Isn't that easy, but it's full of new adventures.
Since Ted and I spend every other weekend in North Carolina, we've decided to see about getting involved in the swinger scene here (in N.C. at the time of this posting).
We are well established in Florida, having many friends we can call upon and knowing all the good house parties to attend. Everyone we party/play with in Florida know we're only in town every other weekend and understand our situation.
What we're looking for here i
Back when I started this blog I mentioned something along the lines of hopefully being able to impart a bit of wisdom from my dingy brain. In an attempt to do that, here's a bit of my dingy wisdom for you to contemplate....
On a 12 hour drive you have a lot of time to think. This past Friday my thoughts were on why Ted and I get along so well. My conclusion was it's because after all these years we still know how to "play".
I'm not talking about playing in the sense that
If you're a kid, that would be Christmas. As an adult, it's Halloween .
Ted and I love dressing up for Halloween. We've always dressed up even before we got into swinging and going to swingers Halloween parties, and hopefully we'll still be dressing up for Halloween when we're in our 90s.
This year we don't have a swingers party to go to as we'll be in N.C. this coming weekend and haven't really gotten into the swinger scene up there...yet. But, we do have a vanilla Halloween party we
That's what Ted told me the other morning while we were standing at the gas pumps filling my car for the trip home.
Now, before anyone asks, yes I can pump my own gas, but it's become a ritual with us that on the Mondays I head home after spending the weekend with Ted he pulls into the gas station with me and pumps my gas for me. It allows us a few extra minutes with each other and allows us one or two more kisses and hugs.
This past Monday, we were hugging and giving each other last
It's my weekend in N.C. with Ted and he needed to work both days this weekend. No big deal, I've spent plenty of time in his office and know how to entertain myself (when he doesn't put me to work too ) .
Anyway, on our drive in yesterday he asked what we wanted to do after he finished up what he needed to finish. I told him we needed to find a sex shop, momma needs a new vibrator. He had no idea where one was located so it was my job to get on the web and search out one. As luck would
After what seems like months of life just not cooperating with us, things have settled down and the stars have aligned so that we can go out and play tonight
We're headed to our favorite house party. It's been months since we've been able to attend and we're both looking forward to it. It will be good to see some old friends and hopefully meet a few new people.
Also, if our luck holds, next weekend we're hoping to finally get with a friend for some MFM playtime. We've been trying to g
I haven't been around much the past month or so and there is a good reason...Ted gave us a serious medical scare a couple of days after we returned from our "Mountain Creek Grove" trip back at the beginning of July. He's better now, back to normal and things are going to be okay, but the scare was bad enough that I stayed in North Carolina with him the whole month of July because he couldn't drive due to the dizziness he was having.
I'll say right now that even though I've never been s
I promised a report on "The Grove", so here it is. It's long, so if you want pertinent info, skip to the end and if I didn't answer anything you want to know, just ask.
First let me say this may not be your typical trip report. For those of you who've read any of our post and/or my blogs, you probably know that Ted and I don't get to spend a lot of time together, and more times than not, when we do get the chance to be together we're very selfish with each other and just enjoy sitting, hold
As per my previous blog entry, Ted and I are headed to The Grove this weekend. It's clothing optional and when given the option of wearing clothes or not wearing clothes, we're going to choose NOT to wear clothes.
I'm in the process of trying to pack and I've got THREE suitcases packed What the hell is wrong with this picture? I don't understand. I text Ted and asked him and his only answer was..."It takes a lot of accessorizing to look good nekkid"...
One suitcase is full of noth
Ted's been home since last Saturday and we've been having a blast! It's the first time in months we've actually spent more than two nights in a row in bed with each other. We've been doing our damnedest to make up for lost time with each other...we've been burning up the sheets.
We've been celebrating!
Tomorrow night at 7:30, he and I will be FREE Our youngest graduates from high school. We've waited over 26 years for this day to come and it's finally here.
Even though we'
When you wake up the next morning, with carpet burns on your knees.
Last Saturday night Ted and I went to a house party at J & T's house...had a fabulous time.
Today, I had lunch with J & T. After lunch we were sitting around chatting and reminiscing about the party and I made mention that I had carpet burns on my knees and couldn't exactly remember how/when I was on the floor to receive said carpet burns.
J told me it probably happened when I was sucking **** and **** w
I just found out a friend of ours will be having a house party this weekend. We LOVE going to his parties, they are WILD!
My luck has once again not failed to disappoint me, I'll be broke this weekend.
Now, one could look at that as being a total bummer or one could look at it as just being a part of life and one of those pesky little things we must deal with and just go on about our business.
I'm choosing to look at it in a deal and go about my business type of way.
I know t
The party was fun and I kept my promise to myself and only had one Margarita.
I did have a bit of a problem with one of the games that was played. You had to write down three things about yourself and the third thing had to be sexual in nature. It took me a while to think of something that wouldn't be over the top. It had to be something that you had done, wanted to do or enjoyed about sex. All I could think of was MFM threesomes...done it, wanted to do it again and enjoyed it
In a little bit I'll be headed out to attend a Passion Party.
Nothing really interesting in that by itself but, considering this party is being thrown by a vanilla friend who knows that I can be a bit verbal when it comes to talking about sex and Margaritas are on the menu I'm a bit concerned about controlling my mouth.
I have made a promise to myself that I will only have one drink so that I don't let my mouth run away with me.
It should be fun and if I can remember I'm not in the
This past weekend Ted and I took a much deserved, long overdue, weekend trip away from the world, just the two of us.
Most of the weekend was spent in the hotel room just enjoying the alone time together. As is our norm, when we're together we're naked. At one point, while we were clicking around the internet, him on his laptop, me on mine, he gets up to go to the bathroom. As he walked by me, he bent over to give me a kiss. What started out as just a peck on the lips turned into a ve
Yes, I did stop and stare.
He was just too damn delicious looking not to.
I love men with long hair (go figure) and when I'm out and about if I see a man with long hair, I always try to get a better look.
Today while shopping I noticed a beautiful head of hair that reached just below the shoulders of a very masculine body. His back was to me to begin with, then...he turned around. MY OH MY ! The front was even better than the back.
I stopped dead in the middle of the aisle
The past year was horrible for Ted and I as far as our swinging life goes. In fact, it was the worst year we've had swinging, since we started swinging. I can count on one hand the number of times we played last year.
Life was just not good to us when it came to having time to play and at times it was difficult for us to even find time for just the two of us.
Living apart was the main obstacle in our fun time. Something had to be put on the back burner during the times that Ted was ho
Our schedule just really sucks!
Ted's home this weekend and both of us are in the playing mood...but, wouldn't you know it...NOTHING is going on this weekend.
I've checked every group we're members of that hold regular house parties and nothing...next weekend is packed full of parties, which does us no damn good as he won't be home next weekend. I even contacted our regular play buddy and he's out of the damn country so no luck there.
I wish there was a club close by but unfortunat
I sit here after a glass (actually two) of Tequila and miss my baby! (Now, I must tell you that a glass of Tequila is equal to about three shots, so if you see any typos in is post, you'll know why).
Not that it's been a bad Friday night.
I went to dinner with friends tonight, always an enjoyable time...but, it doesn't compare to a night with my sweetie.
Life sucks sometimes...when the one you love is miles away and it's still days until you will be reunited...(Oh hell, Journey's "Op
There's been a couple of incidents occur which has made me come to the conclusion our bedroom is rather unusual and they've made me smile and giggle with delight.
Few people have ever seen mine and Ted's bedroom since I finally finished the remodeling in it. The kids have been allowed at the door, just to peek in to see the paint treatment and only a handful of friends have been given the full tour. Our bedroom is our retreat and we don't share it lightly.
The incidents I'm referring t
Life has been a bit hectic for us lately but...thankfully it seems to be calming down enough that we can start having some fun again.
We had plans to meet up with our favorite fuck buddy tonight. He's leaving to work out of country for a while and it was going to be the last chance we had to see him for a few months. Unfortunately, his schedule changed and instead of leaving on Sunday he had to leave today, which means our play date for tonight was canceled
However, on Thursday night a f
Saturday night Ted and I headed out to a house party that some friends of ours were giving. Due to the fact that our daughter was home from college this past weekend, I had told them we wouldn't be able to make it, we needed and wanted to see the kid since we rarely get to see her.
Well, the night before the party I got an off-line message...I need you, there's over 30 couples/singles signed up for the party and I need my door greeter. NO you just didn't...was my reply....you played the fr
I think I'm going to have to stop saying "I love having two men at once" and start saying, " I love having three men at once"
Last night we headed over to our regular play buddies house for some fun and frolic. On occasion he will invite others to join us...last night, he picked a winner.
The three of us mesh so well with our playing style that sometimes it's hard to find another single, male or female, that fits in well with us. We've always had fun with inviting another person to
Ted and I were lying in bed this morning, just clicking around the interweb, as is our habit on most Saturday mornings and discussing if we wanted to go out and play tonight or not.
We click over to SLS and there's an e-mail from our regular play buddy. Our ensuing e-mail exchange was cracking me up...
Him: What ya'll up to tonight?
Me: Well, was just fixing to e-mail you and ask if you were horny.
Him: I'm always horny.
Me: Yes, but do you want to play tonight?
"Tell me your sexual desires" tattooed across my ass?
Maybe I should be more careful about bending over while in a store Some days I meet the most interesting people.
I was in Wally-World today, trying to find a B-day gift for a family member. I was bending over looking through the movie rack when a man walks by talking on a cell phone. He taps me on the back (which was polite I suppose since it was really my ass sticking up in the air), covers the cell phone, smiled and said "Hi".