red96
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- Birthday 03/06/1959
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couple
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Location
Ohio
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Occupation
Machinist, MRDD Care Giver
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Swinging Experience
March 2008
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Worst reply ever to your swinger ad?
red96 replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Finding People to Swing With
We declined a single guy's invitation and because we did so we were beneath his level of intelligence. He basically told us we were stupid to decline. I guess us Blue Collar types do not mix well with Professional types! -
As the male half of the couple I never thought or cared about who, or how many partners she had before we got married. I do know that she was not the type to sleep around, and neither was I for that matter. Neither of us ever saw the need to worry about something that was in the past.
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Could you give up swinging for your spouse?
red96 replied to incommunicado's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
We have been inactive for about a year now. A change in jobs and our schedules made it a necessity. Hubby works allot of weekends, so whatever down time we do have we keep for ourselves and family. If things change we will pickup where we left off. We have each other and that is all we really need. -
My Mrs. prefers a nice clothed pic over a nude pic. It isn't a turnoff to see a nude one but clothed is her preference.
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Which is the best way to get to get to know others?
red96 replied to ddrewd's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
How about a combination of two of them? We use chats and e-mails to decide if we want to meet . After a couple of chat sessions we will set up a meeting at a vanilla place, if all are interested. Don't really give out or phone info to very many. We have, but it has been people we got to know very well before hand. We like to chat before we make up our mind about meeting so I guess it would be chat first for us.- 27 replies
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Who else doesn't like to "cyber"?
red96 replied to MsGoneWild's topic in Finding People to Swing With
We are not into cyber either, never saw the point in it. We do chat on line with potential partners to get to know them a little but prefer to discuss sexual aspects in person once we decide to meet. -
Swinging with kids in the house?
red96 replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
No way for us. Our kids are teenagers and we do not play at home. We would not play at someones home if there were children present either no matter how young/ or old they were. -
Men, do you shave or get your pubic hair waxed?
red96 replied to Willing29's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
Seems to me waxing could be painful no matter who is getting waxed, male or female. I'll stick with shaving. -
This is one we received a couple of days ago. We welcome single males but this is a first message from him and is the bulk of the message. He fit our requirements to possibly meet but our first impression of him left allot to be desired. In our opinion this was rude and uncalled for, almost like he expected us to to hook up right away. I did send him a message back though and so far not a peep out of him since then. Was all I wrote
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That is funny we get allot of messages from single guys and a few have had pics like that. Maybe it's a macho thing or something. Maybe it's the only time someone else takes their picture? (when they are out with their fishing buddy). Anyway we find it amusing.
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We have a similar interest although she chooses our playmates. It was something we had discussed for several years before we decided to give it a try. We have made connections through swingers sites and have had many MFM's over the course of the past couple of years. For us it is not a cuckold thing either, it is about her pleasure and my voyeuristic enjoyment. It is a turn on to see her with other men and to be actively involved.
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When does the guy usually cum in a swinging encounter?
red96 replied to foozballnow's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
For us it depends how things are going. The Mrs. likes to make men cum through oral and she enjoys when they cum during intercourse. If they are able to cum multiple times she usually gets it both ways from both partners. Our play sessions are for her pleasure so she always gets things her way. We usually begin with oral and switch up as we go. If a playmate cums through sex she will give him time to rest then suck him off for his pleasure as well as hers.- 17 replies
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Our dog has a habit of sleeping in our room when we go to bed. We pay no attention to her. She doesn't sleep on the bed but is usually very near by. Worst part about her being there is she sometimes gets in the way. If we get out of bed to change positions or whatever we have to nudge her to get her to move.
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We absolutely hate those kinds of messages. Especially the text type messages. "How R U", "Ur wife is HOT" are a couple of recent examples. I know they are attempting to make a first contact but give me a break. Those types of messages get ignored by us.Take the time to write a short message in ENGLISH that we can all understand.
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How did you set your age range?
red96 replied to exploringRM's topic in Finding People to Swing With
We are 49 & 50 and we have children in their late 20's. We met with a couple of younger gentlemen and for the misses it just didn't feel right. When we discussed them she said it would be like having sex with one of our son's friends. We do not exclude younger men but do not seek them out either. If someone contacts us we consider them based on the initial message. For the most part we try to keep it in the age group of 35 to 55.