What intimate acts do you reserve just for you and your partner?

Chris&Amelia · 06-15-2003, 02:35 PM

What sex acts do you consider to be "reserved" for your significant other and/or very very special friends?

You could vote for multiple items on the poll!

Brit_Pair · 06-15-2003, 03:21 PM

Woman to woman: anything goes. For us, it feels completely different, and doesn't threaten the boundries of our intimacy. As for male-female exchanges, we haven't gone beyond the women in the foursome masturbating the opposite male partner, so we haven't exactly charted the boundaries of our intimacy on that side of things. Intercourse without condoms would definitely remain off the menu.

teknurse · 06-15-2003, 09:04 PM

We have two reserved acts: vaginal intercourse without a condom and anal intercourse with or without a condom. Other than that anything goes as long as we are in the same room and both participating parties agree.

Vjklander · 06-15-2003, 09:31 PM

Using the "l" word.
J

Vjklander · 06-15-2003, 09:37 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Vjklander
Using the "l" word.
J

that's a small "L", not a cap "i"

OhioCouple · 06-15-2003, 10:30 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Vjklander
that's a small "L", not a cap "i"

LOL, I wondered about that Jamie. That is basically what we reserve for ourselve's too. We are pretty open, as long as all are comfortable and the situation is right.

Chris&Amelia · 06-15-2003, 10:58 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Vjklander
Using the "l" word.
J

Yeah... saying "I love you" to a playmate would be.... bad.

Roxysbayou · 06-15-2003, 11:03 PM

I checked other before I saw the anal choice, I don't think that I would do that with anyone but my hubby. Just because it' snot my cup of tea, and I have to be really ready to do it, and he has to be very gentle. I would be afraid that someone who doesn't know me would be to forceful. Plus, the STD thing.

thump29 · 06-15-2003, 11:26 PM

I would have to say that vaginal intercourse without a condom and anal sex is reserved for my husband only. To me those things are the most personal that you share with your mate.

naughty A · 06-16-2003, 09:04 AM

vaginal intercourse without a condom

and absolutely NO anal pentration... no fingers either, too easy to introduce saliva into the anus...

okay so I'm phobic about it...

The lower case "L" word has never come up... but would definitely make me uncomfortable... except in a joke setting or group setting applicable to both members of a couple ... as in "I love you guys" but I really don't think it ever has come up????

BradAndJanet · 06-16-2003, 01:03 PM

We really can't think of any physical acts, but would use condoms for intercourse under almost all scenarios. Hearing, "I love you", would be most unwelcome and inappropriate from anyone other than J. "I love what you're doing to me!", would be just fine, however.

-B

Misty&Todd · 06-16-2003, 09:30 PM

intercourse without a condon adn anal sex with or without a condom .. those are reserved for only hubby and I

bbcpl4cpl · 06-16-2003, 09:37 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by teknurse
We have two reserved acts: vaginal intercourse without a condom and anal intercourse with or without a condom. Other than that anything goes as long as we are in the same room and both participating parties agree.

This is us to a T! I would just be echoing this statement for our feelings on this.

Love,

Tigress xx

Ashley · 06-17-2003, 01:41 AM

Finding it hard to believe that french kissing came in third.

Chris&Amelia · 06-17-2003, 06:20 AM

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Originally posted by Ashley
Finding it hard to believe that french kissing came in third.

I don't. For some, kissing is considered a very romantic and intimate act. Amelia has no problems if I have sex with a another woman, or even go down on her, but I better not kiss her while I'm doing it!

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View Poll Results: What acts are reserved for "intimate" partners?
French Kissing	229	20.00%
Masturbation / Mutual Masturbation	48	4.19%
Oral Sex performed on him	53	4.63%
Oral Sex performed on her	50	4.37%
Vaginal intercourse - with condoms	85	7.42%
Vaginal intercourse - without condoms	514	44.89%
Anal intercourse (with or without condoms)	514	44.89%
Other (post in the comments)	37	3.23%
None - we have no restrictions with other playmates	297	25.94%
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06-15-2003, 02:35 PM	#1 (permalink)
Chris&Amelia Don't poke an eye out! Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 1,441 Location: Pennsylvania - The Poconos Status: The C of C&A SLS Name:PA_Panache	What intimate acts do you reserve just for you and your partner? What sex acts do you consider to be "reserved" for your significant other and/or very very special friends? You could vote for multiple items on the poll! __________________ "May God be with you."

06-15-2003, 11:03 PM	#8 (permalink)
Roxysbayou Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 1,376 Location: Louisiana Status: Married Female SLS Name:likethat	I checked other before I saw the anal choice, I don't think that I would do that with anyone but my hubby. Just because it' snot my cup of tea, and I have to be really ready to do it, and he has to be very gentle. I would be afraid that someone who doesn't know me would be to forceful. Plus, the STD thing. __________________ I put the "grrrr" in swinger baby, yeah! --Austin Powers

06-16-2003, 09:04 AM	#10 (permalink)
naughty A Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 997 Location: windsor ontario Status: couple - female half	vaginal intercourse without a condom and absolutely NO anal pentration... no fingers either, too easy to introduce saliva into the anus... okay so I'm phobic about it... The lower case "L" word has never come up... but would definitely make me uncomfortable... except in a joke setting or group setting applicable to both members of a couple ... as in "I love you guys" but I really don't think it ever has come up???? __________________ The proper response to "Good morning" is not "Prove it!"

06-15-2003, 03:21 PM	#2 (permalink)
Brit_Pair Active Member Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 3,635 Location: UK Status: Couple	Woman to woman: anything goes. For us, it feels completely different, and doesn't threaten the boundries of our intimacy. As for male-female exchanges, we haven't gone beyond the women in the foursome masturbating the opposite male partner, so we haven't exactly charted the boundaries of our intimacy on that side of things. Intercourse without condoms would definitely remain off the menu.

06-15-2003, 09:04 PM	#3 (permalink)
teknurse Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 125 Location: Lancaster, PA Status: Couple	We have two reserved acts: vaginal intercourse without a condom and anal intercourse with or without a condom. Other than that anything goes as long as we are in the same room and both participating parties agree.

06-15-2003, 09:31 PM	#4 (permalink)
Vjklander Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 832 Location: VA Status: Couple, Straight M, BiFem SLS Name:Vjklander	Using the "l" word. J

06-15-2003, 11:26 PM	#9 (permalink)
thump29 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 333 Location: okeechobee, fl Status: couple	I would have to say that vaginal intercourse without a condom and anal sex is reserved for my husband only. To me those things are the most personal that you share with your mate.

06-16-2003, 01:03 PM	#11 (permalink)
BradAndJanet Only slightly cracked... Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 7,071 Location: Seattle Status: Married Couple	We really can't think of any physical acts, but would use condoms for intercourse under almost all scenarios. Hearing, "I love you", would be most unwelcome and inappropriate from anyone other than J. "I love what you're doing to me!", would be just fine, however. -B __________________ "If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." - Mark Twain All about us...

06-16-2003, 09:30 PM	#12 (permalink)
Misty&Todd Here to Stay Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 57 Location: Sioux City Iowa Status: Married Couple	intercourse without a condon adn anal sex with or without a condom .. those are reserved for only hubby and I __________________ Life is full of magick all we have to do is look arround.

06-17-2003, 01:41 AM	#14 (permalink)
Ashley Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 207 Location: Arizona Status: Couple	Finding it hard to believe that french kissing came in third.

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