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sxmcouple started following Party Games and Icebreakers - Sexy, fun ideas!, House party music playlist, Swinger vacation ideas? and and 6 others
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Any suggestions on a playlist or hot & sexy songs to add to our list for an upcoming house party? Thanks.
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Swinger vacation ideas?
sxmcouple replied to Hoosier20427's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
We love St. Martin. Nude beaches and a great vibe. We generally rent a villa with another like minded couple or two and also plan a couple of get-togethers while there for some added fun. Different type of vacation than the all-inclusive for sure, but very HOT.- 25 replies
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Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?
sxmcouple replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Swingers Talk
We went on a cruise in April to the Bahamas and the group we booked with were a bunch of folks in the "Lifestyle". This was a big step for us as its something I've been curious about for many years but never had the balls to actually bring up. The cruise was a perfect opportunity to expose us to the lifestyle with no pressure or expectations. We had a great time and realized that the lifestyle is just that and we both had a lot of misconceptions about it, most of which was that everyone that swings does a full swap. Most of the folks we met didn't but played to a lesser extent, like soft swap and the like. After the cruise we had some very good friends ask us if we were swingers. They thought we were because of our trips to St. Martin and just assumed that since we liked getting naked we must swap. We told them that we were not but that we were talking about it a lot more since the cruise. So after a couple hot weeks of discussing it all, the 4 of us got a hotel room and played together one night. Just soft stuff, but we all had a very hot time. So we are looking to experience the lifestyle some more. Thinking about a club maybe. All I can say is WOW. -
Your story sounds so familiar to mine. Can't wait to see how far the Ms. will take it but obviously she's well past the long standing line that it was gross. Watching her make out with another woman while I sat between the two ladies was an amazing thing to witness. Can't wait to see what happens next.
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We played strip Jenga and that seemed to do the trick. Actually got to the point where people we intentionally trying to knock the tower down so as to get naked quicker.
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Who does the work when it comes to swinging?
sxmcouple replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Swingers Talk
When it comes to swinging, who is in control? Is it the guy or the woman and why? My wife is in control and from what I am learning about the lifestyle the ladies are the one who make the rules, which is all good. Who posts the ads? He does, but she wants to know what the responses are Who answers the ads? He does, after she vets them Who sets up the meetings? He does after her approval.- 53 replies
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How old is everyone and how long have you been swinging?
sxmcouple replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Curious About Swinging?
We are 42(him) & 40(her) respectively. We're very new as in only a couple experiences in the past couple of months. We have been together for 20+ years and wondered why it took us this long to get to where we are or if maybe for some it just takes that long. Either way, we're very happy where we are. -
Newbies: Who would you rather play with?
sxmcouple replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
Our first time was with our best friends which was also their first time. We all had very good times. I was surprised by how much my wife enjoyed the experience. It has really opened some new doors for us and we are much better for it. So I think we weren't so much concerned about the experience level of the other couple but more so our comfort level.- 71 replies
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Who brought up the idea of swinging? OR has it been brought up?
sxmcouple replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Swingers Talk
I brought it up but quickly found out it was a mutual interest. Then we were asked by some close friends who suspected we were into the lifestyle or exploring about it and we said yes we were and so it has been an interesting time to say the least.