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b_and_sc started following Generally accepted limits in regards to swinging with in-laws or others, The "Kissing" Rule for Swingers, Full-Swap vs. Soft-Swinging and and 2 others
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we are a full swap couple as well...but we did start out as soft swap too I don't mind soft swap in the beginning....but we enjoy the full swap sooooo much more bon
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Is it just me, or is my wife out of control?
b_and_sc replied to incommunicado's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
I too think your wife is addicted...to sex AND the internet I would not just confront her about iming with her...I'd get her in a chat and then finally send her a pic, and make it one that she is sure to understand is you and then tell her that you need to talk...maybe she will be more open and honest while typing, or maybe you can just talk when you get home The last thing I would do is start swinging again, "just because you love her and might as well allow her to do it openly". Your wife has a problem, which means your marriage has a problem and that means that swinging is OUT until your relationship is back on track (without trust, you have nothing) I wish you the very best hugs bon -
What if you become pregnant?
b_and_sc replied to fredandwilma200's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
We actually had a scare last year. I was 6 weeks late and very scared. However, we had already talked to our play partners in the 'what if' discussions. If a pregnancy was created, the couple would keep and raise the baby as their own. The 'donor' would know about it, but not have any legal claims to it. We personally are against abortion I have no idea what we'd do if it happened with a different race...we talked a bit about it before we went to Hedo, figured we'd tell our family that we got very drunk at a party and well...things happened...thank goodness it never became a situation b -
I consider myself bi-curious; I've kissed and made-out with women, and have been the receiver from a woman, but until if and when I am a 'giver' I will stick with the curious part dh still labels himself curious on his profile, but he has actually been with men and enjoyed it we are both still more turned on and enjoy sex with opposite sexes more often labels are so confining...you like what you like and are interested in what you are interested in...in fact, some days I may be bi-curious, and some days completely straight...depends on my mood and the company b ps HEY!!! I think you just earned me a t-shirt!!! lol
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my hubby is a smoker and we both will have a drink or two socially, however we will not play with a couple where either of them is a chimney or a drunk...that's just such a turn-off.
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I don't know if I'd say we are more kinky...I'm much more verbal about what I like or don't...and we use more toys than we did before, and more positions...ya, sex is MUCH better now...but not 'weird' or anything.
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Does your doctor know you swing?
b_and_sc replied to gbhornywife's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
I've wondered about this as well. My hubby had a vasectomy years ago cause pregnancy almost killed me...we're thinking of asking for a tubal as well just to be 'extra sure' no babies are coming our way Surgical sterilization is about 99% effective I think, so there IS that little 1% chance, I'd say asking for both to be done is just extra assurance that you're done- 191 replies
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I voted 'sure' as well, but like everyone else, it sure would depend on the people. I've met some very mature 'youngins' and some really childish older people too. I don't have a problem with an older woman with a younger man...I always think 'way to go mama!!' when I see that!!!!
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Larger people at swingers clubs?
b_and_sc replied to bmw_grrl's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
We've never been to a club, but we did go to Hedo last year and there were people of ALL sizes having fun of all kinds. If you have a good personality, then just relax and have fun. If someone isn't interested in you, it's THEIR loss, right?? Do you have a profile on any swinger sites?? It's kind of the same thing, people are in to different things...we go months at a time without ANY interested people, and then we might get several all at once too, so don't get too frustraited if nothing happens right away b- 32 replies
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Watching wife make love vs just having sex.
b_and_sc replied to EricSacto2's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Making love is ONLY for my husband...sex is fun and ok to be shared I guess if you are ok with it, then it may work for you guys...but I could never.... b -
I think this relationship should be considered off limits...you wouldn't want to alienate your brother, would you? I mean even if all went well at the time, down the road it could cause problems...take a HUGE step back and start looking elsewhere (some ideas are meant to stay as fantasies...) b
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We had the colored straws at Hedo...it sure helped EVERYONE have a fun time...I think it's an awesome idea.
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ummmm...to 'ditto' someone else, "there are no words".... ugh b
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About 'the beautiful ones'...I was soooo worried about being frowned upon because I carry a little extra padding since the three kids...etc etc NOTHING cured that more for me than a week at Hedo...with EVERYONE walking around naked, you got to meet the real person, AND see that not everyone is as beautiful as the books and magazines would have you believe. The BEST advice I ever got, and I saw it here too, was go to the grocery store or large retail store and look around and those are the kinds of people who swing... b
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How many swinger sites do you belong to?
b_and_sc replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
Our main site is SLS, however we have opened profiles on several other sites. It seems though that SLS really is the best. How often I check just depends on how often I'm online, etc. Sometimes it's daily, sometimes not for a week or more. And you're right, it does suck when things are slow