metroman
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- Birthday 10/14/1955
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Relationship Status
married couple M/F
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Location
central michigan
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Interests
working out for tone, hiking, movies, nice dinners/ plays, concerts. pretty open
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Occupation
Middle Manager
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Swinging Experience
1 yr
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Favorite Club(s)
CU / Grand Rapids/Lansing
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metroman started following Trying to get started swinging, but wife is sexually uptight, Am I Being Too Picky?, Do glasses turn off men? and and 3 others
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How do you keep your pubic hair?
metroman replied to alabamafuntonig's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
I like a woman just the way God made her..........nice hairy Vjay ! Shaving the legs and pits fine. I never worry about getting a hair in my mouth with a full bush but without-fail, I get a hair from the one who shaved and missed one here and there. Plus I want a woman that makes me feel like a man Not a pedafile. My theory is, keep your Vjay the way your spouse likes it and everyone else will have to fall in place (let's em know they are the Most Important consideration).- 227 replies
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I chatted a gorgeous lady at the gym yesterday and she was wearing glasses ! She had the whole pkg and the glasses didn't change that ! If it "works" - the glasses will land somewhere and she can put them on with her clothes later !!! Mmmmm !
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We don't commit to dinner on a first meeting anymore. If there's no attraction then we've tied up a whole evening that leads to a dead end. We prefer to meet for a drink and usually specify we have "other commitments" but an hour to meet & greet would be fun. We don't go so much by a photo unless it's a turn off. We don't have to have 10's but there needs to be an attraction. Sometimes that attraction is based on the "total package" of looks, personality, interest in common, etc so a meeting is good ! We're not 10's nor arrogant. We've met some great people - some proceed further and some don't proceed at all.
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We've evolved in the LS and wife's hysterectomy (less drive) had some influence so she's fine if I play alone now on nights when she works (our only additional rule - don't take away from our "us" time). Wife will verify that it's Ok if requested. No problems after 2 months and it's working out fine and kind of exciting + gives us some fun bedroom talk later!! I created a separate profile in SLS under datematefun so there's no games or BS. Each couple has to decide what works for them since we're all different.
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Do you swing with single males?
metroman replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
Wow, Read the post - some good & some bad experience. I'm married but allowed to play alone. We've done 3some and were fun both with single and married males. Some guys get performance anxiety the 1st time but learned not to throw them out without another try! -
Wow! Two different personalities and quite a bit of "over thinking". Someone is having a lot of Fun why you're still sitting on the sidelines in indecision (and you know it!). You're married? Partners? Both put your cards completely on the table on Lifestyle pros and cons and MAKE A DECISION! You ask 10 people, you get 10 opinions when it's a decision for the 2 of you. There's No crystal ball - COMMUNICATE AND DECIDE ! No one is going to tell you what to do - we don't live in your house.
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It's fine - enjoy the wave!!!! My lady is a squirter (which is what happened to you) and it's awesome!!! For us it usually happens with manual stimulation but love it when it happens and I am inside of her!! mmmm Her's is connected to G-spot stimulation and yes the ejaculate is different but Oh so good. I like to move her back to regular orgasm afterward as the ejaculate dries quicker and can cause some discomfort. Way to go!!
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I have to weigh in on this one. To me, "Open Marriage" means each marital party may maintain a separate sex life via outside dating/sex. For an unspecific amount of time; it is fun and exhilarating; husband/wife sex can be awesome, however, the ultimate end is STOP or DIVORCE. For me it was divorce and for everyone I know who tried this. It lasted until the Mrs thought she had fallen in love with a partner - she was free and he took a hike. What was left, collateral damage of divorce and stupidity & goodbye to half of everything!
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Have your swinging rules changed over time?
metroman replied to northindycpl's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
Yes, our rules have changed since we started. We know what we like or will accept from other sex partners. We each have decided for ourselves and our comfort level. Mrs decided "No anal, no swallowing", Mr decided "a man slut" - We decided - "same room play only". At first we were working out of a theory. We find this is an evolving process and also depends on the interaction of the other couple. Rigid rules will make for hot arguments - We sometimes have trust issue but the only thing we will really fight for is "US" - Our Relationship! -
Man, a tough situation and all to real. This can be very deep psychology beyond me. I would offer, there is a possibility that the Mrs was acting out on some long pent up hostility/resentment regarding something not connected to sex or this party but directed to you. It may be time to do the hard thing and look at yourself.....have you been disrepecting your wife w/o realizing it, have you been controlling or manipulating her in some fashion? Feeling she couldn't get you to listen to her feelings - she acted out - Now she has your attention. I would suggest asking what you can do to be a better husband/partner and most of all a better listner. Are there other acts of hostility showing up outside the sex arena? Let's be honest - You're at a party for sex - your level of expectation for your wife may have been to ideal and not realistic. Did you have sex - probably not which makes her action more annoying - she got it & you didn't - Not fair! Do you love her? If yes, Forgive her! Don't ever bring this up again! Don't throw it in her face or make a bunch more rules. Do show her more love in your actions. Do figure out her love language (5 languages of love by Gary Chapman) and start speaking it. Fix yourself - you can't fix anyone else. Respect her as an individual. Do give and it will be given back. The biggest thing hurt is your pride - love your wife more than your injured pride. Again, just another opinion, but you asked.
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Whats a slut in the swinging world?
metroman commented on sexycouple1's blog entry in Tastes and Sensations
Not for me ! Call me old-fashioned and I see the Domination affect but my reply would be "No Thanks" and I'm Not big on turning down pussy!!!! I still like the tease, foreplay, introduction of some sort, can they put 2 sentences together, & treated with a little respect!! I would take that command as a joke & treat it as such. Being a swinger doesn't discard courtesy and a little class ! Just my 2 cents. -
How do you define fucking between two women
metroman replied to pghfuncouple's topic in Bisexual Swingers
Man, a set of "Duals", preformance suspension, GPS, a silky slide transmission.....I'll be a happy man when I can view this in a showroom near me !!!! (LOL) -
I was a 7 also. I wouldn't mind spending a week where Tiger is for a vacation but out of my price range !
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Sorry, they are a turn off for me.....
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How do you define fucking between two women
metroman replied to pghfuncouple's topic in Bisexual Swingers
My definition = FUN !