral on a third. The other guys just had to keep themselves entertained until it was their turn. I don't think any of them really minded but I did hear several of them tell the guys who were getting serviced that they wanted to cut in for a while. For the most part the guys were pretty cooperative with each other and it worked out.

As I mentioned in other posts, I consider myself, for practical purposes, bisexual. 

My journey and circumstances have led me to enjoy sexual acts with men in the context of cuckold relationships and me dating couples on the submissive sexual spectrum as a sexually dominant male. 
 

The power dynamics don’t matter at all (dom, sub, switch), I just mention it for context because in my non LS world, no one would ever even think I am anything but a traditional heterosexual Latino middle aged man with adult kids and a 15 year medical career.

But that’s the fun of it isn’t it? The edgy, mystery of it once you are in a safe space with other “like minded” people.  But let me be clear, one of the hardest lessons I learned being a single male swinger is that those “like minded people” that podcasts and forums tell you are so open minded, caring, kind, and inclusive are some of the most brutally shallow, ignorant, homophobic, straight up mean demons you would ever encounter (with obvious very pleasant exceptions of course).

I can write a book on these horror stories (and I will), but tonight I find myself pondering on why the weird attitudes about sex in this setting? 
Like, why is it that when I’m dating a couple in the initial stages do I have to pretend this is a typical date? Or otherwise I’m a sex crazed pervert? Why do we have to play such a stupid, over dramatic courtship game in a lifestyle in which, all parties are fully aware, revolves around sex?

I can maybe understand that in a polyamory setting, if a couple is looking for a steady third. But in swinging? After we exchanged pictures and stories on explicit sexual acts you want me to perform on you and your wife?  Are the suit and tie, the fancy dinner really necessary? Or is this just part of the kink? You want to be chased as a couple? Seduced? I guess it would make sense if it wasn’t so odd and impractical (or never even discussed).

I have been rejected in the past many times. Most of those times because of my ethnicity or the way I look. But for a couple who was just gang banged and cummed on In the Virgin Islands by a whole village of strange men just a few weeks ago, you sure as fuck are picky on the aspect of my tie and choice of cologne.

And the homophobia! 
Bisexual men are seen as disease ridden sacs of shit in most clubs and events. Even by other men who have enjoyed my genitalia in the past!
“I wanna suck your cock but I’m not a fag ok!!! Don’t ever tell anyone or I’ll blast you!!!”

B R U H!!!! Calm the fuck down! We are all here to enjoy sex, in whatever shape or form you like, no one is labeling you, or me or your wife in any way! 
 

I know repressed homosexual desires can be distressing. But I’m a big advocate of therapy prior to entering the lifestyle (I have mine on speed dial). 
 

Either way, end of rant.

Ban me if you want, I just say things how they are.