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  1. We like Desire RM best. Pearl's rooms are a little nicer. This is hard to explain, and not everyone agrees, but we don't think Pearl has the right "density" of people. The pool is big; the chairs are spread out. RM's main areas: pool, hot tub, etc. are more compact and you can't help but meet people. We have friends who say they like Pearl better, but keep booking RM. That says a lot. We are not big fans of Hedo. The last time we were there, which, admittedly, was during the recession, they weren't maintaining the property: they closed the hot tub because the pumps stopped working and the water looked like Florida's red tide, people were getting sick, the staff was surly and 180 degrees from the staff's at the Mexico properties. My wife has refused to go back. In contrast, the owners of RM and Pearl continue to improve the properties and the staff is very nice and will go out of their way to be helpful. Plus, for most people RM and Pearl are easier to get to.
  2. It's been a couple of years since we've been there. That said, the back room used to be split so that single guys were only allowed on one side. Couples could be on either side, but if you didn't want single guys around, you could stick to the couples only side. You should call Trapeze and ask what the current policy is. I don't know how busy Thursday will be. it won't be like Friday and Saturday, but those nights can be a little too packed. Call and ask.
  3. We have friends who host an annual house party for 30-40 couples. Their great room is the play room full of mats and they have a projector that shows videos at the back of the room where the actors are about life size. Sometimes they had great orgy/group sex videos playing. Lots of people have commented that you can't tell where the party in the room stops and the orgy on the screen starts. Great parties!
  4. Are there any clubs in Seattle that allow single men one or two nights a week? That might be worth trying. If you can make a mini vacation out of it, try Trapeze in Ft. Lauderdale. We still think it is the top club we've visited over the years. Like many clubs, you dance in the front, maybe meet a few people. Then you get naked, except for a towel (they have a large locker room with towels), and head into the back where there are lots of play areas. No one will bother you if you just want to watch. I believe Friday nights single guys are allowed in. Walls and a bar split the play area, and single guys are allowed only on one side. Couples and single women, of course, go wherever they want. A couple interested in single guys can hook up with one or more if they wish. Whatever excites you. Remember, women are in control always. We always have a blast there!
  5. We were at Desire Riviera Maya (not Pearl) in early February...no issues with the water. We're been to Desire many times, along with other resorts in Cancun and Cabo and only had an issue with water once, about 12 years ago, and that was on Isla Mujeres, an island off the coast near Cancun, where most of the water comes from cisterns. I'd take Desire water over Flint water every time , but so would everyone else.
  6. Check the Caliente website under Events. There is often a swinger's group there that you can hook up with. Also, if you go for the weekend, people start showing up Friday afternoon and you can meet people in the rectangular pool by the outside bar. If you start a conversation with a couple and there is some mutual attraction, they are often swingers. There seem to be lots of parties nearby. If you are older there is a meet and greet on Friday in the piano bar starting at 5 pm where you may meet new horizontal friends. good luck!
  7. We were on the last Bliss Cruise. If you are thinking about a Bliss Cruise, there are passengers from their 20's to their 80's (really). That said, we saw lots of people in their 20's-30's. Remember there are close to 3,000 people on the ship. If you do some research, I think you will find travel agencies that have been set up by younger people and cater to clients your age. By that I mean they will go out of their way to introduce you to people your age who will be or are on the cruise. Every travel agency had daily meet and greets on the ship. Every travel agency wants you to be happy, hopefully over the moon. Our travel agency is owned by people we have known for 15 years. They wanted us to have a blast. I saw banners by the pool for an agency that looked like it really was working hard to appeal to people your age. I believe the agency was Luxury Lifestyle Vacations. Despite the name, the cost of a stateroom should be identical whether you use them, or book on the Bliss Website. The difference should be in their clientele. Call them and be direct. Who do they cater to? How old are they? Why should you use them? Will they be on the cruise. Will they have reps on the ship that are your age? Can they give you references? Google Bliss Cruise and see what agencies and sponsors show up. Call several and the be up front that you are interviewing them. Get a sense of who you like, who telling the truth and if they are willing to say anything just to get your $$$$. Remember, these people are going to make a bunch of money if you book with them. Make sure they earn it. One final word...many people who have been swingers a long time are far less interested in age and looks of potential playmates and far more interested in how compatible they are with a couple. Our first experience was with a couple who was a decade older than us, but they made everything perfect. It couldn't have been a better experience. If a couple is a little older than you, is interesting, has had great life experiences and is, most importantly, really fun, it should be a much better dip-your-toes experience than the young beautiful couple who have little to say and are aloof. Just saying.
  8. If you are interested in a cruise, I think some of the cruises allow three people in a stateroom. Try contacting one of the many sponsors. For example, Bliss is sponsored by Castaways, Topless Travel, SLS,and a couple of more companies. There is a Desire cruise sponsored by...Desire. Try contacting clubs, websites close to you (Portland? Cali?)and maybe you can meet a fun couple with whom you would enjoy sharing a stateroom and maybe an adventure or two. For the 2016 Bliss Cruise we found there were a number of so-called "secret" websites where you can meet other sexy cruisers. Time to start networking!
  9. We've been to Cap d' Agde a few times over the years. You can walk across the entire nudist section in 15 minutes, so you will be close to the clubs anywhere you stay. If you look at a map you will see that Heliopolis is in the center of the nudist section. Everything is very close. There will be lots of people there. The clubs should be packed by midnight. Funs stuff--- Melrose is a fun place to go early in the evening...we've met some couples there...its also just a good bar. Important...the outdoor nude foam party is every day from 2-7. The entrance is on the northeast side of Glamour. It costs about couples 20 euros to get in and it is terrific fun. You make lots of new friends very quickly. We go every day that we are there! The swinger beach is about a 10 minute walk up the beach (northeast). Glamour is likely the best club--pretty large, but there are always new ones. Do some reading ahead of time to see what is hot now. For Americans on vacation, 2 weeks seems like a long time. Europeans probably view it as too short. you can always take side trips to St. Tropez, etc., if you need a break. Are you ready to party for two weeks? If so, you'll get a work out!
  10. Coco Bongo: No nudity, very PG. It's hard to describe, but it is a blast. The first time we were there Betelgeuse "flew" over to our balcony and was dancing on top of one of the tables. Mrs. Rex felt obligated to do the same (dance on our table). I had to grab her ankle because it was about 15 feet over the edge to the floor below. Just saying... Secrets is a first rate resort, but be careful. It is probably not a place to meet playmates. Most people interested in lifestyle activities, even those who are merely curious, are going to be at the handful of resorts where like minded people are likely to be. Such people are about as likely to be at the Sheraton as at Secrets. For instance, we might stay at the Sheraton in Orlando if we go with the kiddos to see the Mouse, but we wouldn't stay there if we wanted to make new friends It's possible, but the odds aren't great. Secrets will be great vacation, you can do all of the touristy things, but that may be it. Come to think of it, I think we floated by Secrets on a nude swinger boat trip out of Desire a few years also ago. The boat trip was really fun! Good luck.
  11. I think we've been to Cabo and/or Cancun 10 or 12 times over the last decade or so. It sounds to me like you would like to ease into maybe-swinging but you're not sure. Newbie stuff. It also sounds like you would like to explore all of the stuff there is to do around Cancun...good vacation stuff. On the swinging-maybe side, are you nudists? If you are, then you will like Desire regardless of whether you swing, but since you are curious, you will like it even more. Nobody can make you swing, but people will certainly ask. If you aren't ready, just tell them what you are thinking. Be honest. People are respectful, but would love for you to join the naughty side. We weren't swingers the first time we went to Desire, but we sure liked getting naked and we sure enjoyed ourselves having sex outdoors in and by the hot tub and we became much more comfortable with the idea of swinging. If you aren't nudists, but want an atmosphere that is somewhat sexy, then I recommend Temptations. The women can be topless and there is sexy stuff going on--games and things. I'm sure there is some swinging that goes on there, but it will be harder to find. You can ease yourselves into sexy...whatever that is. Here is what I really think you should do, that may work on both the vacation and swinger newbie sides: go to both resorts. Temptations and Desire are owned by the same company. We love being in Cancun. There is lots to do...we especially love going to Coco Bongo...which is about the most fun PG nightclub you will ever find. Sometimes we will start the trip by staying at Temptations for 2-3 nights. CocoBongo: In Cancun you take the bus everywhere (about $1), except that you might have to catch a cab at 3:30 or 4 am when you leave C.B. We go over to C.B. late in the afternoon and pay extra for VIP tickets to be first in line (you don't have to do that), and tip the waiters to get onto a balcony. The place opens at 11 pm. By midnight it is rocking. It has the most fun shows around. It is impossible to describe, but our vanilla friend said it was the most visually stimulating experience she hd ever had...then, of course, she had never been to an orgy! Use Temptations as your base to see the tourist stuff close by. Also, just enjoy the atmosphere. Arrange the transportation when you book your trip, then go to Desire for a few days. It is totally different. People are naked. Everyone is very sociable (I wonder why:) 3 or 4 in the afternoon the party starts at the hot tub, and there is almost always something sexual happening. After dinner there is some sort of show or activity. About 11 the nightclub opens and later there is sex in the back room and in the hot tub...plus wherever people drift off to. You can also use Desire as your base to see the tourist attractions that are near there. You participate at Desire at your comfort level. If you just want to get naked and go to bed early, that's fine. If you want to watch people have sex, that's fine. If you want to have sex and have people watch you, that's fine. If you want to play with a couple that wants to play with you, that's fine. You do what you are comfortable with. As newbies we never felt uncomfortable there. As more experienced swingers, if a couple indicated they weren't ready or weren't interested, we understood completely. It's easy to find couples there who are eager to meet you and play. Anyway, that's my recommendation.
  12. We saw an ad for an Anything But Clothes party. The ad had a picture of a girl wearing a little strategically placed crime scene tape. Short of going naked (which is fun but not very creative), what would you wear? Maybe we'll try out the answer we like best (talk about lacking creativity on our part)!
  13. We think you need to look for additional signs. If there are some white rocks in the yard (this may not be a factor if it is snowing), some flamingoes, and a flag with a pineapple on it (did we miss anything...something about sawgrass?), we think this could be a swingers party under the guise of fondue. Take precautions...trim well!
  14. We just got back from a Mediterranean swinger's cruise. Great fun! We met a couple that had just been to Spice in Lanzarote and they loved it. They are going back in December. They got an 11 for 7 deal...11 days for the price of 7. They said the property is small, but twice the size of Sea Mountain. They said the food is very good, and there were lots of people to party with. That said, it looks like you normally have to fly through Madrid to get there, so what you save in rates you make up in plane fare. Correction to earlier comment on Desire Pearl: Hidden Beach resort is still where it always was. Desire Pearl is the old Ceiba Del Mar resort, which was a high-end resort (not that Hidden Beach isn't).
  15. Compatability is important to us. There are many aspects of compatability. Race isn't one of them. Racism is: it is an instant deal killer. We've got better things to do than listen to or put up with that.
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