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Hey, My husband and I are new to swinging, but we've jumped in with both feet and are having a great time. I thought I'd made peace with my small breasts decades ago. But now--especially after four kids, all breastfed, and a bunch of weight loss, my 34A/Bs are constantly on my mind when I'm preparing to go out to a swinger event. I feel like I'm turning off potential partners before they even get a chance to meet us. I'm very pretty (just being frank, the same way I am about my breast size!) and have a nice ass--but I feel like the breasts are probably a dealbreaker for men and women alike (I'm very bi). I'd never considered implants for many reasons: the expense, the embarrassment of admitting to my vanilla friends and acquaintances that I felt the need to "improve" my sexual appearance, not caring for the way fake breasts feel on other women, and the possibility of making my daughters think they are not perfect the way they are, however they turn out. But most of all, because my mother died of breast cancer and I have to have frequent mammos and occasional biopsies, I don't think they're an option. OTOH, it sucks to feel like I'm missing out because of my breast size. At least guys with small packages are able to keep it a secret until people get naked, lol! I do use padded/pushup bras sometimes, but in moderation, because I don't want to see anyone's face fall when I take my top off. :-) Thoughts? Am I crazy to think many people walk on by when they see my figure? Or am I being realistic? Am I being stupid about implants? Thanks.
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This question is for men and bi-sexual women. What do you prefer on your female partner? Real breasts, "enhanced" breasts, or "who cares?" -
Okay, so I should preface this with the fact that I have never liked my breasts. Mr.Prufrock loves them and says they're perfect, but I've always been a little embarrassed about them. I am a larger woman, but my breasts didn't get that message (the boob fairy forgot me.) They started out almost B cup, now after two kids, at least they're a respectable C cup. But position wise on my chest, my breasts have always been slightly farther apart then they should be (not sure how else to explain that.) Recently, while having a fun naughty shopping trip with Mr. Prufrock, I found an AMAZING bra. I'm not kidding guys, tits up to my chin, for once in my life, I loved the way my breasts looked. It pushes them together so I get lovely cleavage, and it makes me feel sexy as hell, which is a wonderful feeling! Here's my problem... is it deceptive to wear it? I may be overthinking this, but when the bra comes off, they droop a little (I have had two kids after all) and separate. I don't think I look weird, by any means, but they're not perky Mr. Prufrock and I haven't gone to a club yet, but I don't want to meet a couple while wearing the bra, only to have their enthusiasm vanish as soon as the bra does. I've already decided that spanx and the like aren't going on. A) they're uncomfortable, and not sexy and B) if the idea is to get naked with these people they're going to see what I look like with out the sucky-inny thing (as I like to call them) anyways, and it would really be false advertising to wear one. So wouldn't the bra fall under that category? What do you guys think? Should I go with the bra or not?
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Ok Ladies, I have a very odd problem. Between September 05- July 06, I had six invasive surgeries on my right breast. They took a lot of tissue out during each, and I had to spend over a month after each one, packing a huge hole with gauze. They took all of the milk ducts and my nipple no longer will get hard. In fact, there is a major size difference now. I had a partial mastectomy spread out, to make it short. It wasn't cancer, although I am high risk, but it came close to killing me. I do have pics from the first, least severe surgery, after that, it just got too depressing. My concern comes from being uncomfortable displaying all of my chest during play. I am a mom, and I gained 65-70 lbs. when I was pregnant, my only option to fix the truly loose skin is a tummy tuck, the consultation with the laser expert explained all of that. How can I find appealing outfits that will allow me to still feel sexy without having to show my battle scars? I kept a low-cut shirt on during all three threesomes and J has already told me that he would prefer for me not to wear so much during play. I want to have fun without constantly thinking about it! I can get reconstructive surgery, but we have had to wait because it wasn't supposed to come back after the first surgery, so we can't be certain it won't come back. I had one of the greatest doctors though, Dr. Macon, the director of breast surgery for John Hopkins.- 27 replies
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Hey all you guys, which breasts do you prefer, watermelons, or peaches? Or does the size of a woman's breasts even matter????
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Here's the scenario: A woman in an open relationship plays with a new, very good and very compatible casual sex partner outside of her primary relationship. During their first encounter, she suspected that he didn't like her tits. But then during the second time she played with him, he was paying her tits so much attention, she happily remarked, "I thought you didn't like my tits, but you've been playing with them so much, I'm beginning to think you do like them." He then says, "I generally prefer tits that are smaller and perkier, but they're skin and all skin is good skin." If you were this woman, how would you feel about this guy saying this and how would you respond? What types of feelings and responses do you think would be appropriate and reasonable for the woman to have? Would you think it is reasonable for this to hurt her feelings? For her to be in stunned silence? For her to need to be reassured that she is physically attractive to him in some way? That he's not just settling for her and her non-perky tits because she's willing to have sex with him? For her to need to hear that he thinks she's pretty? Alternatively, would you think it is reasonable for her to think that comment was so insensitive that he doesn't deserve to have sex with her? Or do you think the only mature response would be continuing with the play and regarding the comment as no big deal because she has accepted her saggy tits as one of her physical flaws?
