Ed & Bunny
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Ed & Bunny last won the day on October 26 2011
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- Birthday 05/31/1967
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Relationship Status
couple
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Location
Southern Mi
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Interests
Nudism, home remodeling, reading
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Occupation
Medical Worker
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Swinging Experience
been around for a bit but still feel new
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edandbunny
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This statement mirrors my feeling exactly. One gal who I was very interested in playing with was probably the least physically attractive of all the women I have met in the lifestyle. It was her confidence and personality that made her desirable.
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Visible scars - are they a turn off?
Ed & Bunny replied to rainbowskye's topic in Look and Feel Your Best!
Being a nudist, I have seen many women with all sorts of scars. I never found the scars to detract from how attractive I find them. The only type of scar I do find to be a turnoff is a woman with cigarette burn scars all down their arm. -
Why would my wife tell me hook up outside lifestyle?
Ed & Bunny replied to Naughtycool's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
I see red flags all over this. I am gonna go with Alura and say that you and your wife need to have a long and serious talk. -
Legality of swinger house parties
Ed & Bunny replied to femnewb4u2's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
Playful, most likely all the states that had sodomy laws on the books before the ruling still have them. It takes time and money for those states to amend their law books, so the laws stay there but are not enforced. The truth is you can be arrested for just about anything if you run into the wrong cop. The reality is that its not very likely. The average street cop has more important things to do than bust the hosts of a private party, and cops who make too many questionable arrests are not going to be popular with their supervisors. I have been involved with similar discussions on a BDSM forum and the consensus is that even with door donations, arrest and prosecution are what they term unicorn events. In other words very rare, but still possible. To the OP, I will give the same advice as I did earlier in another thread. Read the stories in the "Swingers in the News" section. A good many of the stories show the boneheaded things people do to get their parties in trouble, shut down, and yes even arrested. The two most common things you will see are trying to make it a business without the proper zoning and permits, or people making their parties so large and frequent that they seriously piss of their neighbors. Avoid those and anything with kids even on the property, underage drinking, and or drug use and you should be safe from arrest. The bigger risk is an overly nosy and highly religious neighbor who owns a video camera. -
The first thing I would do is read all the articles in the "Swingers in the news" section here on the forum. Swingers make the news by making big mistakes. Learn from others mistakes, rather than making them on your own. After that hire a lawyer who is familiar with this type of law and listen to and follow their advice. Does doing both of the above keep you completely safe? No. As Vegas Lee can attest to, you can follow the law perfectly and still end up in front of a judge. Lastly, if you choose to open a club be prepared to be completely outed about your lifestyle. All it takes is one news report and everyone will know. And we all know sex sells so the chance of finding your names in the paper are pretty good.
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Are you hung like a horse and can screw for hours?
Ed & Bunny replied to LFM2's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
Just the thought of screwing for a single strait hour is enough to make my muscles scream out in protest. It sounds more like work than actual sex.- 36 replies
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Eating Out at a Swinger Club
Ed & Bunny replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Swingers and Sex Positivity in the News
My guess is someplace my mouth desires to be sometime during play......... Actually I think it would be safer in a swing club than a normal public buffet. Knowing where those hands might be going hopefully has people washing their hands more after going to the bathroom. And yes we have eaten food at both swing clubs and all parties we have been to. -
Contacted by a couple that is separated
Ed & Bunny replied to slevin's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
I wouldn't make a decision not to play based only on what Slevin describes. Let's face it, how often when we go to parties do we delve into anyone's full situation prior to playing? We see them, find attraction, have some light conversation around the loud dance music, then if attraction is mutual, head for the bedroom for some fun. Many of us may have already played with a couple like this, without even knowing it. Now as for them being a couple we would want to be long term friends with benefits. That's an entirely different story. I do see us passing on that. -
Is anyone married to a 100% straight girl?
Ed & Bunny replied to mikeswinger56's topic in Bisexual Swingers
Count up another one. Bunny is completely strait. -
Depression, Libido, Swinging
Ed & Bunny replied to happilyplayful's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
We are in a somewhat similar situation right now. Bunny had a heart attack in Dec. and with the changes in life as well as our finances depression comes with the territory. Oh yeah, cant forget the anti-depressant med that lowers libido. So I feel your pain. Unlike you though I have not gotten a hall pass, but I understand your issues with getting one. I would have a hard playing alone. I just wouldnt feel right playing without her there. I might be OK with it if she actively picked my partner for me.- 16 replies
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What was your nicest compliment from a playmate?
Ed & Bunny replied to Alura's topic in Swingers Talk
Not a playmate, but a potential one. It was at a party and we were playing a version of musical chairs called musical men. The gal plops on my lap when the music stopped, slapped her arm around me, looked into my eyes, and said "Hi sexy". Definitely made my night. -
The party we went to last weekend had a game similar they called Human bingo. They added the qualification that the person must show what they are signing. Within 5 minutes I knew and saw one gal had no panties and another gals body piercings. I ended up showing my boxers a time or two. It definitely got you around talking to people.
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Am I weird or what? (Being picky about playmates)
Ed & Bunny replied to shrevecouple's topic in Swingers Talk
It was the same for my wife Bunny. In many ways she is a lot like you. Picky being a prime one. It is something we have been working on. A recent thread has given us some insight. It is here in the Curious About Swinging section and is titled "Curious...Confused". I have discussed some of what was brought out there with my wife and she see's the resemblance. She is happy with me and may be confusing looking for good sex to looking for love. They are two different things with different qualifications. There are many women who I would swing with that I would never marry, but that doesnt make them bad for swinging partners. We are currently working together to try to make the adjustment in how she thinks about it. It is actually working. Last night she did find several guys out of about 50 that she would be willing to play with. It is an improvement from 0 out of 50. The most important thing is I will never push her to go with someone she is not comfortable with or totally unatracted to. All in all though you have to do whats right and comfortable for you, even if it takes a long time. Hell it has taken us several years to get Bunny to the comfort level she is at now. That doesnt matter. What matters is that you are doing it together and having fun at the same time. P.S. Bunny has had the same shock issues as you with what people do in the lifestyle. Surprisingly she has actually survived the experience.