kittyswinger

It can be problematic if the friend is hard wired mono, but just occassionally did swinging due to curiosity....or is attracted to one of the couple.

Sometimes it becomes inevitable if one is in polyamory relationship, just like couplers.

This may work. I had many experiences with mfm, and when the other guy felt jealous or left out, he asked me for a 1 on 1 date. If I like the guy, I consent! Many other positions can be explored 😈

Since I require playmates to wear condom, it happens all the time that they cum anywhere on my body. I dont requre they lick it off but when the other partner's turn come, he may inevitably lick it (dried or massaged) if he kisses or play in that area (lips, tits, navel, pubis, etc.)

This is how I do it too with my bf on safe days. He has same privilege as my SO. The restrictions of wearing condom apply to uncommitted partners. At one point, i had 3 committed partners and i can open my legs for them and own me bare.

This is true. Most of our successful matches for mfm were single 'long gamer' guys. The waiting game is the best filter. 🙂

Some men are better in bed but that doesnt mean my partner and bf are up for replacement. It is a combination of emotional exclusiveness and sexual non- exclusiveness. Some would wish to form deeper connection which is possible bcoz Im poly but time management is the restraint.

For me, "depends" has this context: I swallow both from my partner and bf. When in a swing situation with other guys, I usually dont let him cum in my mouth, unless I really like the guy. But I do play with their dick in my mouth as part of foreplay, but that would not culminate in cumming. Those I allow to cum, i will surely swallow! 🙂

I would be very strict about this if the supposedly single guy is wishing to form a V or Triadic polyamorous relationship with us. Otherwise, if it is just play, I would just ignore him. Or if there is really chemistry between us, and he is clean, then why not? I dont wish to judge nor make assumptions as to what his motivations could be in wishing to swing with us alone, without his spouse's involvement. It would not ruin their home, but a poly relationship will.

I also love it when a trusted partner makes a mess of his cum all over my body.

That is very true. I had swing partners before that behaved differently when in a same room with my SO, compared with when we are playing separatelym which is more unrestrained.

Your first assumption is more plausible. The gay theory might not hold as I can see the bulge in the crotch area 🤣

It was a mistake. If I have to travel back in time, I prefer to do it with my primary partner first.

There was no time to think it over. It could have worked if he left the room with that assurance! 🙂

It is not that simple as it was not a typical swing partnership. The bf is a partner in a polyamorous relationship. I'm just sharing that sometimes it happens without the intention of favoring one partner over the other.