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We went to a party this weekend, and some moronic guy (someone neither of us knew, werent attracted to nor talked with at all) saw a chance with my wife and took it. She was resting on a half wall ledge, and he came up, pulled down her top and bra, and started licking her breast. Bad bad bad. She then popped up, saw it wasnt someone she knew (she isnt into sneak attacks anyway, so she was ready to scold whomever it was) and said what the hell do you think you are doing, and he started saying "sorry if I offended" as he ran like the wind. I was in the other room at the time and didnt see anything except his backside. Didnt know what he had done when I saw him running by, otherwise I would have done something physical with him. He ran out the door and left. We immediately told the hosts, but none of the bystanders had a very good description of what he looked like and most of the rest of the attendees were too occupied or drunk to be of any value. Really gave us a good view of why bystanders at a scene dont notice details very well. So we scanned the attendance list, cross referenced with profiles, but since he's the guy half, its very likely that his picture isnt shown and we wont find him. We've narrowed it down to 10 profiles, it's all a guess beyond that. Bleh. It didnt really bother my wife a ton, she doesnt feel criminally assaulted, not sure if I can say the same for me though. If she ever spots the guy at a future party, Im going to have serious trouble holding back. If and when we do figure out who he is, he will be blacklisted for sure.
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My wife and I have been swinging for years and recently she fell for a guy she works with. They've have been friends for a while. I've met him and like him and their flirting turned to more as soon as I told her I approved and had a fantasy of her having a boyfriend; a guy she can call, text, go on dates with and, yes, fuck when she wants to. We are both having a ball with this and now she is telling me I need a girlfriend so she doesn't worry about my boredom when they're out. I'm not against the idea but I have NO idea how to find a girlfriend when I'm a married dude and will readily admit it to any prospective woman. My wife will know everything and I think that might put off "normal" girlfriends. Does anyone have experience with this and can you offer advice? Thanks!
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Hi, I've lurked through the forums here for a while but never posted anything, but now I have something I need a little help with. Last week out of the blue my wife told me that she wants me to sleep with other women, then come home and tell her about it. She also told a good friend of her's she could "borrow" me because she hasn't had any good sex in a while. My wife says it's a big turn on for her, and I can tell she's not lying. She also says she thinks it would make me less jealous. She is a pathological flirt and it gets on my nerves sometimes because I am very jealous/insecure. She's been with other men (before we were married) and she is the only woman I've ever been with. Which doesn't bother me at all, however she thinks I should be with other women because she feels like she kept me from having fun, and that it would make our sex life better. I'm not sure what to do. I would never cheat on her or hurt her so I'm apprehensive about doing something like this. I'm afraid that she will change her mind and I would come home to her angry and upset and that it would ruin our marriage. I'm also afraid that she would want the same deal, which I told her I am not ok with. Is this a typical fantasy? I would never be ok with her going out, being with another man, then coming home to me. So I sort of think it's a double standard, and that's not fair. But I told her that up front and she says she doesn't care and doesn't want to be with another man. Does it sound like fun? Yes, I have a penis so of course it sounds fun. But it's not worth ruining our good relationship over. I'm just not sure what to do, and I don't understand her desire for this sort of thing.
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My fiance and I first got into swinging last spring or summer, but didn't have any luck finding couples for us to play with; but we had also agreed that playing alone was ok- if precautions were taken- because my fiance was very concerned for my safety. We had joined a swinger's site, and recieved a message from a guy; who very quickly proved himself to be on the up and up. Him and his wife were looking for another couple, or he was also allowed to play alone. It didn't work out as far as a couple thing there either, because of the age difference; his wife was/is looking for guys closer to her own age. I had some concerns that he could be another one of these guys, trying to cheat on his wife; so I asked to talk directly to her- not actually expecting that I would get to. It's been my experience, that asking to talk directly to someone's wife; has weeded out the ones trying to cheat. So I talk to his wife on the phone, and see he's telling the truth; and we arrange to meet for breakfast. Once we met, we hit it off right away; and spent quite a while in the restaurant talking and eating, so then he wanted to go out to his car to talk. Having just met him, I was still concerned for my safety; so I suggested sitting in my car- since it didn't have automatic door locks- so that I couldn't be locked in against my will- if he was that kind of guy. So we are able to talk more intimately out in the car, without worrying about someone overhearing; and it continues to go well. One thing leads to another, and we end up kissing, and it was like WOAH, sparks flying right away! Then the next part is where I really ended up surprising myself, because it's not something I ever did upon first meeting someone. One thing leads to another again, and he is fingering me; and sucking on my breast- which just drives me over the edge! He makes me cum 4 times pretty quickly. After it's all done, I am left kind of stunned at what just happened LOL. I then feel like I should reciporcate, and offer him a blowjob; but he tells me another time- because I am feeling obligated. He invites me back to his place, but I wasn't ready for that yet; so he was very respectful- and didn't try to preasure or push- that waited until the next time. The really cool thing, is that we are still seeing each other over a year later; and have been having great fun the entire time. We also enjoy each other's company outside of the bedroom, as in sitting and talking for hours; after all the sexual fun is over. I've even gotten to meet his wife recently, and am developing a friendship with her.
