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Both my wife and I have emotional attachments to others in our group. It doesn't bother us. We've gone off on vacations alone with others. Having feelings for another doesn't have to break up a marriage, it can add excitement and enhance it. We have no rules.

The risk a wife finds out and has a gun, or Daniela gets deposed in a divorce proceeding. And just the inability to share it all among the four of us. I want to be able to call the other husband or wife and discuss the sex.

One of the reasons Daniela liked being in relationships with married men was that they both knew that he wasn't going to leave his wife. She didn't have to worry about the whole thing going further. The sex he had with his wife may have been below par, but she loved the fact that he was fucking both of them. She wanted him as soon after he fucked his wife as possible. Daniela was the one who had several going at once.

Within our closed group of married couples, we have no rules, so it's like we both have an unlimited hall pass. We discuss everything, not because it's a rule, but because we like talking about the sex we have with others.

Me recognizing that is what got me to encourage my wife to enjoy other men, and women.

In our early days in the lifestyle, my wife played and I didn't. We always met the guy who she was going to fuck socially for dinner to make sure everything was understood all around before they started. Not so much that I wasn't a cuck, but that I knew, was fine with it, and her pleasure was the priority. You could call it hotwifing, but it was really just our first step.

Him: "If I knew you were a virgin, I would have taken longer." Her: "If I knew you had more time, I would have taken off my pantihose first."

That's my wife’s thing too. Before we married, she used to have relationships with cheaters, usually 6 months to a year and more than one at a time, but cheaters are the only thing I asked her not to do. Now she's happy doing married men in swaps. We almost always only talk about the good, the exciting and forget the rest. Amen, brother.

For my wife and I that is workweek activity, catching what we can, usually alone, when we can. As you say, kids and all. Weekends are the larger gatherings.

It's been the opposite for me. One of the women in our group has a loose pussy to start with, and when I have sloppy seconds with her it's a teasing, no friction, slight pull. She makes me really work for me to cum, but when I do my orgasm is so intense it's mind numbing.

One guy in our group said that he liked it when his wife was sucking dick, any dick, because it gave him a break from her talking.

Me too. Those were the guys that we first started in the lifestyle with by hotwifing. It was comfortable all around because she had fucked them before. So no big deal for me, and these were guys she had good experiences with. And the exes were eager to put their hands on her tits and get between her legs again.

Perhaps. Depends if she likes tits and pussy, and having a woman's hands and mouth all over her. Not only does Daniela like the physical aspects of sex with women, but she also balances out her domination of men with being submissive to other women. A psychological kink she has that's interesting to me.

We definitely have done it. Daniela my wife with two other guys (separately), and I with a women in our group who was pregnant, and of course in addition to me fucking Daniela and my ex-wife during her pregnancies. Yeah, at certain points during their pregnancies they were really horny. As they progressed, it was always doggy. The other thing was the way their tits got big and nipples dark.

I was good that you knew each other well in that regard before you got married. It must have made the post marriage lifestyle discussion much more comfortable than most.