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One of the best thing about a swingers club visit is getting to check everyone out to enjoy the scenery and find out who you might want to get to know better. And, one the biggest dilemmas everyone faces is what to wear? So, guys, vote in poll and let us know in the comments what it is you like to see the ladies dressed in. -
I am always on the look out for new and interesting places to get clubwear, lingerie, and leather I'll share some of my faves if you will!! Torrid - plus size clubby clothes Electrique Boutique - clubwear for all sizes - and sexy costumes too Intimate Wholesalers - much like Electric Boutique Spicy Lingerie - nice selection of fetish wear Share?
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Are garter belts sexy? Lingerie is fine, it looks nice, but it's not something I am really big into. But of the various types of lingerie, garter belts are probably one of my least favorites. For one, they just look uncomfortable! That's not to say I'm turned off by them by any stretch of the imagination, but they just don't have the same "ooooooh" factor for me as some other items do. Too, I'm not expert on ladies lingerie, but am I wrong in my impression that they have slipped a little bit in popularity compared to in years past? Wonder why that is? Just a fashion trend or has so much time elapsed since they were actually a commonly worn functional piece of daily lingerie that the whole concept is just sort of fading, even for the "fancy" ones that are designed for sex appeal over function?
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Been out of the loop for a bit and finally back in... attended my first big event in several years. The one thing that really struck me was the complete imbalance in presentation between males vs females. 90%+ of the females dressed to impress (even if they didn't dress to theme - which, of course, most did - it was Naughty Schoolgirl night), yet less than 10% of the men bothered to even dress nice (not even talking about dressing to theme, but just not in shorts and a tank top). My theory (please feel free to dispel it) is that most of those couples were there just for the girls to play and thus the guys did not feel any need to impress. About half of the guys who did bother to dress nice were single guys and actually made the statement to me that "I'm single I know I have to do more to stand out" (well played). As a woman who is there to play with guys (as much, if not more than, to play with women) it irks me that guys don't make an effort. It's a huge turn-off to see guys looking like they aren't doing anything more than running errands on a Saturday afternoon. I'd love to get ya'lls thoughts on this dichotomy, and find out if other women are seeing the same thing.
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Husband and I finally made it to a hotel swingers session and I have several questions. The first is why do so many women wear stockings - stay ups or with a garter belt? Is it to look sexy to the men or is it to feel more sexy themselves? And they DO WEAR THEM while having sex.
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Believe me. I always dress for sex and try to where something that makes me available. But, here's proof that you don't need to get too sexed up to turn a man on. We had a Super Bowl Party...it was very casual. A lot of team jersey kind of apparel. And looky here. Someone, I don't know who, didn't feel it, did a drive-by cum on my butt! LMAO. Do you think it was my ass or the heels that inspired them?
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What clothes do you like to see at clubs?
IvoryTowers posted a topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
So we went to our first on-premise club Saturday and while we had a great time, we were amazed at the variety of clothes people were wearing. We got into a discussion about what outfits are the sexiest and so we thought we'd post a poll. For the record, Mr. Ivory likes women who wear sexy dresses with some skin, but not showing everything. Mrs. Ivory likes her men wearing casual (jeans, button down shirt) but well fitting--why doesn't the oversized trend just die already?! -
This is something you'll have to reconcile for yourself. Do you want to dress down to make others feel less uncomfortable or do you want to look your sexiest, no matter what? As I've said, the majority of the time, I'd rather overdress because I'm putting in the effort to look my best. I'm sure it's made other ladies feel like slobs but to me they should put some effort into making themselves look good, too. Exactly the same for the men. We've met with couples where the men didn't put any effort at all into looking attractive and it's a total turn-off. This is almost like "couples dating". If you were single and in the dating world, you'd want to put your best foot forward and make the best impression possible, right? And I would think the other couple does as well. So what's different about this situation? And we haven't even addressed the sex aspect the situation. The only time this gets tricky is when you go to the other couple's house and they are usually in house clothes. But as I said, we do things backwards and usually go out to dinner then swing for "dessert". For those occasions, I still wear a dress but it's more of a casual one.
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It’s a truism in the LS that the women commonly out-dress the men. There are some excellent basic posts here that have stood the test of time, but, a couple of additional points. If it’s a theme night, and the gentleman takes the time to join his lady dressing in theme, others notice. Couples that are thoughtful and creative enough to dress in theme together have already shown the world that they are in sync with each other and support each other. Yes, if it’s a theme night, we’ll work to complement—and compliment—each other. If we’re just “dressing to impress”, textures, fabrics, and layers matter. It’s not just how they drape. It’s that a potential playmate is going to feel what you are wearing. Whether it’s a hug, a touch on the arm or thigh, or those initial moments of intimacy as the clothes come off, clothes will be seen and felt. Not only do gauze, silk, cashmere, and leather look different—they feel different. Ladies notice these things. Any gentleman who has accompanied his lady while shopping for clothes knows just how much she responds to how fabrics feel. Invite your lady to pick out your outfit to complement hers. Better yet, invite her to shop together. She know what looks good on you as well as—and likely better—than you do. Putting the outfits together with her is an expression of affection. It’s important to her that she have a “sharp-dressed man” on her arm. After all, you’re the one she’s going home with at the end of the evening.- 1 reply
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So in looking at the clubs and their code on dress attire, I notice that pretty much all of them stipulate "no work clothes." I am kind of assuming they mostly mean "don't come in the clothes that you go out and do construction in" or just not to wear something that is too conservative and not sexy. But I actually kind of like the idea of the whole naughty secretary look and its something I could easily do with the wardrobe I have. I mean I would spice it up a bit obviously, but I know there is a huge preference out there for the naughty secretary thing. So my question is, if these are technically office clothes but they are done in a really sexy way, could that still pose a problem? Does this kind of thing fall more under a costumed theme night? Does anyone think a club would turn this kind of thing down?
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Girls, tell us how you like to see the guys dressed at the swingers club! What catches the eye, what's hot, what's not. Us guys need all the help we can get, so girls, help us out! Vote in poll and let us know in the comments what it is you like to see the guys dressed in.
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Greetings All-- My wife and I will be attending in the next month or so our first hotel party (which seems to be different than a simple "meet and greet" which we have tried). Perhaps a silly question-- what should I as a guy wear? Forgive me if this has been answered before but I could not find a prior thread discussing the topic (many threads on women wear). I ask because I obviously don't want to stick out like a sore thumb and I admittedly have zero fashion sense, especially with any new "trends." I would appreciate any help on this, again I know, silly question. MrMarvin
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A few thoughts from Mr. Swingularity (and Mrs. Swingularity has always stood and watched in awe at Mr. Swingularity's ablity to shop fearlessly for himself and her). Before reading the suggestions below, please know YMMV and these are IMHO and you should BE YOURSELF, not try to be someone else. 1) Shoes. These are your foundation. No sneakers. No work shoes. Nothing you walk the dog or mow the grass in. They should be leather. On trend slip-ons, chukka's, ankle boots, and the like are a start. 2) Socks. They need to have been purchased sometime in the last 2 years. Don't be afraid of colors. Black shoes, black/grey/navy base socks. Brown shoes brown, tan, earth tone socks. 3) Belt. Should RELATE to the shoe color. Leather. I like wider belts on even dressish pants, as well as jeans, as they don't pinch or allow pant to bunch above or below. 4) Underwear. Bought within last year. Don't be afraid to go with bold colors and patterns. But black is a sure bet. I like the cotton blend with some stretch fabric boxer briefs that are low on fabric volume. A "boy short" cut. Looks flattering when I'm relaxed, and really nice as arousal finds me. 5) Pants. Lots of options here. One non option: PLEATS. Never, never, never on pleats. They add unflattering volume, and contrary to what "less fit/slender" guys think, they DO NOT make you look slimmer. They make you look NOT slimmer. FLAT FRONT PANTS ONLY. Dress jeans can be really great. Casual chic dress slacks that aren't business focused are everywhere today, and look great. Dress flat front Khaki's in non-tan colors are all around and look great. A slack with some pattern that is subtle can be great. I love blacks and shades of grey, but have red, mauve, dark brown, loden, etc. Thin dress cords in Fall look super. And did I say NO CUFFS? No? I am now. NO CUFFS. Buy the pants for your fit now, not what you hope to fit after losing that 10 or 20 that you're about to lose. 6) Shirts: lots of options here. Don't like polos, personally. Sorry guys, but dress polos are for the country club golf outing. "Club" and casual dress shirts are all around. I prefer non button down collars and collar stays. I think they look, in general, more aesthetically "flowy". Another look that is nice is a stretch t-shirt, black, under a long sleeve knit. Adds nice layering, and can hide a few extra lbs. The t-shirt is like a Spanxs effect. 7) If it's jacket weather a nice unstructured blazer, and there are tons of them, is a nice touch to start the night in. Says something about the man that is akin to "I care about my appearance", so I must be a "care about my partner and my lovemaking" kind of guy. The fit is key here, gents. So many guys have a jacket that's a size or more too big, trying to "hide something". It backfires. Get the perfect fit and drape, and you'll look sleeker. I have one blazer I love: it's a leather blazer in black that just smokes the night. Like a dress jacket meets bad boy club hopper. ? Have a nice watch? They speak volumes. Finishing touches: Your feet are self pedicured. Your fingernails are clean, clipped close, and looking good. You are always shower fresh and not heavily fragranced. And your oral hygiene (that means floss and tongue scraper) is impeccable. You'll look good, feel confident, and be the best you can be...and get noticed. What happens when you open your mouth...that's up to you! Well, this is all fairly brief, YMMV, IMHO, and feel free to think "Dude...wtf?!?!" These basic principles have been in place for me since about my mid-to-late 30's, and refined over the years. If the feedback my wife gets about my attire is anything to go on, the ladies notice. I'd be happy to hear any tips or thoughts on the whole "male attire" issue from others. I'm always looking for ideas! Well, it's off to give my wife a minty fresh kiss... Mr. Swingularity
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How dressed up do you get when you go out with other couples? Do you get yourself all decked out or do you go fairly casual? I've read a long time ago on the boards how the women get themselves all looking perfect for the night out wearing sexy clothes, hot shoes, make up and nails done just perfect... but I've noticed in my experience that most of the time everything is more dressy casual than dressed up. I'm sure it matters whether you are meeting at a restaurant or a club. What is your favorite outfit to wear when going on a couples date?
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The women have had their say on what they think looks sexy on a man. I would like men's opinion on what looks sexy on a woman? What do you hate to see on women? Blessings Mrs. PaganLovers
