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Hi All ? I’m searching for new ideas for icebreaker and Sex games. I have got some really good ideas from an older post (it’s 20 years old) There must be some new great games now ? I would love to hear your ideas ?
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we play strip poker with a twist. each player gets $10.00 in chips to start when a player losses all of his/her money they sell a piece of clothing for mor chips each piece is worth $5.00. when a player is out of clothes then they trade favors for more money. we do this as follows: kiss 30 seconds $1.00 oral 1 minute $5.00 intercourse 1 minute $10.00 this is a great ice breaker for new friends and newbies as the favors can be with your spouse if they have the money. we have used this many times with great results lots of conversation with little pressure. its worked so well that we don't go any where without chips and cards. as a twist you can make up cards with directions on them ie. winner and losser cards that after each hand the winner and loser pick each card has a direction on it, such as :winner get 30 second message from player of your choice. losser remove one piece of clothing. the cards can be as wild or mild as you want -
Other than strip poker (although new variations on this are always welcome), any suggestions for sexy/intimate games for a threesome or foursome in a hotel room before diving into the main event?
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Julie, stop me if this question has come up before, but I couldn't find it through Search. This question was inspired by another thread. I'm not asking about the initial contact, but after the first contact is made. Which way do you think is most effective at getting to know others before you meet face-to-face? It comes down to 3 methods: Chat Email Telephone For me Chat is nervewracking. Even though I can type 50+ wpm, it moves too fast (when you're typing) and too slow (when the other person is typing). Yet, it's in real time which makes for a more natural and conversational exchange. And chatting creates a more uninhibited exchange than you'd likely have over the phone. Telephone: With nationwide plans for cellphones, this is becoming a less-expensive option, though it's still costly. Yet, there's something about hearing a person's voice that tells you alot about them. Email: my preferred method. It's like old fashioned letters only digitized. It's not conversation, but it gives you time to think, to ask and answer questions more creatively (though increasing the BS factor at the same time). So, what'll be: Chat, Email or Phone? Drew -
As we have gotten into swinging, we have come to find that we like the lead-up to playing almost as much as we like the sexual play itself; especially the sexual discussion and building anticipation We are wondering what people do as "foreplay" - drinks and dinner - games - if so any suggestions for good ones - going to a club - other
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We have read a few posts on this site about getting comfortable with others by easing into things slowly. Perhaps by playing naked games such as strip poker or truth or dare. We think this would be a good way for us as newbies to get comfortable with being naked around others in a sexually charged atmosphere. Perhaps the games could progress over a series of dates from just being naked to touching (erotic massage) to soft swap and hopefully all the way up to full swap. This way it might alleviate a good portion of the jealousy and nervousness that might accompany a first time straight on full swap. Our question is this. It seems to us this would be a good way to start, but just how many seasoned swingers would actually be interested in answering an ad from a newbie couple that stated this is how they wanted to proceed? Would the more experienced swingers just pass this type of profile by? Also, how would relatively new swingers, with just a few experiences under their belts respond (if at all) to a profile like this.
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HELP! We've been to a few clubs both on-premise and off. We're not into the bar scene and are home bodies for the most part. We love this lifestyle and love to play with others. However, we're both "wall flowers". We stick to the sides or shy away from open doors unless someone specifically invites us in at which point we have fun with everyone and everyone has fun with us. So my question is this. What advice can you give a couple of wall flowers so that we can pull up our roots and spread our wings? Any ice-breakers, past successes, or helpful hints would be GREATLY appreciated!!! Thanks Paul and Sarah
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I was reading another thread in which a discussion was taking place on how to move to the play area at a club. What does one say? Should the women be the one(s) to suggest the move? We've little club experience, but I got to thinking back over the years and remembered our first real swinging experience. We had met a couple in line at a pizza restaurant and chatted until we arrived at the order taker. We placed our orders and moved on to the drink machines where it was suggested that we share a booth. The people were attractive, the conversation stimulating and, as the dinner was winding down, it occurred to me that we'd not likely see these people again unless someone made an effort to keep the friendship alive. Just before we got up to leave I asked, "How do y'all feel about swinging?" If they got pissed, what was lost? We'd never see them again. They looked at each other in amazement. The husband ("Rick") said, "Well, we've been talking about it for a long time..." We chatted a bit about the concept but no invitations were exchanged. We did, however, trade phone numbers. The result was another dinner date. After that second dinner, we went to our house. We were seated in our den, Mrs. Alura on one leg of the sectional with Rick, "Jo" and I on the other. We sat and talked for a long time but nobody made a move to "get things started." "Do y'all know any good 'ice breakers'?" asked Rick. "Well," said Mrs. Alura, "Kissing usually does it for me." "Huh?" blurted out Rick, suddenly realizing how dumb the question was. "I mean," replied Mrs. Alura, "that if you were to kiss me, I'd probably warm up enough to melt away any ice that may be bothering you." They both looked at Jo and me and were greeted with two smiling faces. When their open mouths met we got a fleeting glimpse of Mrs. Alura's talented tongue sliding between Rick's lips. As Rick gently sucked her tongue into his mouth, Jo and I kept watching, mesmerized. As they would momentarily break their kisses, we were rewarded with views of their dancing tongues. We watched for what seemed a long time but was probably only seconds when we turned to each other. Mrs. Alura was right. The kisses quickly turned the ice to steam. I had just loosened the buttons on Jo's blouse to find no bra beneath when we heard Mrs. Alura's husky voice ask, "Would you like to fuck me with that thing?" "Oh, yes!" he answered, kissing her again. Jo and I turned to look and saw them kissing, Mrs. Alura naked to the waist, her hand holding Rick's cock which was protruding from the front of his pants while his hand was cupping her breast, his thumb and forefinger teasing the nipple. "How about going into the bedroom, then?" she asked. "You two can join us if you like, or y'all can stay out here," she said as she led Rick away. Mr. Alura
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Ok, you are at a club and you just walked up and introduce yourself to a new couple (or vice versa) and now what? You are sitting across from a new couple and dinner and there is silence.... how do you get things going? What are some no-fail conversation starters? To get people talking. How do you keep the conversation moving with new people or do you even try?
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Hey, The wife and I this past weekend (New Years Eve) went to a party with some friends of ours. Any way to cut through the chit chat, we ended back up at there place that night for some fun adult games. We have known for some time that she was bi, and he was pretty much straight, as the wife and I are. Before we knew it we were all naked and lying around the room. Now we had never been "completely" naked with another person, much less another couple before, by thy way the married couple that we are talking about is an attractive couple. We never did a swap nor did his wife make a move on my wife (who would probably freak out), but we did have sex very close to each other. And the night was GREAT!! Anyway after we had left, the next morning the wife and I talked, and she had mentioned something about swapping, not in a direct kinda way but I got the hint. Now we have been married just a month short of 8 years and have sex about 4 days a week still, but never had we or I had thought about swapping, how do we approach them about it? I know that they have been swinging for some time now (or at least she has - bi females only). I really enjoyed the night, and the wife did too, but how do we go about taking that extra step? What about jealousy? And what harm can it do to our marriage if we decided to cross that line? Any info would really be great!! And any addition thoughts...
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Ok everyone, question? What's a good way to break the ice when swinging? It seems when we meet a nice couple and we all know everyone is interested, we never know how to make a move? The times you're just hanging out in the living room talking. I always find it hard to make the first move in case I seem too pushy to someone. Just because I hate pushy, handsy people myself. Hubby usually doesn't have a problem. He just make a joke of "getting busy".....which often leads to putting people on the spot. Of course the best swinging experiences we have had have been spontaneous, hot n' steamy with no weird feelings. But there have been some awkward times for us and we always look back and try to figure out what could have done to broken the ice. Do you guys have some good ice breakers?
