ricksara
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15 GoodAbout ricksara
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- Birthday 09/10/1949
Personal Info
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Relationship Status
couple
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Location
usa
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Interests
sex and family not always in that order.
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Occupation
retail store owner
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Swinging Experience
40 yrs
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Anniversary
05/09/1969
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Favorite Club(s)
no clubs , our own group
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Over the years, if I had a sex partner who pleased me in a different way than Rick, we would always talk about it. We learned a lot of new things that way. Rick did the same with me. The more we learn, the more we can please the ones we truly love. It has worked for us and we know a lot of very fun things to do to and with each other. Maybe that is why we have been married for so many years. We must be doing something right. Sara
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This is probably way to late. We had friends is a similar situation. she was very sexual but could not bring her self to swing . he was very limited it what he could do for her in the bedroom. oral was not the answer. they purchased a Sybian and it made her happy . Its not as good as real but the two of them use it together and it has helped them a lot. i hope things work out for you. this may sound stupid but it looks like anything is worth a shot. best of luck. Rick
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I enjoy getting double penetrated. It is a big turn on to have two guys in you at the same time. I don't do it nearly as much as I did , in my 30s and 40s, but I do like it , when I get it. I know Rick likes it and he is the one that first had me with a friend. Just try it. It may not be for you. You will never know unless you try it. It is fun to learn new things. Sara
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I am not loud. I say things to Sara. Tell her what to do and how good she is at it. Sara is quiet for the most part. She moans and makes hard breathing noises.When we swing, it is a whole different story. I am quiet and use my hands and body to communicate. Sara gets very vocal at times, talking dirty and telling her lovers what she wants and how she wants it. It's all good. ?
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Allowing your woman to receive oral cumshot?
ricksara replied to themidan's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
After many years of swinging with our own group it was, and is anything goes. As long as all doing it agree. We never even thought about not doing anything. It might be because we have been with the same people for so long. I have a real fondness for cum, but for me, it's the old saying. " in me , not on me." I don't get bent out of shape over a little spillage:)though. Sara- 22 replies
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We play in our bedroom ,most of the time. We have a media/rec. room that we use as well. We throw a lot of big pillows on the rug which gives us a lot of room, when the whole group is here. We also shipped the kids out to Grandma's for quite a few weekends. Not a problem for the last 20 plus years. If we swung out of our group, I don't know if I would feel the same way about the bedroom. I have no plans to find out. Sara
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We are in the swinger group. but we stay within our own group. I guess we need the safe feeling of knowing who we are having sex with. I would never go to a club, but all of us are different. I say what ever works for you is the thing to do. It has worked for us for over 40 years, so we don't need to look farther. It is fun to discuss these things with other , like minded people. But that's just us. Sara
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Separetely or together? What are your limits?
ricksara replied to Bama0468's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
Our priorities are this : Same bed #1, Same room #2, Same house #3, Separately never with one exception (Sonia). If you don't know us and need an explanation, post it or pm us. -
Do you use alias names for swinging?
ricksara replied to jcbicouple's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
We use nicknames on good sites, that we can trust. If we don't know about a site we use fake names. As you all know, there are a lot of very bad sex chat sites out there. ( come on most of us have at least checked them out. They are a joke ) If a site is good enough to join, it is good enough for at least your nickname. This site is a gem, in a field of stone. Sara- 122 replies
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Good 1st Date, Major Drama on 2nd Date, Crazy to try 3rd?
ricksara replied to PNWCouple's topic in Adventures in Swinging
When we were in our 20s we had some bad experiences because of alcohol. We soon all agreed to a two drink limit. Now we don't mix sex and alcohol at all. It seems to work for us. I hope you don't have any more bad partners. Sara -
Words you get tired of hearing in the lifestyle
ricksara replied to DigginIt's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Some of us are not super sophisticated, so we use what ever we think of at that time. Maybe the word police should read anything before we say it in print. I'm just saying. And to risk the wrath of some. LOL People ,laugh at yourself now and then, life is supposed to be fun. Enjoy each other , in spite of our short comings. Sara -
Guys: Do you stay hard after you cum?
ricksara replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
Rick uses Levitra and he stays hard for me to cum, many times. With out it he can't do that. Yea modern medicine. Sara- 59 replies
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Would you attend a house party with single males invited?
ricksara replied to angelkin's topic in Swinging Solo
Like some of you have said, all should know ahead of time. I would feel a little uncomfortable if it were 3 women and 10 guys but if all know ahead of time, why not. Sara -
How long do you expect sex to last when swinging?
ricksara replied to WeWatchUF's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
At least 70 years. No a joke, people. We never know. as we have the same group, with very few exceptions,It can be a one on one quickie. or it can go all weekend. Of course we do eat , sleep, shower, and such. but there are no rules about time. if you enjoy it you keep on doing it. no one uses a watch, we just enjoy each other. Sorry I could not be of more help. Sara