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So, as a lifetime user on SLS I often review new profiles. I do it . . . just cause. Single guys tend to give me a good laugh every now and then. Like this: "Let's get together and no each other." True story . . .
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Do you update your swinger profile pictures?
enhancer posted a topic in Finding People to Swing With
As the title says, do you update your pictures on the sites you are on frequently? Show people what you look like now not ten years ago?- 2 replies
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Maybe this is just a vent post, and hope that's ok, but as we venture into SLS, I've gotta ask- why do women blatantly lie about their weight??? I'm not saying I can tell you to the pound how much someone weighs, but if you post that you're 180 and you are obviously, clearly not less than like 250, do you think folks won't notice?? I mean I fudged like 7 lbs on my own profile lol, but I'm just baffled as to why someone would do that so significantly (especially when they have posted photos). There are so many people who enjoy beautiful women of all shapes and sizes, I just don't get the deception. It goes both ways, too- I've actually almost gone right past profiles where she's listed as like 120lbs (mostly because I'm new to this and therefore am a bit self-conscious about at least my first experience being with a woman who is significantly more slender than myself) and then catch site of a pic and realize "oh wow no she's definitely fluffier than 120, yay!" Vent over lol -sincerely, 172lb woman who's listed as 165 haha
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Hey guys, so far we have been having fun and met some nice couples. We've been looking to meet up with a few bi females only, but having a hard time. 1st Scenario: Profile on SLS is a bi female (not a couple profile) Paid Profile with a few certs We write each other and female informs us she has a male lover who she wants to join in or we can't meet. 2nd Scenario: Profile on SLS is a bi female (not a couple profile) Paid Profile with 2 certs We write each other and female informs us she is married (she did say that on her profile) and wants her husband to join in or we can't meet. We obviously said no, and she's looking for her husband to join she should be using a couples profile so other's aren't tricked into contacting her and wasting their time. 3rd Scenario: Profile on SLS is a bi female (not a couple profile) Paid Profile with 1 cert (cert from a free profile that is possibly fake and used only to give a fake cert) Woman wants to chat outside SLS and we agree to do that, we ask for her number after spending 1-2 hours chatting online and setting up a night to meet. Turns out the number has a voicemail setup in another woman's name (we were given a fake number). We sent her a message letting them know this and make it a point we want to voice verify before anything goes further. What gives? Is there really this much bait and switch or just playing games when it comes to female only profiles? I'm not sure if it's normal for bi females to set up profiles alone (non couple) only to state they want a lover or husband there as well, doesn't make sense and seems like bait and switch. What's your take?
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I was taking a new look at our profile on SLS recently (it had been a while since we'd really updated it) and I realized that I had been ASSuming that SLS automatically updated ages in your profile, but they don't. They actually rely on US to keep them accurate. Ours were only off by about 3 years! This did bring up a thought. There are so many times where we hear about people whose pictures don't match their current ages (ie. "those pictures were accurate 10 years ago), I wonder how many times we might think someone is lying about their ages when they really just didn't realize they hadn't updated them in a couple of years.
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Hi all. Is it me, or is the trend toward listings such as "Her: 5' 6" 0 lbs." becoming more frequent? I'm not sure what the issue is here; it's not like we're not going to discover your proportions if we meet? I generally pass such profiles by, in the expectation that someone who posts in that manner will not be forthright on other subjects. Am I reading too much in here? Another trend I'm noticing is the inclusion of the phrase "We're picky (choosy, selective, etc.) because we can be. In general, I see this used in profiles that list the authors as "Fit and work out daily as you should be". I suppose I could take this phrase to mean that the couple is picky because they're not in any hurry and they just want to be careful of their selection of play partners, but it comes across to me as rather conceited. Again, perhaps I'm reading too much in here, which is why I'm putting this out there for other folks to chime in on. Thanks!!!!!- 18 replies
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Hello! We've been purusing ads looking for a single male as of late. We've found that in many cases men will state in their ads that they are "very open minded" or "very kinky" or even "open to new experiences". For the most part, these men are simply bisexual or bi curious and we're now wondering if there are secret code words and hidden meanings behind other adverts we've come across. Is it common here to use phrases like "very open minded" to indicate that one is bisexual? What other phrases should we key in to? -
I know there have been discussions on the picture approving process on SLS, but I was curious about how many of you out there review the new member profiles, as well. I go in spurts where I do this regularly and other times when I avoid it like the plague. Right now I am in the mood to do it and it got me thinking.... The guidelines for denying a profile are gender issues (i.e. signing up a single woman when the content reflects a couple), blank profile (i.e. not having at least 2 sentences for the first 2 questions), garbage profile (i.e. having something like "fjklsajvaovnidaojei" to fill the spaces), including an email address or website, etc. How strict are you on these guidelines? I mean, gender, and the crap one, sure, but having at least 2 sentences? What if they speak in one long run-on but it is the equivalent of two sentences? Is it our place to deny it because of the poor grammar and overall poor presentation, or do we approve it but mark "Needs Work" since they at least included some information. Also, I don't really see the problem with including an email address in the profile. It's up to people who view the profile to act upon it, so why not? Is it SLS's way of trying to get people to upgrade to paid status so that they can send out their email in messages on a regular basis? I'm sure we've all seen some awful profiles out there, so I am just curious what people find acceptable/unacceptable when they are judging new profiles.
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A lot of people really get worked up with fear they might be "bi" or labeled "Bi". Most of this grief and heartache is unnecessary, simply the result of it being poorly defined. The standard definition of bisexual is anyone that has had sex with both genders or all genders but then it's tri-sexual try-sexual or whatever. But I digress. I think for the sake of swingfolk, who are on the cutting edge of human sexuality in my opinion, the definition needs to be your sexual preference is completely based on the gender you could fall in love with not who you can have sex with. Most guys can have sex with anyone or anything without an emotional component. Therefore if you have pleasured your share of men during parties or whatever but there is no way you are ever going to fall in love with another man I say you are not even Bi sexual. If you could have an emotional commitment to either gender then you are Bi-sexual and if you withhold your emotional self for those of the same gender you are homo-sexual. Agree or disagree why?
