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- Birthday 04/28/1959
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Relationship Status
Couple
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Location
Paradise
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Occupation
Engineer/Sr. Management
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Swinging Experience
several years
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Favorite Club(s)
Menages, Pleasure Grove Resort
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TravlParty started following Our first MFM experience!!, My wife is Bi, who would have known!, Best swinger site and and 2 others
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Started when I was a teenager. Agree that it has gotten better and better. My preferences are why we got into swinging, not the other way around. Mrs. T
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PK1 - as an example, I checked SwingLifestyle for you, and there are over 80 groups in GA. Good indication that you would find one you liked. I agree with joining for free first to see how it goes. Beware of fakes who pounce on new profiles; they usually work for the site and are there to entice you to stay. If they won't meet you for coffee (tea, beer, etc), within a reasonable amount of time, they're fake.
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From the female perspective (44); I love giving oral and sensual touch all over, so that's never been an issue. I'll spend as much time as it takes. It's when there are medications involved that seem to get in the way of full erections, at least in my experience. Age - no, I haven't seen that being a problem. My best playmates were in their 50's. From the male perspective (49); the libido is nowhere near tired and old. If a woman is actively participating and into me, it works just fine. I'm on no medications, and my blood pressure is that of a 20 year old (per my doc last week). I still get erections from just a kiss. Yes, even when she walks into the room, in thigh high boots, stockings, a garter belt and nothing else.
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They want to "click", and that takes more time than a simple meet for dinner, in my opinion. Hell, the staff don't usually leave you alone so you can talk. They want to turn their table over. Realistically, how much can you flirt at a vanilla restaurant. When you meet at clubs and parties, there's no time limit to how much you can get to know each other. And if it doesn't work out, there's many more couples there to choose from. I'm just saying what works for us. I have no beef with the internet sites and use the events and party sections all the time. It's the one-on-one meets that don't work for us.
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It's a mood thing with me too. I always hate it when someone walks up and pinches or grabs them though. If we're not in a play session, it's just irritating.
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Excellent! Don't forget to check out the club listing and reviews here at this site.
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Desire Resort Cancun info request
TravlParty replied to lovefest04's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
Great news!! This is our favorite resort by far. We've been to Tempations six times and had a great time there also. It's great fun if you're not completely into nudity. Sorry that Cabo didn't grow into the resort that the sister resort in Cancun enjoys.- 66 replies
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Congrats! It's great to hear about good experiences. Enjoy!
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I'm curious how you're going about meeting playmates. Are you strictly using sites to meet one-on-one and then plan a play date later? Then yes, I think that your string of bad luck is normal. Once we left the internet site dating and went to house parties, clubs and groups, we had much better luck.
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Congrats on your experience! You both learned something from the experience, and it wasn't really a bad one, just not perfect. You also learned that you felt ok watching your wife with someone else, and that's good. Good luck with future partners.
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We went to a beauty contest in Cancun, where some of the contestants were cross gender and some were in drag. Many of the "ladies" were gorgeous. The female of us would play. No questions asked. He might, if there was attraction, and post-surgery (female parts). Just haven't had the situation come up yet.
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An exciting weekend without the bf
TravlParty replied to threes_company's topic in Adventures in Swinging
Good to hear that you're moving on to situations that please BOTH of you. If your relationship with your bf is important, you're moving in the right direction. Good luck on finding pleasure! -
Swingers with children...sex education?
TravlParty replied to My Next 65's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Sex education in our household involves open communication - about everything. When your 13 year old asks you what a BJ is, you answer. Group sex is quite common among teens, I've learned. Birth control, STD education, and rape prevention are priority for both girls and boys. The sensual side of sex is also discussed, and how to please a mate. This is the part left out of medically oriented or school taught discussions. Swinging doesn't get discussed until after they're adults, if they even ask. No, I would never introduce my children to the lifestyle or an adult to "teach" them. -
PENIS SIZE! Ever Been Disappointed?
TravlParty replied to JennyMac's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
Only 1 time in 3 years. This guy was a bodybuilder and in great shape. Unfortunately, he was extremely small and in two strokes he was done. I didn't feel a thing. He had bragged about his "equipment" beforehand. He must have been talking about his Bowflex. LOL -
What clothes do you like to see at clubs?
TravlParty replied to IvoryTowers's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
Yuk! I hate that look. She likes men in linen pants (gropability) and soft, silky shirts. I think I made up a word. LOL