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Malachista last won the day on February 4 2010
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170 ExcellentAbout Malachista
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Rank
Pussy on the Prowl
- Birthday 08/11/1981
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Relationship Status
Single Female
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Location
Central Europe
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Swinging Experience
2 years
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Should Single Women Split the Room Cost with Couples?
Malachista replied to realcplub2's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
While I'm always willing to pay my part, I think that couples and guys who are willin to pay everything are also more generous in bed -
The club started out as couples only, and latter added singles, because it was requested by the couples, They first started out having a night including singles once a month, then once a week, then having couples only once a month, and dropped the couples only two years ago, after these nights only pulled around 20 couples, while mixed nights they get 40-50 couples. Currently they are even thinking of goint grom 20 SM max to 25 or 30, as again Single F as couples are claiming that there are not enough Single males
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Sorry, I guess it was more a question for chicup then. "I would not go somewhere where I have to see M/M" is making a double standart of the situation again. There are people who don't want to see F/F but they just have to accept and ignore it, because nobody thinks about not allowing it "in the open*
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I have a wall calender full of stickers and codes.... while some stuff is rather basic (like laundry day) there are also symbols for different sexual things. It's in plain view for everyone coming to my home, but it's just as useless if you don't know what each symbol means (and since I use this for years now, I don't have a written a guide to it anywhere)
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Does swinging equal sex addiction?
Malachista replied to NymphoWind's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
I really have a problem with people who declare themself to be *sex addicts* just because they swing and prefer to have sex 3 or 4 times a week when in a relationship. Because to me, that does not sound like and addict, just someone with a high libido. I think to be an addict you really need more then that, and that this need does not make you happy, because you know that there is still something missing in it all -
She used to be a prostitute....
Malachista replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Finding People to Swing With
Knowing enough women who are/were in the business, I can say there is really nothing bad about them, they just do a job, and it is not an easy one So if you are interrested in such a couple/woman and then refuse to play with them just because of a job she once did you should have to hand in your "sexually openminded" card and get a "hypocryt* (Spelling? My translation program has bitten the dust this morning) card in exchange -
I would not mind finding a few (3-6) steady playmates. But so far I hardly ever played with someone more then 2 or three times. It's hard to find people who I can click with, and if I do they often only search one-timers
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What clothes do you like to see at clubs?
Malachista replied to IvoryTowers's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
I like men in tight boxers and tank-tops. Or leather pants and an open shirt. I would never feel like hitting on a guy who dress to impress as you Americans seem to prefer (trousers and collar/button shirt) even less so if he has a wife on his site who shows a lot of skin. It looks like he does not even try to get some play. -
I think respect is always needed, even if you are with a partner who is much younger In the past year I ended up with a few guys older then me. One Gentleman is well over 60, and he shows me a lot of respect. He told me that even some 40 year olds turned him down because he was to old for them. While I am a 20-something and enjoy his company. Sure, there are things he has done in his life, that I have not even gotten close too, but he does not present his knowledge/expiriance as something to make me feel inferior. On the other hand I meet a guy who was only 10 years older, and he pretty much had no respect for me Calling me a "teenager" all the time. He also told me that "real adults" have sex every second day, when I said that I did not play with anyone for a few weeks. He also tried to tell me that we don't need condoms because he is older and I should trust him that he knows who he is sleeping with and that there is no danger! (How can you know who you are sleeping with if you claim have four diffrent women in bed every week??) So yeah, I go for the bigger age diffrence, but also the more respect full threatment of me as a younger play partner
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Maybe he thinks that is where the g-spot is too?
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I found a new pet peeve: Fake Tattoos There seem to be more and more profiles where there is an asortment of pics, then there is a series of pictures that all seem to show off a provocative placed tattoo, and when the same person puts up another series of pictures the tattoo is gone again.... I've seen this now close to a dozen times in the past weeks..
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Does age have any bearing on condom use?
Malachista replied to AdamInEve's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
When I was a kid there was an add on TV, about a comic guy who had a new girlfriend. His human friend showed him how to put a condom an a banana, telling him that with new lovers you should always use them until you know that they love you exclusively. I liked that ad. My family was not happy about it. So basically TV taught me to always use them at a time I did not even know for what exactly you use them... There also was a recent report about HIV in Germany, saying that the group with the highest infection rates currently are heterosexuals in the 55-75 age bracket (as they are often the ones who get together with new people after long relationships and never have needed to think about protection before and refuse to do so now).- 46 replies
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If it were legal - would you sell your sex?
Malachista replied to ohhandahh's topic in Curious About Swinging?
Prostitution is legal here and I have a family member who went this way. Let's just say, with all the girls working in this city, with taxes, bad financial times, rent for home and work apartment, adverstments in newspapers and othr magazines and all the other coasts that come with owining a small business of your own (and that is what you do, if you work as a legal prostitute here) - it is a hard job to make a living out off... Nothing for me, as I like to enjoy myself during sex ... something that also is rather rare if sex becomes work