KenRachel
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Couple
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Pittsburgh
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Swinging Experience
A couple of experiences
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KenRachel
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KenRachel started following Should I worry my dick is too small?, Not sure how to ask guys for MFM, Younger male neighbor has expressed interest, not sure if this is a good idea. and and 3 others
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Not sure how to ask guys for MFM
KenRachel replied to itbus69's topic in Finding People to Swing With
I generally agree with vi, except for the not flirting around the wife thing. If she isn't comfortable with the 2 of you flirting, she is not going to be comfortable with more. We haven't tried a MFM with a man from a couple, only singles. You have to take the initiative some, but it isn't that hard once you get your courage up. If you trust him to keep quiet (and you should if you're doing this), just drop a hint. I guess it was a bit easier for me because I had a bit of a wild past. My first time it was with someone that I had know for a long while and was close with. Shading the conversation closer to sex wasn't abnormal. Some flirting got things going more. Once he was good and excited, no problem popping the question and getting agreement. Rachel- 14 replies
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Yeah, you're all telling me about what I figured. Dumb idea. I have to disagree a little bit with the "don't swing with friends" as that is what we tend to do. But I can see the other points. Sigh, I guess just a lady in her 30s letting her mind get away with her about some teenager (who she actually really knew) finding her hot:-) Thanks all. Rachel
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I have a situation that I'm trying to figure out. We've got a neighborhood woman that we're pretty good friends with. She's got a son who is almost 18. Here's the dilemma. Ken has been a bit of an older brother/father figure to him for awhile. We hire him to help Ken out with remodelling stuff on the house, and stuff like that. Well, over Labor Day it became somewhat clear that he finds me attractive. Part of me has been thinking that he's a nice guy, and young guy cute. After he turns 18, he might be fun to play with. Another part of me is going, do i really want a guy that much younger? He's had girlfriends, but he might still be a virgin (that's been a long time since I was with a virgin). And yet another part of me is going "DANGER!! DANGER!!". Would he be able to see it as just a fun time? Would he brag about it to his friends? He's pretty reliable and level-headed, but he is a teenaged boy. Any thoughts? Rachel
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Secondary wants another relationship?
KenRachel replied to Menage_a_Trois's topic in Some Swingers Do - Poly, BDSM, & Nudism
I think I was answering that question. I think I may just have not defined terms. Rachel is my wife, Pat is my girlfriend (the secondary). I have no problems with the general idea of Pat having another relationship. Ken- 30 replies
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Secondary wants another relationship?
KenRachel replied to Menage_a_Trois's topic in Some Swingers Do - Poly, BDSM, & Nudism
My GF and I have talked about this. The situation hasn't come up, but we have talked. My take is that I can deal with relationships with 2 women, why can't she have relationships with 2 men? In the general case, I'm all for anything that makes her happy. Of course there might be issues if it was someone that I had a problem with. Ken- 30 replies
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Hi Rachel here, We've had 2 ongoing relationships. One that Ken is in is definitely poly. He and she both love one another. The other relationship is an ex-boyfriend of mine. No love there, but good friendship. In addition we've both had "just plain sex" encounters.
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Well, I rather like a variety of sizes. Long, or thick are good with me. In fact my favorite is to have them take turns, feeling the difference. Rachel
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I think I'll consider us to not be newbies when 2 things happen: 1 - We find a couple or woman with whom Ken is comfortable with doing her. 2 - When Ken asks another guy to do me. Rachel
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Let's see: Enjoy being with both men and women Enjoy a variety of male types REALLY enjoy 2 guys at once Would enjoy watching Ken with another woman (or he and another man would be very sexy!). Rachel
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Well, we've had a couple of good experiences with a single friend of ours. Actually he's an ex-lover of mine which makes things a little different. Ken was a little nervous, but I think things have worked out well. I've enjoyed being the center of attention, and both Ken and G have dealt well with things. They've learned to take turns with some things:-). I think it has been a very positive thing. A few weekends ago G came up for an extended weekend. Let me tell you that was fun:-) Definitely wore me out. Rachel
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TeamSoBe, I think what bothers me at times is that she can get a guy into bed so easily, while getting a woman or a couple to join us seems to be so hard. That first time the time between when I gave to go ahead and when she borught the other guy into the bedroom was maybe 5 minutes. Ken
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Hi, Ken here, We haven't done full swap with a couple, but have tried MFM once. I must say that I wasn't quite as ready for this as I thought I was. There were a couple of times that night where I was a little uncomfortable (being new to this). The hardest part for me was watching her guide the other man inside her. What were my feelings that night? Well, part of me was happy to be letting Rachel do something that she wanted too. Part of me was a little put out at seeing how easy it was for her to convince the man to join us. A little part of me was uncomfortable watch her orgasm with another man inside her. It took me a little while get comfortable with things after that. I've reached the point where I'm gadd Rachel enjoyed herself, and I'm glad that I let her do that. I'm still a little uncomfortable with the disparity in how easy it is for her to start something up, but I'm working on it. Ken
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Another man doing oral to your husband?
KenRachel replied to coupleproyect's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
Oh, I think that seeing another guy suck on Ken would be VERY hot. I'd also like to see Ken reciprocate. Rachel- 99 replies
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