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near orlando fl, USA
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3+ years
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Dustbob
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Guys: have you ever participated in double penetration
dazanconfsd replied to njbm's topic in Adventures in Swinging
We have not had the chance as of yet. -
Guys: have you ever participated in double penetration
dazanconfsd replied to njbm's topic in Adventures in Swinging
I'm sorry Midwest Honeys, I'm over 40 I don't question my sensuality -
dazanconfsd started following What was your first time sex in same room?, We finally did it!, House rules on clothing? and and 6 others
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We finally did it!
dazanconfsd replied to NotTheCuckYoureLookingFor's topic in First Swinging Experiences
That is awesome. I love watching for the entire time, I love joining, I love swapping. Hell I just love swinging. I love that you guys have found what you're into - Dustin -
Guys: have you ever participated in double penetration
dazanconfsd replied to njbm's topic in Adventures in Swinging
we haven't seen this thread since almost 3 years ago. We tried dvp a couple weekends ago. I am the longer of the two, he is the thicker. We tried with her reverse doggy on me and he tried getting between her legs. It was awkward and almost worked but he couldn't get in and after a few min he went soft. I was rock hard with anticipation. We will definitely try again with him and from what we have read, swap places. -
House rules on clothing?
dazanconfsd replied to Fundamental Law's topic in Some Swingers Do - Poly, BDSM, & Nudism
We still have 2 kids living at home, so clothing on here. When we are playing we like nudist homes and come in clothed, drop them when you go to the bedroom (or whhatever room) homes. Once the kids are out in 8 years or so we are going to travel in a camper around the country, clothing will be minimal, if nonexistent, whenever possible. -
The talk about everyone getting vetted by docs (all of us sterile) so that we can play bareback. The most awkward for me, expected or no, is the experienced couple talking with us about how they do things, and what we need to do if uncomfortable or we reach a hard no. Awkward, but relieved a lot of stress getting "our feet wet".
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Many on here are very helpful and will chime in I'm sure. My wife and I started with a phone app called "3 fun" We met our first couple there. The next one we met on "Adult friend finder" these are optional pay sights and will expand your options if you do pay. Also you can look into clubs near you, not sure what they are doing about covid at clubs, Visiting one is still on our bucket list. Best of luck.
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I see both sides of this, because I have had issues with jealousy. One thing that has helped me stop with the jealousy is a couple we have played with a couple of years as of now. I had the wife bent over, she was blowing her husband and my wife was enjoying the show. The wife was enjoying herself and stopped when her husband was almost there and he told her that isn't okay, you have never stopped before. I immediately pulled out and stepped to the side. They gracefully dismissed themselves, talked it over and came to an understanding. I had an epiphany that while I really enjoy banging his wife, I love mine more and I want NOTHING to do with discord in their relationship or ours. They hashed it out and we have continued to play since, honestly with an even closer friendship. It is about trust and there are some rules. don't smother her, don't torture yourself. Love, trust, communication means different things to some, but it is ALL required to do this successfully.
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I can't speak for more experienced couples, but for us it actually was easier after a few play dates. Maybe 3 total. After that I started overthinking and we slowed way down for a while. (first couple months was daily or every other day with 2 couples we met. We jumped in both feet. I think it was when we stepped back that we could take in what was going on and really appreciate the pro's and con's
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I have an Altima and a motorcycle. Nothing that I would look at in another and think "they probably swing."
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Percentage Of Soft Swingers Versus Hard
dazanconfsd replied to soonerforever's topic in Curious About Swinging?
Our first restart (bad experience out of the way off the bat)was *soft but keep our minds open* and it was full by the time we were done, hell barely after we started. The second couple was a soft swap couple that had way more experience than us (mfm, hotwife, full, separate etc) we kept their boundaries and they later broke them during a play date with us and another couple. We have become great friends since and at the *whatever feels good for the night* level, including watching each couple have sex and soft. It all depends on what feels right and is good for the group. Bad for one isn't good for anyone. TLDR: have had experience with limited amount of couples, one soft graduated to full and the others all full. -
Afraid the adult kids will find out
dazanconfsd replied to Idahocouple6969's topic in Curious About Swinging?
Wife and adult daughter are very close, they have always talked about almost everything. Daughter told wife she played with her best friend and her BF. Wife told her we had done the same and more. Nothing shocking, nothing graphic, just parenting where it was asked for and advice wife thought she needed.(mainly telling her she has to want it herself, don't let ANYONE pressure you) Every parent child relationship is different and every person has their way of dealing. If you wish them to not know, I agree, just tell them we want "us time" and leave it at that, or whatever your normal approximation would be. The open hand smacks on the other hand, treat it like we do our 17 year old, tell him to put his headphones on, and if he doesn't, he will immediately after lol. Best of luck! -
What was your first time sex in same room?
dazanconfsd replied to Kade oj's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
The first time same room I honestly don't remember. My ex-wife and I had quite a few mfm experiences in our teens. Mostly me having intercourse and her giving oral. We had a full swap after we married and a few more mfm's after that. None of the experiences particularly memory forming besides the full swap. It was terrible and both women teased the other male about his size afterward (immature teenagers, 19 all of us) He was over 6 foot and smaller than me, and I'm not big. That experience was the sole reason it took me so long to come along with my wife on this adventure. -
Can't honestly remember the first time skinny dipping. Grew up in the country in WA state and had lots of friends with pools and lots of lakes to skinny dip in. The most recent was with our good friends in the l/s. No playing that night, just hanging out nude in the smallish pool we have in the backyard talking with each other and teasing our own spouses.