How did you feel after your first gangbang?

[Numex 2,175]

On 4/6/2009 at 12:47 PM, kellimc said:

I was really proud of myself.

 

On 8/8/2010 at 2:16 PM, asncpl said:

My initial emotion was a sense of relief and proud that I did it,

We haven't done a gangbang, although Daniela has had three or four guys in a day, but with everything we've done or seen our spouse do, it leaves us feeling proud.  Strange.

[Numex 2,175]

On 4/20/2020 at 9:00 PM, older couple said:

Hubby was proud of me and I felt great pride too. 

 

[Hackjack 0]

Trying someway to get into a gang bang but she hasn’t been keen so far would you have any ideas please we’re in Surrey UK

[couplers 4,140]

On 10/25/2022 at 3:29 AM, Hackjack said:

Trying someway to get into a gang bang but she hasn’t been keen so far would you have any ideas please we’re in Surrey UK

You can't force her to want to.  Tell her just once or twice that it's your fantasy, then drop it.  Ask her what her fantasies are and help her pursue them.

 

That's what my husband did, let me fuck another guy for two years while he remained monogamous.  Then the I reached a point where I gave him everything he wanted and more.   Not because I felt obligated, but because it turned me on.

[sweetcadcouple 34]

Hiya all, My first gangbang happen about 6 months after our first real swing, it happen 2 weeks after my 35th b-day. I really wanted to give it a go after watching a few of them at our local club.
A month before it happen I told my husband I think I am ready to take the next step into swinging and we agree to it. So we made the request on the request board at are local swingers club. Also I added I was open to anal and DP in my first gangbang. Both of us were talking about how big I wanted. I wanted something simple, nothing too big, We finger 6 was a good number to start thing off. Since it was my husband first one as well  to take part, we ask guys who were experience in them as well, so to help me and my husband of the do's and don'ts of being in a gangbang.
During the whole time , I thought it was gonna be a lot harder then I thought it was, to my surprise it was kinda easy and loads of fun. I went with the flow.
To the people that replied here sorry for stealing your words but, I too felt there were times during that night where I thought I couldn't take any more but I keep pushing myself. After a quick shower in the club, me and my husband went home. During the car ride back home I had a mix of emotions. I felt a sense of calmness and peace.  I was really proud of myself. Felt like a badass pornstar with a big smile on my face.
Once we got home me and my husband went for another round just us 2.
Since then we try doing a a few gangbang every year. My record is 10 guys soon after my 40th B-Day.

[couplers 4,140]

On 11/13/2022 at 11:13 PM, sweetcadcouple said:

Once we got home me and my husband went for another round just us 2.

Interesting how this is often a conclusion to spouses/partners having sex with other people - reclaiming and closer bonding.  Done right, being nonmonogamous is good for a marriage.  (Sorry for turning a gangbang into something romantic.)

[sweetcadcouple 34]

Small edit, just realized I made a mistake in our timeline about my first gangbang. After a year later 

 

my first gangbang happened about 3 or 4 months after our first swing. 

 

first swing happened in the first week of April of 2010. 

 

I wish there was a longer edit button for mistakes like this that we make. 

 

Oh well, we are human. We are allowed to make mistakes. 

[ChristianSwinging 51]

On 11/15/2022 at 1:46 PM, couplers said:

Interesting how this is often a conclusion to spouses/partners having sex with other people - reclaiming and closer bonding.  Done right, being nonmonogamous is good for a marriage.  (Sorry for turning a gangbang into something romantic.)

You don't have to be sorry that you can also get romantic aspects from a gangbang.
I think they definitely exist, even if I haven't been able to get anything out of such a situation so far.
For me so far it was just an unromantic, mass-fucking of a woman but I think there are a lot more feelings beyond that, especially for the couple whose wife she is. 

 

Gangbang with a single woman certainly has its lovers, but for a married woman it is so much more than just a hustle and bustle of men getting off on her.
It can strengthen the marriage incredibly and provide a new, much more intimate source of love for the couple, from which both can draw on their love long after, especially if she experiences the gangbang completely bareback.

 

3 years ago we were in a club here in Germany that also organizes such gangbang evenings as a closed event in which couples and single men take part (this number is limited) and the wives can get really fucked by the selected men and also enjoy their desire for a lot of sperm, because cum inside is not only allowed but also expressly desired.
Neither of us had seen or watched anything like that before.
My wife could certainly describe her feelings about this better and comment on it here maybe later.

Despite the unromantic nature, it was somehow very exciting to see this happy wife and how one after the other of the 15 men fucked her harder or softer and they always squirted inside her.

Of course they also loved to kiss her, which makes the whole thing very sensual.
I saw my wife for the first time standing with me and with her hand between her legs while watching. 😊

 

What it makes so super romantic is that the husband kissed her passionately after all the men.

She looked very exhausted and happy afterwards and their love bond between the two benefited greatly from it.

Edited February 12 by ChristianSwinging

[couplers 4,140]

It is a sexual superpower that women have that men don't - the ability to have intercourse with multiple men uninterrupted, satisfy them while having multiple orgasms herself.  It is a wise husband who appreciates that. 

[let's do it again 380]

2 hours ago, couplers said:

It is a sexual superpower that women have that men don't - the ability to have intercourse with multiple men uninterrupted, satisfy them while having multiple orgasms herself.  It is a wise husband who appreciates that. 

It's also the power of nature and breeding to get the best and strongest child. Look at a female animal and a group of males attempting to breed with her. I am surprised that more women looking to get pregnant don't use a group of males. It proves to me that monogamy is a myth.

[Billygoat 405]

1 hour ago, let's do it again said:

It's also the power of nature and breeding to get the best and strongest child. Look at a female animal and a group of males attempting to breed with her. I am surprised that more women looking to get pregnant don't use a group of males. It proves to me that monogamy is a myth.

you actually are not far off the mark.

 

Through unearthed sites, artifacts found, tools, artwork, lore, soil analysis, ice analysis, tree growth, early written history not necessarily written by the peoples being studied but of those that encountered them.  Now we also can accurately analyze to age what we found and through DNA, 

 

 

“Rather than envisioning human evolution as a tree—with a single stem that splits into disconnected branches—the researchers describe ancestral human populations as intertwining stems, writes Nature News’ Jude Coleman. All humans share relatively recent common ancestry, but the story in the deeper past is more complicated than our species evolving in just a single location or in isolation”

 

“For the new study, the researchers looked at genomic data from living humans, which included people from various groups: the Mende in Sierra Leone, the Nama in South Africa and the Amhara, Oromo and Gumuz groups in Ethiopia, according to Reuters. They also examined DNA from living Europeans and from the remains of a Neanderthal”

Pair bonding, via DNA analysis proves that different human beings, tribes/clans, all Hunter gatherers that also started agricultural societies moved to but not exclusively pair bonded.  Polyagamy/polyandry was practiced as in todays society and has been in and out of practice, although a minority through out most “societies” through out time, it’s in the DNA.  Unlike Neanderthal which is found in our DNA so some interbreeding obviously happened but that cultural group never advanced as others that many say through interbreeding more exclusively within themselves, no pair bonding lead to their lineage dieing off.  Makes some sense.

 

But again in theory why not the same for others even though pair-bonding appeared to be practiced within the small tribes/clans there would be limitations eventually so how did it work?  A mix makes the most sense.  Travelers, male travelers/visitors shared/mating/breeding with, celebrations/spiritual ceremonies, the sending of young females to live/bond with another tribe/clan (some males but not normally)

 

 

Women Retain DNA From Every Man They Have Sex With

 Don Patrick December 22, 2023

“Results of a new study by the University of Seattle and the Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Centersuggest that women retain and carry the living DNA from every man with whom they have had sexual intercourse with. For some, that’s a lot of DNA. This startling information was discovered unintentionally whilst researchers were attempting to determine if women who had been pregnant with a son might be more predisposed to specific neurological diseases. The study took a turn when researchers began to realize the complexity of the female brain.”

“Microchimerism is the presence of a small number of cells in an individual that have originated from another individual and are therefore genetically distinct.”

 

these cells, DNA, retained in the woman was not from the father at conception.  Also was still present in women who had no pregnancy, brother/twin born or unborn. Leaving the last possibility retainment within her from male/males semen.

 

So now the interesting part…..as a result of all this (sifted down, there is a lot to all this) is that by testing for DNA lineage and comparison.  By doing this if monogamy was embodied/primitive absolute within us the DNA would provide proof.  

 

“What is the difference between a paternal line and a maternal line?  That is, if you were researching only your maternal line, you would be looking for information on your mother, her mother (your maternal grandmother), her mother (your maternal great-grandmother), and so on. If you were researching only your paternal line, it would be your father, his father, his father, and so forth.”

 

Even accounting for mate loss, second or third cousin pairing, more woman born/survive than men etc. women spread their DNA (maternal) further than men.  The end result is women had more children/DNA from other than their paired male mate than the males did via additional females.  In the end, in the beginning, for thousands of years male and females did pair bond, choosing to rather than instinctually, and the females, with some level of regularity bred with alternative males, often outside of their family group/clan/tribe/village.  It’s in the DNA.

 

The tree of life is not a trunk, with mighty limbs with many branches and twigs.  But more than several root clusters, many merging and mingling together to create a joined multi trunk tree that split in many directions with multiple intertwined limbs, branches and twigs.  We are, although different in language and culture actually quite the same.

 

The above is very simplistic there is a large amount of specifics and content I left out to keep this as short as possible…..but it is all out there. 

 

 

 

[Billygoat 405]

A side note.

• Mitochondrial DNA passes from a mother to all her children, but only the daughters pass it to the next generation. Experts can trace female ancestry by studying patterns of mutations in mitochondrial DNA. Some of the mutations happened millions of years ago, others more recently.

Not all DNA is created equal, however: males have both mitochondrial DNA AND a Y chromosome, so they can trace both their maternal and paternal ancestry. Females, who have mitochondrial DNA but no Y chromosome, can trace only their maternal ancestry

 

 

https://www.crigenetics.com/blog/can-females-trace-their-paternal-line  

[ChristianSwinging 51]

18 hours ago, couplers said:

It is a sexual superpower that women have that men don't - the ability to have intercourse with multiple men uninterrupted, satisfy them while having multiple orgasms herself.  It is a wise husband who appreciates that. 

I don't know if women generally have these superpowers because there are enough examples where women practice exactly the opposite and live completely asexually for decades or their entire lives and forego any sexuality.

And this form also seems to exist, as we have often seen in the club.

But you are probably referring above all to the biological possibility that women here are far ahead of men if they also live this freedom.

So far, one orgasm has usually been enough for my wife to be satisfied, but maybe there is some of this superpower in her that is still opening up. 

Of course, it depends on what she feels and what uninterrupted sex with several men would give her. Certainly a very special form of openness and freedom.

[ChristianSwinging 51]

17 hours ago, let's do it again said:

It's also the power of nature and breeding to get the best and strongest child. Look at a female animal and a group of males attempting to breed with her. I am surprised that more women looking to get pregnant don't use a group of males. It proves to me that monogamy is a myth.

Because of the emotional world, the fantasies and ideas and the mind, we cannot completely compare ourselves with the animals.
For us, feelings such as lust, devotion, love and sexual attraction also play a major role, not just the sole impregnation of a woman.

And I'm very happy about that too.
However, I see it similarly: the father of a child is not the inseminator but the one who raises it in love with the woman.

That's why a child of my wife is also mine because I love her no matter which man impregnated her.

[couplers 4,140]

On 2/12/2024 at 7:51 AM, let's do it again said:

It's also the power of nature and breeding to get the best and strongest child.

Another top consideration we women have is selecting a man who is a good provider for the child.  That's why women put more thought into who they breed with.

 

[let's do it again 380]

59 minutes ago, couplers said:

Another top consideration we women have is selecting a man who is a good provider for the child.  That's why women put more thought into who they breed with.

 

I wonder what is the biggest factor, a man that could produce the best child or the man that could provide the best for the child and mother?

[lcmim 1,009]

The best child , in this context, is the one who survives.

[Numex 2,175]

On 9/28/2020 at 8:33 AM, couplers said:

I did the recruiting among my girlfriends and acquaintances.  ..   I think that they felt comfortable that David and I were married and we were letting them into our marriage, like they weren't fucking around, it was all within the confines of marriage, just not their marriage.

Good point.  As I've said before, before we met Daniela had many relationships with married men, never to break up a marriage but to improve it.  She says it made her feel like a spirit within their marriage.

[couplers 4,140]

12 hours ago, Numex said:

Daniela had many relationships with married men, never to break up a marriage but to improve it.  She says it made her feel like a spirit within their marriage.

An interesting thought.  Not that my "marriage" to any of the others requires improvement, but the idea of either of the two men in our family had a secret sidepiece is something that I find (theoretically) exciting.  My first thought is that I want to meet her, this "spirit"; is she bi; would we be attracted?

 

For Clair or Lora, the preliminary question would be, is it a man or woman? 

[jessica1994 0]

On 4/7/2009 at 1:47 AM, kellimc said:

I was just wondering how the women here who've done gangbangs felt after their first one. My first big gangbang was with another woman and we had 12 guys show up. It was pretty intense for both of us because we may have overestimated the number of guys we could take.
It was really difficult for both of us because we each played with all 12 guys and we both did anal sex. There were times during that night when we thought we couldn't take any more.

 

Afterwards I had a mix of emotions. I was exhausted but after about an hour I felt a sense of calmness and peace. It might sound strange but I was really proud of myself. What really surprised me was that before the night was over I was feeling horny again and played with some of the couples who had come to watch our gangbang.

First gangbang was kind of a weekend experience rather than just one time gangbang session. It was hot, awkward, weird, exciting, fun, annoying, pleasurable, and a little painful for her.  We've done it like this a couple more times as it's really fun but the first time was just too long.  By the end of the last day both her holes and her throat were too sore.  My GF can take A LOT of sex but that was the only time I think I've ever seen her hit her limit.

Edited February 21 by jessica1994

[hunterdonNJcpl 1,086]

On 2/12/2024 at 11:45 AM, Billygoat said:

Women Retain DNA From Every Man They Have Sex With

 Don Patrick December 22, 2023

“Results of a new study by the University of Seattle and the Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Centersuggest that women retain and carry the living DNA from every man with whom they have had sexual intercourse with... “Microchimerism is the presence of a small number of cells in an individual that have originated from another individual... DNA, retained in the woman was not from the father at conception.  Also was still present in women who had no pregnancy, brother/twin born or unborn. Leaving the last possibility retainment within her from male/males semen.

Fascinating!! I never heard of this before.

 

Could there be some subconscious drive/instinct in some women to collect diverse DNA?

 

Bc, although it's not necessarily our thing, we have encountered women with voracious appetites for gang bangs and sperm. I used to think it only existed in the realm of porn until i saw it for myself.

Edited February 21 by hunterdonNJcpl

[Fundamental Law 2,817]

13 hours ago, hunterdonNJcpl said:

Fascinating!! I never heard of this before.

 

Could there be some subconscious drive/instinct in some women to collect diverse DNA?

 

Bc, although it's not necessarily our thing, we have encountered women with voracious appetites for gang bangs and sperm. I used to think it only existed in the realm of porn until i saw it for myself.

https://www.reuters.com/fact-check/study-did-not-find-women-store-dna-intercourse-with-men-2024-01-22/

[Shore2Please 533]

Reading all the posts makes me go Ouch

My first Gangbang was being with two guys on the same night feeling trampy and sore. 
I had a date in HS that ended up in his bed while his parents were out for the night. I think we did it three times before I went home. Around midnight my beeper beeped from another guy I dated. No texts back then I had to call him on my bedroom phone. I made up a story to my mother about going to my good friend’s house ending up at the boy’s house. I didn’t even shower from the first guy and the second had no clue what I did before him. 
I can’t even think what being with a dozen partners would do to me or even think about DNA being left. Give me one great lover for a night and I am happy. 

[discreetplay 218]

43 minutes ago, Shore2Please said:

I think we did it three times before I went home.

Did he cum three times? If so, oh the joys of youth!

 

 

[Shore2Please 533]

19 minutes ago, discreetplay said:

Did he cum three times? If so, oh the joys of youth!

 

 

Pretty sure he did as did the second bf. Fortunately both my husband and our primary friend are able to have multiple ejaculations during a night. Lucky for me he doesn’t want multi every night and I’m grateful for lubes. Give me one great lover over a lineup any day. 

[MrMrsswinger 184]

2 hours ago, Shore2Please said:

Fortunately both my husband and our primary friend are able to have multiple ejaculations during a night

I'm one who unfortunately isn't able to get rolling again very quickly these days. In my youth, I could go again nearly instantly. I remember some occasions where I'd go three times during an hour at the make out point in my hometown. As discreetplay said, the joys of youth.

 

You're quite lucky to have a husband who can.

[couplers 4,140]

Although David and Red can achieve multiple erections/orgasms/ejaculations in a day, they now need recovery time, which is sometimes a problem (e.g., the morning quickie) with three women, two men in our family.  Fortunately, they can delay orgasming until one woman has her O, then finish with the second one of us.

[Shore2Please 533]

On 2/22/2024 at 1:29 PM, MrMrsswinger said:

You're quite lucky to have a husband who can.

The most fortunate part is we enjoy the things we do. Sexually foreplay, cuddling and being next to him is the best part. Multiple times is just not relevant, quality over quantity. I am satisfied when we get time together without being rushed. We aren’t 20 and our bodies have changed , they continue to change along with our sexual needs. His refraction, my lubrication and our frequency has changed. 
We don’t play with others often by any standard. We have one couple, I call the husband my vacation husband. Maybe because he is like my husband, unrushed, caring , fun, smart with fabulous human qualities is the reason I give him the best I can. The very first time I was with him he kept going even after ejaculating, he kept checking on my pleasures. I cherish that first time and continue to cherish the times we meet. 

 

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[couplers 4,140]

15 hours ago, Shore2Please said:

I am satisfied when we get time together without being rushed.

In the evening is the best time, we women deciding which man we are going to sleep with (two with one, the third with the other), slowly making love and falling asleep.

[couplers 4,140]

15 hours ago, Shore2Please said:

I give him the best I can. The very first time I was with him he kept going even after ejaculating, he kept checking on my pleasures. I cherish that first time and continue to cherish the times we meet.

What a wonderful relationship!  And your husband is a great man for understanding and giving you the freedom to enjoy such a relationship.  If I recall correctly, you found this by playing separately; again, great understanding on both your parts and a lesson to us all.

[Shore2Please 533]

2 hours ago, couplers said:

What a wonderful relationship!  And your husband is a great man for understanding and giving you the freedom to enjoy such a relationship.  If I recall correctly, you found this by playing separately; again, great understanding on both your parts and a lesson to us all.

I chuckle reading that I am married to a great man, I am but not for the reason you give. I give him equal freedom to enjoy the way I do. When visiting our friends he spends the night alone with the wife with all the freedom they want. Unlike many swingers I don’t find great pleasure watching or being watched. We don’t compete for attention or have a need to put on a show. Over the years since meeting our friends I know I have grown in knowing we aren’t cheating or me worrying how he is enjoying other women. Our excitement comes from only seeing these friends a few times a year keeping the anticipation fresh. 

[couplers 4,140]

19 hours ago, Shore2Please said:

I give him equal freedom to enjoy the way I do.

Yes, you deserve credit for giving your husband equal freedom, but until I hear it from him, it's not clear that he enjoys it as much as you do. 🙂

 

Thanks for making a great point. 

[Shore2Please 533]

2 hours ago, couplers said:

Yes, you deserve credit for giving your husband equal freedom, but until I hear it from him, it's not clear that he enjoys it as much as you do. 🙂

 

Thanks for making a great point. 

He would be happy to call you to discuss our sexual life. 
Neither of us are up for sainthood yet, we aren’t ready for beatification. My feeling is men are excited much easier by visuals, my husband is aroused equally. He isn’t leaving the room if I’m with another woman or if there’s an opportunity for group sex. 
Do you find most gangbangs, the original post, are more for the men, the women there for the entertainment? I can understand a woman with two men, I have participated, I don’t fully understand wanting a gang. 

[couplers 4,140]

20 hours ago, Shore2Please said:

Do you find most gangbangs, the original post, are more for the men, the women there for the entertainment?

My experience is limited, and they weren't really set up as gangbangs, but those situations where multiple men got one of us women (including me, four) was a spontaneous decision.  And it was enjoyed by all.  Although in each instance other women were present and played. 

 

20 hours ago, Shore2Please said:

I can understand a woman with two men, I have participated, I don’t fully understand wanting a gang.

Two, but not at once, is my preference. 

[herpob 523]

I'm worn out reading all of this - jeezers...

[chimrichalds 10]

"Tired" - My wife