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RDfnd last won the day on July 15 2010
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180 ExcellentAbout RDfnd
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- Birthday 02/05/1956
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Relationship Status
vine swingers
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Location
Dominican Jungle
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Occupation
Third World Couple
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Swinging Experience
2 years
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SLS Name
RDfnd
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RDfnd started following Looking for a Hung (8-9) Male?, Couple turned us down :(, First time threesome and and 5 others
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we've had a couple mfm's and she has gone wild. i want to get involved but seldom can until the end. it's like watching live porn, lol. but it's great to see her enjoy and her libido gets quite a lift which is a side benefit for us.
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We've always done same room, but sometimes I have been too distracted by my wife and her partner. I think if we we were in separate rooms, it may be better. Have to give that a try!
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We're mind 50's and late 40's. Not by age selection on our part but most of our playmates have been in their early to mid 30's.
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My wife thinks it's hot and would like to experience seeing me have MM contact during play. Can't say the though doesn't cross my mind. I know I'd need some encouragement for it to happen. But under the right circumstances would probably give it a try.
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We've only had mfm's and she loved it. They have been with single guys almost 20 years younger. All good, Most of our swing partners have been younger by 10- 15 or more.
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We had to develop an attitude to let the bad experiences go. Not to dwell on them and move on to the next.
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We only play in our own race....offensive?
RDfnd replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Finding People to Swing With
To me, part of swinging is the variety it provides. As long as there is adequate physical attraction between all parties to have sex, that's all that matters. Older, younger heavier, thinner, and from any race or culture on earth. That's part of the whole experience. My wife enjoys some black men. Why shouldn't she have the chance to have sex with them if the situation presents itself. There are women from all races that turn me on and I wouldn't pass up a chance to experience them sexually either. To each there own but we prefer to not limit our playing field. -
mfm's are so hot
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Wish I could apply for the job, but sadly I can't. However, I've been told I do well with what I have.
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Sounds very typical. I was convinced, once my wife agreed, it was done. Then the fact that she (as many women do) became the "leader" in our adventures.
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How good the giver is!
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Felt used by FWB couple at club...
RDfnd replied to sherpa56's topic in Finding People to Swing With
Hi sherpa56, Here's my read on your experience. Commitment is such a vague term. Some married couples have open relationships that would be accepting of going home with others. As this unmarried couple was. Two unmarried couples decide to play. All involved seem to have had equal opportunities. For certain it's not uncommon to get distracted by watching your partner. But starting a question and answer session after things got started? We find that swinging experiences for us are in the present. A couple or single is present, we are present, agreement to play and game on. If for you, other requirements exist, then they should be discussed beforehand. -
Do you have a purge & sanitize plan?
RDfnd replied to two4youinswva's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Here I thought the thread would be about plans to handle broken condoms, unexpected deposits and such. Wow was I ever wrong. No purge and sanitize plan for us. If it happens, so be it. My bet is anybody that would make the discovery wouldn't be all that surprised. Just maybe, if they hadn't considered swinging, then they might afterwards. Planting the seed posthumously.- 30 replies
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We fantasize about many of these things and would love to find singles or couples that we developed the comfort level in order to play bareback so we could experience some of them.
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Why do you think "reclaiming sex" is so good/hot?
RDfnd replied to shrevecouple's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
I completely understand and agree with Vi on this one. After swing sex, our sex is enhanced by us not just thinking about the other partner(s), but also talking about them and the experience while we have sex. Reliving together the eroticism of the past experience is all part of the excitement. It's not the only reason our post- swing sex is so hot, but it definitely plays a role in it. I'm confused with this question you pose: Is it wrong for me to want to know it's all about me when we come back together? I'd have to have a better understanding of what you mean to accurately comment, however my first inclination is to feel that at least for us, everything about swinging has to in one way or another be about both of us, never one or the other.