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The pandemic changed the way we dress--or more to the point--stay undressed while at home. The accompanying poll aims to understand the current "dress code" inside your home.
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Okay, whilst reading yahoo this morning, an ad popped up for 'Naturist Cleaners - earn £45 an hour." Apparently, if you hire on, you head to work, strip off and dust and vacuum. Or, you can remain fully clothed while your employer is naked. naturistcleaners.co.uk -
So you would like to host a swinger party at your house. A number of things you need to decide: - Invite only people you know? - Invite people you know, but perhaps allow them to invite another couple? - How many couples do you want to invite? - Invite people you don't know? - Do you have areas in the house appropriate for play? Do you need to purchase blow up mattresses, sheets, etc.? - Are there areas in your house you don't want people in (typically closed doors take care of that)? - Are you going to ask guests to bring a snack to share? Are you serving food? - Do you have accommodations (bed/air mattress/sheets/pillow) for some people to stay over if needed? Parties we host as well as attend are typically bring your own booze and condoms. We'll supply soft drinks, water, and usually a few bottles of wine. Window coverings...you don't want neighbors and passers-by looking in. Noise...keep windows closed. So of course first you need to invite people, not much of a party without that The invite list is hard to put together as 1) There will be a number of people that decline right away, or accept and don't wind up attending for some reason and 2) If you account for no shows and create a larger invite list, you may find that EVERYONE shows up so you need to make sure you have room. Here's how we prepare, your mileage may vary: - Clean clean clean. - Prep food, soft drinks, get ice, etc. - In each bathroom have mouthwash and disposable cups. - In each bathroom have a bundle of clean washcloths, and a bucket/basket to put the dirty cloths into. You can get washcloths pretty cheap a Wal-Mart, Target, etc. - In our upstairs bathroom have towels available in case anyone wants a shower. - Clear our areas where we as going to put blow up mattresses. For us that means moving a few coffee tables. - Put sheets or comforters on any beds that are used for play. - Have towels available in the play areas for covering the bed...for the wet spots! - We have a hot tub and ask people to bring towels, but will put out extras in case people forget. - Though people usually bring their own condoms we will put a few out here and there. After all of the guests have arrived, and people have been talking a bit, but before play, we go over any "rules", bathroom locations, play area locations, etc. The only "rules" we go over is no means no (especially if your spouse says it! lol) and areas of the house not to go in. A closed door on the bedroom means do not disturb. Since we may be outside in the hot tub, remind people that the neighbors are not that far away so avoid any sex sounds! -
Man, it was hard to figure out a title that couldn't be misunderstood. Anyways, we have two little ones at home. In one of the threads I was reading here, someone brought up the statistic that most swingers are in their 40's or above. I'm starting to see why. It's really difficult to figure out childcare in order to go out. It's not like a dinner and a movie, we'll be back before 11pm kinda thing, is it? We live close to my mother-in-law, but I can't very well say "we're going out, and we're planning on meeting some relative strangers and fucking the hell out of each other, we won't be home until 2am." Although I suppose we could be vague and just say we're going out for a night on the town, but we've never done that before. Suspicions may be raised. And You can't really keep a babysitter at your house that late, can you? The whole thing is incredibly frustrating. So if there's anyone here who has small children, how did you manage going out? We're thinking of canning the whole thing until we can leave them alone by themselves, but that's a good 10 years down the road We want fun adult time now!
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Was wondering what the opinion is on family nudity in the home. I'm not talking about lounging around watching TV in the nude with the kids around or having lifestyle friends over when the kids are around. What I mean is, are you comfortable changing clothes, getting out of bed in the morning if you sleep in the nude, getting a shower, etc. if your kids are around you. Does it matter if they are a different gender than you, does age matter? Do you think being in the lifestyle makes you more comfortable with this than someone who was not in the lifestyle? -
This question applies both to those who have kids or don't. If you have kids, do you swing with your kids in the house? Or do you go elsewhere or at least make sure they aren't home? Whether or not you have kids, what are your feelings towards the idea of parents who swing, swinging with kids in the house? How would you feel if you were at someone's home to play and knew there kids were just upstairs or in the next bedroom?
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Would you meet a couple at their house if the only contact you have had with them is online? We have met couples before at local restaurants, and after it's determined that play time would be fun, we've adjourned to their house. We've been chatting with a couple this week (remember, it's only Wednesday) and they've invited us to their house on Saturday. Would you meet a couple for the first time at their house? -
Is it true most swingers live in mobile homes? The reason for this poll is that we were talking with some one recently (a vanilla friend) and they brought up swinging. They made the comment that most people they have ever known to claim to be swingers lived in mobile homes. This is not the first time we have heard this comment. This got us to thinking about the friends we have and folks we know and if they live in mobile homes or not. Oh, and don't feel bad for living a mobile home by any means!
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Since we don't have any kids it seems like we are always inviting couples over to our house. We hardly ever get invited to the other couples house. Does this happen to others very often? We are always very hospitable and make our guest feel so comfortable that it's not uncommon for them to spend the entire night. Don't get me wrong, we love it. We love to entertain. But we've never really stayed over at another couples house. It would be a fun change.
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Ok, we have an extra bedroom which at the moment is storage, but our hope is to get it cleaned out and possibly turn it into a playroom, so that should we host any friends over or even potentially a house party we can have a room set up for ... well... playing. We already have a guest bedroom with a full size bed that could be used as well. So if you were starting with an empty room and wanted to create a playroom, what would you put in it? We're thinking about maybe a futon, and some good mood lighting... but what else... -
I have never posted before and hopefully someone can help. We have been finding hookups online and so far the worst thing to come up has been no-shows, until now. We have been chatting with this guy whose profile says that he is single, and we like mfm threesomes so were thinking very highly on meeting this guy. The problem he refuses to meet us in public, claiming that he's tired of all the no-shows. He insists on his private home, and has given us his address and how to get there and his home number. I'm not to sure about this private home deal. If it was a couple it probably would be less scary. Anyone have any thoughts on meeting a single guy for the first time be in his home? Or should we stick with meeting in public as we always have?
