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One of the kindest people we know has just past suddenly. I am being a little vague on the description for discretionary reasons. We were broke into swinging with this couple and they were the best. They were so kind and patient with us that it made our intro into swinging seem all most natural. We are social friends with them outside of the community and they were pretty active up until a couple of years ago. I don't know if we should go to the funeral.. I think we are.. but I will ask the survivor if it is ok if we show up. What would you do.? I usually am not at a loss for words,,, but this time I am... Please advise. -
After reading this thread on photography and swinging, and seeing concerns about being exposed expressed, my thoughts turned to the slightly morbid, but still a possibly interesting and important subject to some. For those that are concerned about being exposed, or putting loved ones in an uncomfortable position: Do you have a Purge & Sanitize plan should the worst of possible events occur; you and your spouse pass away at the same time? Specifically, I'm thinking in terms of playtime pictures, videos, etc. Do you care who sees it at that point? What about computer access? Do you have files that you wouldn't want certain family members to see after you've gone to the big house party in the sky? Have you picked someone to come in and take care of these type of things before the family started sorting through your stuff, or do you figure "Hey, we're gone, so fuck it, they can just deal with it"? If you have picked someone to make the purge, what steps have you taken to ensure they can complete this task unhindered? Yeah, it's not the happiest or most uplifting subject to bring up, but I think it may be a worthwhile discussion.
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Hello all not sure really where to put this so thought General would be a good place to put this it is sad but also an eye opener. We had gone to a club this weekend and a couple we hadn't seen in a couple of months was there. We consider them friends and haven't played with them but have done alot of teasing among the four of us, timing just hasn't worked in our favor. We were all sitting at the same table pretty much just hung out together and having fun, they were very affectionate with each other which we hadn't seen in the past and the male half was sort of pushy in the aspect of trying to get his wife to go down on S and at one point had taken his wife's dress and told her she couldn't have it back until I had fucked her. We hadn't been to the club in a couple of months do to life and all, any way near the end of the evening the couple was joking around with each other chasing each other being silly and he said he had to take a breather. He sat down at a chair near where they were being silly and the next thing you know he is slumped over. He quit breathing and his heart stopped. 911 was called they came did what they could and he passed away he was only 43. We watched our friend die in front of us at a swinger club. I guess I am posting this to sort of let everyone know just how short life really is and to try and enjoy as much as you can while you still have it. Sort of in shock still but was glad to see them joke around and be silly with each other. D
