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Before becoming a swinger yourself, did you think all nudists were swingers and all swingers were nudists? I won't say in my mind it went quite as far as stated above, but it was probably close to that. I just assumed that if someone was open in one regard, then they probably were in the other. Honestly, I think much of society believes that too, so why that was in my head is more a reflection of that than anything I had really given much thought to or even knew anyone who was in either of those groups to really base it on. -
I have heard before there are key points to look for to notice Hotwives/Swinging couples in public. I consider it a myth more than anything, So I will ask the more experienced here if there is any truth in it. Its rumored you can usually spot a hotwife from the color of nail polish, jewelery,ankle braclelets, preference in shoe style are all indications of a Alternative lifestyle. *I know to categorize a individual from just these simple choices is a stretch to say in the least.* But say we entertain the thought for a moment, any idea's how to spot signs on the male as well? Like anything most hobbies/activities have a simple sign to show interest in it. example: parents with kids in sports might have the football logo or whatever on their vehicle..Sure we have all seen them. Is there a global logo for swinging?lol and do you wear it publicly for the sole purpose? -
Ok, I'm going to sound like a newby, but that's because I am lol. The wife and I are going on our first cruise in a few days. It's not a "swingers cruise", but I've heard that there are usually tons of swingers on any cruise. My question is, how do we spot them? I know about the pineapple thing, but i also assume that pineapples are a pretty common thing on a Carribean cruise. We are 3 years deep in the lifestyle but, so far, we only swing with one other couple, so we have zero experience in approaching potential playmates. We are not going on the cruise to actively seek out new playmates, but would like to be ready if the opportunity arises. My questions are: 1. Is there a way to spot swingers and, if so, how? 2. Once we have determined that a couple are swingers, how do we start the conversation? 3. Is there a way that we can make ourselves visible to other couples that might be in the same boat as us? -
I'm new to this and am not really into bar scenes, so I'm not sure a club is my style. I'd like to know if there is a way to discreetly identify myself as being open to the lifestyle, and to identify others that are as well. I'm also a little submissive and know there is BDSM jewelry that indicates such, but haven't found anything for LS jewelry. HELP! -
I just recently heard that putting a pineapple flag in your yard is a way of letting other swingers know that you are also a swinger. Just wondering if this is true?
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Just noticed today that my neighbors down the street has 2 pineapple planters on their porch. The question that rises....innocent decoration or blatant swingers calling card?
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I was driving down the road and had a random thought...can you tell if a person might be a swinger by the type of car that they drive?
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We are heading to Cuba on May 4th and will be staying at a non-lifestyle resort. As we enjoy getting together with other couples or inviting another guy to join us for some threesome fun, we are wondering if anyone has had any luck in attracting or getting the attention of potential interested play partners at non-LS resorts? If so, does anyone have any suggestions/tips/tricks that could help us in seeing if there are other people in the LS like us that may be willing to explore the possibility of some adult fun during our stay? After all, we are sure that we are not the only LS people that frequent non-LS resorts from time-to-time. Thanks and all the best to all Swingersboard members. -
Just wondering how to spot others in the lifestyle when you are out in the vanilla world? Thanks
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It seems like more and more often lately we are finding out that friends (or people we know) in the vanilla world are swingers too. In the last 2 years.... 1. Saw posts on a Yahoo Group that led me to find out that two different friends of mine were hitting up one of the local swinger clubs. One of the clubs happened to be the one we go to, so I figured I should let the friend know (before we ran into each other). 2. Had a friend call me a few months ago and outright ask me. Why? Oh because she and her gf had signed up on SLS and found our profile. "I always thought you guys were", she said. 3. Got a message on FB from a guy I went to HS with about how they'd seen us on "the other site" and hadn't ever contacted us. But, now that we'd friended each other on FB I guess he figured he should tell me. I never would have recognized him on SLS until I saw his FB picture (people change a lot). 4. Today, I get a message on FB from the male half of a couple we've hung out with a couple of times. The first time we met them I told Pet I thought they "looked familiar" and wondered if they were swingers. Today I get a message from the husband telling me "we've dropped our account on SLS, just thought I should let you know". Um... well geez, I never knew you had one, but I do now...lol. And, I very well may be missing one, ya never know. I'm starting to think that if you think they might be swingers.... they probably are.
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I know you've probably seen this one before. If so point me there. If not please help us out. Here is the scenario. My wife has developed a serious crush on a male friend of ours, and would like to swing with him. His wife is hot and I'm completely in to her as well and would jump at the oppourtnity. The trouble is we don't know if they swing or would be into swinging. We see this couple regularly at parties, the baseball field and are kids play together. I know their relationship started with her having an affair with him on her ex-husband. Ultimately we value their friendship above all else and would want to do nothing that would jepordize their relationship together or ours with them. How should we approach the proposition of a swap with themor should we? -
I'm wondering if we're out socially, if there are subtle ways to tell if someone is a swinger; or if there are subtle ways we can bring up swinging without actually saying, "We are curious about swinging." That could really spread something we wouldn't be comfortable with in our area. -
I have single female friend that I've known for the last year and a half. We're pretty comfortable with each other and our kids play together on a regular basis. Over the last year I've had a couple of times when my 'playdar' has given a little bleep with her. Usually by something that she's said or a feeling that there is just something there that I couldn't quite put my finger on. You know what I'm talking about? Today we went out for coffee and were just talking, usual stuff, and she started talking about wanting to go to an event for a "meet & greet". I haven't been around too much to social events in the vanilla world but I've never heard this term used in any other format than swinging. So I asked her if she'd ever been to a meet and greet before. It might have been the way I said it but her body language and expression was kind of like omg did I say that? She didn't know about K and I and it was a reasonable response. She's very open minded and our relationship is good so I came out to her that K and I swing and had been to a M&G before. Come to find out that my friend, back in the days before she was married (and subsequently divorced) had led a very 'open' lifestyle. Interesting isn't it? *BEEP* *BEEP* When I told her that K and I swing and the parameters of our interactions with others she told me she had suspected something of the kind. So I invited her to come out with us some time to the club to enjoy an evening of dancing, a little wine, and (if she met someone she was interested in) a little play. She said she'd like to, just not right now. It's a busy time for everyone and I know that she's got some complications with her ex right now so I left it at an open invite. But that's also why I invited her, a little adult down time is sometimes just what you need. Her and I both really enjoy and respect our friendship (and that of our boys) and while we briefly discussed the possibility of a play date of the three of us we both decided that it is just that....a possibility. Why screw up a good thing? On the other hand, if our friendship takes a turn in that direction down the road it will (or will not) happen of its own accord.
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I and my wife have come across a few couples, who we were not sure were swingers are not and we found it very difficult to break ice I have always wondered why no one has ever thought of a few secret signals that could convey the message, signals like that of the Masonic Lodge, which are understood only by swingers. These could be simple signals which only swingers understand. This will make things easier for both parties. Signals could be such If not understood by the other couple could simply be ignored without making anything obvious. These could be universal and could be propagated by all swinger websites
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Here's the overview: We're having a house party pretty soon and have invited 3 couples. We all plan on spending a lot of time in the hot tub after having dinner and some drinks (no suits allowed, but nothing further has been discussed). One of the couples (call them couple A) are pretty good friends of ours and the guy told me recently that they are interested in swinging (not specifically with us, but in general). Another couple (call them couple B) are our neighbors that we have become friends with. The other couple (call them couple C) are friends of my neighbors that we are getting to know and would like to become friends with. On a recent gathering during a conversation, couple C mentioned that they were friends with a couple that swing. Unfortunately at that time, I wasn't able to get more specific information or talk to them further on the subject. I got the feeling however that they may swing themselves. So the evening has potenial for a lot of excitement. Couples A & B are pretty open minded, and from what I can tell couple C is also. Now the questions and concerns: My SO is not attracted to the guy in couple A, but has some attraction to the men in couples B & C. She is not Bi-curious. Otherwise, I'd say there's some attraction between all of the couples. My main concern is how to either bring up the subejct, or how to play it out so that playing becomes a strong possibility. The subject of swinging has never come up with couple B, and I don't know couple C well enough. I would like to just bring up the possibility, but I'm afraid of offending couples B & C. I definitely need some guidance on this as it is new to me. I appreciate any info. -
Is the something like a pin out there that swingers could wear to show other swingers that they are in the lifestyle? My wife and I were talking about it and just decided to ask the question in a place where the people are nice and know what they are talking about.... thanks in advance
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General question - how do you identify someone out in public that is a swinger. I know most want to keep a low profile, but are there signs that say "we are open to the lifestyle"? I heard that some wear apple jewelry or dolphin - but is that common? Anything else?
