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- Birthday 03/22/1979
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Relationship Status
married couple
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Location
Michigan
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Interests
Cooking, camping, renaissance faires, hunting, sewing, knitting.
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Occupation
Home maker
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Swinging Experience
7 years
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SLS Name
brattycpl
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I agree, strangers for a GB is a very bad idea. We used to attend orgies, but TBH, they really were more like GB's. Some nights there could be 20+ guys coming and going and only 4 or 5 girls. It's hard to tell someone you're not interested while fucking someone and the other person sticks their cock in your face. Not something I recommend.
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First time swinging... I got drugged.
MIbbwcpl replied to Rofliron's topic in Adventures in Swinging
I am so sorry this happened to you.- 17 replies
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I feel sorry for her. That just sucks that her self-esteem is so low that she won't run from that jerk.
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my slutty gf. hear what she did now
MIbbwcpl replied to young_couple's topic in Adventures in Swinging
Judging by the OP's posting history I'm calling BS on the whole lot of it. Something is rotten in Denmark, that's for sure. I can't see someone being vanilla to full blown slut mode including GB's in just 4 months. Add to that the posts of pics asking what we think of her...something is just off here. -
I'd say 8 in plus, considering that 6 is average.
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How many Sex Toys do you own?
MIbbwcpl replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
We have a lot. I have a Hitachi Magic Wand with attachments, about 5 glass toys, a vibrating cock ring, clit pump, a dolphin, rabbit, a few vibes, a big black dong, and a Feeldoe. He has a few things too a cock pump, a few rings. We also have some BDSM stuff. I want a Sybian. -
The "Kissing" Rule for Swingers
MIbbwcpl replied to Mariposa_y_Oso's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
We've encountered a non-kissing couple once, and it's not something I would want to repeat. We were at an on-prem club in a group room with them and another couple. I found out about the rule after I came over for some fun with him and had already kissed him. I felt like I had done something majorly wrong-but in all honestly they should have informed everyone of their rule before anything happened. I still fucked him, but it was kind of a buzz kill. In the future, we choose to avoid non-kissing couples. The way we see it is kissing is a large component of sex. I'm good enough to give/receive oral with and have intercourse with, whats the big deal about kissing? We understand everyone needs to have their rules, but that is one rule we'd rather not deal with. -
I think that it's good that you haven't played with anyone yet. It is clear to me that you two still need to work things out and if you cannot come to agreement then it is best you don't play with others. Communication is huge in any relationship, and especially in a swinging relationship. If you do decide to go forward, you might want to check out local swinger social groups and do a few meet and greets at off premises parties. That way you could meet new people, something he wants to do, and you could get to know them too, something you'd prefer. I can understand his hesitance to swing with people you already know, if things don't go well you could cause unneeded drama with your friends. Ultimately I suggest you do some soul searching together and figure out what it is that you both want and whether or not you can meet each others wants. Do this before going forward with any playing.
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my slutty gf. hear what she did now
MIbbwcpl replied to young_couple's topic in Adventures in Swinging
Holy crap! I really hope this isn't true, seems like Jerry Springer fodder! Clean with papers or not, I wouldn't do that. STD testing is really only good for the moment the test is given. A guy could be tested for everything under the sun and be clean, and immediately go out and get herpes, chlamydia, gonorrhea, HIV, etc. No thanks. -
Swingers fired after being exposed
MIbbwcpl replied to VegasLee's topic in Swingers and Sex Positivity in the News
This story is largely why we never reveal the Mr's employer. We'll admit his occupation, but never ever where he works nor what shift. It's no one's business and you never know when you might have a crazy partner or potential partner who decides to make life difficult for you. We cannot afford to have our livelihood harmed like that. I hope that couple gets a better job, or their job back with the theatre.- 18 replies
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I have encountered people who have certain techniques or assets better than my hubby's, and I tell him that. He's encountered women with the same, and he's told me. But overall, I wouldn't say I've ever encountered a better lover than he. There is something about that emotional connection, it's just more satisfying with him.
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We are not poly, yet. We are a married couple, I'm (the Mrs) bi and he's curious. We're open to poly occurring if it were to come up. We're not actively seeking, but if it happens it happens.
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New, and Needing Help w/ Pressure!
MIbbwcpl replied to rose_bleu's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
It seems to me that he's more concerned about having a pass to get outside pussy without guilt than your relationship. Unfortunately I think many of us have heard this tale before, and I've even encountered it in a club! It's all about respect and communication, IMO. Partners need to respect each other and communicate openly. It is disrespectful, not only to yourself, but also your relationship to 'compromise' and do something one or the other doesn't want to do. You have no interest in having an open relationship, and if he truly cares about you and your marriage, he needs to respect that. I'd say it's better to end things now before compromising into something you don't want, than to do it and resent it. I think he needs to do some soul searching and find out why he feels this way, and what he needs to do to fix it. The problem really is his, and not yours. I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. -
Swinglifestyle.com is good, OK Cupid isn't too bad either. I've found, overall, online swingers searches is hit or miss.
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CL is too hit or miss IMO. I don't mind reading ads, have responded to a few (f seeking f) but haven't met anyone on there.