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Chicup last won the day on August 17 2023

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  1. A lot of "straight" guys are lying on their profile. I'm listed straight and I still get "straight" guys asking if I'm into guys, so it's going to be worse for you. Also I think some guys are so hard up for sex they would have sex with you if it meant sex with your wife too. I was once offered directly "I will suck your dick if I can fuck your wife".
  2. Our rule now is simple. You mail us, you send us face pictures first. We mail you, we do first. Your privacy is not more important than mine. I don't mind them mailing us to a free email account though.
  3. I think couples, especially new couples, have a certain fear of losing that intimacy. We don't do anal just because neither of us like it, but otherwise we never had any "don't do this" rule. It never really occurred to us to have one when we started. Perhaps the best thing to come out of swinging was figuring out that while sex is important to our relationship it wasn't about sex.
  4. You can still do it for fun, just protect your identity and don't do it for money. It is a big step from camming to a strip club... while my wife would cam anonymously, she would have to be in a small town in rural Romania to feel comfortable stripping at a club.
  5. My favorite comment was from someone I worked with a few years ago. "If your life was a TV show it would be canceled." (Implying that I was far too boring and normal).
  6. Just an addendum here. You WILL be recorded, and it WILL be available on the net. I did a bit of searching and the major cam sites have bots that record everyone on them, and then upload the video to sites. You need to pay for the download access to them. It is not the cam sites that do it, as far as I can tell, but 3rd party.
  7. Whenever we are out and about with vanillas someone almost always brings up swinging. We've heard some amusing ones, add yours. "They put their keys in a bowl and they have to have sex with that person, they can't say no!" "I heard about (that town/burb over) its full of swingers" - its always near but not their neighborhood and I've heard a version of this one several times. "I'd go but they are always ugly." "I'd not go but damn the women are hot." "Oh speaking of cheating, we hear there are swingers..." Add your own!
  8. SLS is an awful site on a lot of levels, BUT almost everyone seems to have a profile there, even if they have a preferred site that is not SLS.
  9. It is like the old saying...once you do porn, you can't go back. Now you can do things to hide your face etc., but those won't get nearly the views or money. Also if you accept money at least someone knows your real name. Do it for fun on your own terms if you are going to do it.
  10. We are all "shallow" about something and swingers are a bunch of hypocrites in this sort of thing. Everyone says they value personality, intelligence, etc over looks but that's just because it sounds good. For most they value personality, intelligence, etc AFTER you pass the looks test. If it was just based on who you are on the inside, most people would be swinging with most others, as I've found most swingers, no matter what they look like, pretty fun and intelligent people to be around. Instead you find most couples looking for those prefect "matches" and I'd bet a lot of money it is not their knowledge of 10th century artwork that is the hold up. Never feel YOU are at fault for not wanting to have sex with someone. This is a recreational activity, not a platform for social activism. I have to agree. Them ain't good odds.
  11. I have to be honest, I've always found a "pocket pussy" somehow disgusting. To me it seems more like a dissected piece of a woman. For some reason I don't have the same aversion to dildos.
  12. I personally feel that masturbating with my wife, is like bringing my own food into a restaurant.
  13. I think the issue is you are treating your desires as somehow "wrong" in how they work, hence the word "hang up". Being not bi I don't consider my lack of desire to have homosexual sex of any kind a "hang up" and get rather annoyed when some posters seem to imply it is (), it simply is what it is. I would also not call my wifes lack of desire for anal sex a hang up. I could go down and pick out a dozen common sex acts between us that we don't care for, maybe tried once, maybe not at all, and odds are never will. We might change in that, we have in some over the years, but for now it's what we like. Rather then blame yourself as somehow flawed for your desires, or in this case, lack of desires, accept them as what you are and have fun within those parameters.
  14. So you feel threatened, your heart rate increases as the adrenalin starts pumping, and now suddenly see through. It's like a nightmare come true for many. Brilliant!
  15. I have to add something.. Swinger Photo Rule #24 - If you own a motorcycle you must have at least two shots of said motorcycle and at least one with your wife draped on it.
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