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We enjoyed the swinging lifestyle for a couple years, something we both highly enjoyed. Last year I was diagnosed with stage 3c breast cancer, resulting in both breast being removed, Would love to get back into the lifestyle as it was a very exciting part of our life, but very nervous about doing so. Would love to hear from others both that maybe have gone through it, or has a honest opinion as to how it will be accepted.
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So you all have heard me mention my surgery. I had major surgery on 2/14 that left me with a long incision and 27 staples . Complications arose and on 2/27 I had to have a second surgery leaving me with a longer incision and 37 staples. My regular playmates knew what was going on. When I had to take a break , I was honest about why. Now I've been invited to a get together in May for Cinco de mayo and I am excited because by then I will be able to play. For at least the next 6 weeks I can't. I was looking in the mirror and I now have a huge scar nearly the entire length of my abdominal area. It is so ugly. I am nervous about it being seen. So my question is....would this be a turn-off to you guys?
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Ok Ladies, I have a very odd problem. Between September 05- July 06, I had six invasive surgeries on my right breast. They took a lot of tissue out during each, and I had to spend over a month after each one, packing a huge hole with gauze. They took all of the milk ducts and my nipple no longer will get hard. In fact, there is a major size difference now. I had a partial mastectomy spread out, to make it short. It wasn't cancer, although I am high risk, but it came close to killing me. I do have pics from the first, least severe surgery, after that, it just got too depressing. My concern comes from being uncomfortable displaying all of my chest during play. I am a mom, and I gained 65-70 lbs. when I was pregnant, my only option to fix the truly loose skin is a tummy tuck, the consultation with the laser expert explained all of that. How can I find appealing outfits that will allow me to still feel sexy without having to show my battle scars? I kept a low-cut shirt on during all three threesomes and J has already told me that he would prefer for me not to wear so much during play. I want to have fun without constantly thinking about it! I can get reconstructive surgery, but we have had to wait because it wasn't supposed to come back after the first surgery, so we can't be certain it won't come back. I had one of the greatest doctors though, Dr. Macon, the director of breast surgery for John Hopkins.- 27 replies
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As many of you know, Menages was our first Club experience. As such, it was a soul searching situation for me. I have a question, both for those there and other clubbers as well. (So this may belong in another thread?) If you saw a woman with a single breast in a Swingers Club would you: 1. Avoid her? 2. Feel she shouldn't be there? 3. Recoil? 4. Be disgusted? 5. Feel uncomfortable? 6. Shrug and go on? 7. Kiss the wound? 8. ...???... Probably there are at least three answers in each of you for this query. One, your knee jerk reaction. Two, the knee jerk adjusted to be the answer of the person that you are/want to be. and Three, the answer, for me, because you may know me. Please know that I am comfortable with my body and make no apologies for it's condition. But, that said, I feel that it is part of my job, as a participant in such a situation to present the "body beautiful" or at least the body whole, so as to make everyone else comfortable. In an extreme, I can't imagine being asked to leave a club, but I do believe it would be within the rights of management to ask me to leave. After all, the purpose of the place is to be happy and carefree and escape reality for a while. I'm looking forward to your insights. Thanks, in advance. Smiles!
