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The Whole Event Crashed and Burned...
undercovercpl replied to Ave Satanas's topic in Finding People to Swing With
I don't know this person nor do I personally agree with how they went about things but it seems like everyone has started attacking him on the fact of his age and his mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes especially being new in the lifestyle. I find it hard to believe that everyone of you who is so mightily casting those first stones didn't at one point, especially in the beginning, yourselves have some problems/ predicaments/ something out of the ordinary happen. You might not agree with what happened but theres definitely no need to attack as most of you have been doing. He has also been taking everyones criticism very well might I add. Better then most people "His age" would do. Even if everything you all have been saying is true there is such a thing as constructive criticism. If you don't have something nice to say then keep it to yourself. As for how things went down Mr Ave Satanas. No I don't really agree with how you handled things and the punch being unnecessary ( its never ever good to handle things physically Like that) . Next time just tell them things aren't working out and ask them to leave. If you have to drive them the next morning go and pick them up. Don't react heat of the moment. thats when things you will regret will happen. It sounds like from your last comment that they don't have the best relationship which is usually big drama in this lifestyle so you might just avoid them all together and make better choices next time. Good luck and hope you have better times in the future.- 46 replies
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I second this. Also did he come in you? If so be worried, if not think about this. Have you gotten pregnant every time you have ever has unprotected sex and he didn't pull out. The answer is no. Didi you get knocked up in highschool? Probably not. Another point is that if you are going to be in the lifestyle you should be responsible about it. Get an IUD, the pill or something. I mean come on you are HAVING LOTS OF SEX, get real about it. My wife can't take the pill or the shot, so a MONTH before we ever swung she got an IUD because we THOUGHT IT THROUGH!!!! Come on people grow up.
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We have been swinging for about a year. It started off with a few rules... No kissing (that one lasted about three minutes), Same room, and ALWAYS play together, oh and no anal and always wear condom. About six months into our new lifestyle our rules are no anal and always wear a condom. Other than that HAVE FUN!
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Well, we were outed by our own mistake to my father-in-law...... At least he is kinda OK with it... But yea don't expect to be able to explain it to your average vanilla or 19 yr. old for that matter. You sound like you have it handled pretty well thus far.
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Anal skin tags - Would you be turned off?
undercovercpl replied to BeachLilyandHim's topic in Look and Feel Your Best!
I am an uncircumcised male. It took me a LONG time in the swinging word to get comfy enough to just hang out with no cloths on. I use to think that long inner pussy lips were a turn off, now that I have seen a lot of them, I actually find them appealing. Point is no one should ever say anything to you about it, if they do, that's their problem. Don't be embarrassed about your body ever! It's yours and you really should only care if your hubby likes it if anyone at all. That's a hard thing to actual put in practice but once you have been doing this for a while that's the attitude you will develop. More power to your anal skin flaps! -
I can tell you from experience....... DON'T DO IT!!! It will get really weird, it might take a few months but things at work will get really weird and uncomfortable.
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Performance Anxiety ruining our fun
undercovercpl replied to funguy500's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
We completely understand how you're feeling. In our first few swinging experiences My hubby had some performance anxiety. He was nervous and had drank a few drinks. He also didnt feel 100% comfortable with the couples at first. He tried Viagra and that helped a lot. Even though he was anxious if he was turned on he got hard. So i suggest three things. First no drinks. maybe one to help relax but no more then that. Second no playing unless you are 100% comfortable with the couple. Any inkling of unsureness can ruin the mood for you. Thirdly try some form of the blue pill. My hubby uses Viagra and it works great when he needs it. There are coupons online and free samples you can get so they arent quite so expensive. He has a small pill case on his key chain to carry it with him if he thinks he might need it. Also you might want to go to a few socials or parties even if you dont play just to help you feel less anxious good luck! -
Is your spouse the best lover you've ever had?
undercovercpl replied to bonesray's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
We have never had the "am I best" conversation but I can tell you that hubby will always be the best to me. I don't know if it is because of our emotional connection or because we know each other so well we really know how to please one another but none of the people we have been with have been anywhere close to him. It would hurt my feelings if he said I wasn't the best but I would want to know the truth and I would appreciate him being truthful- 68 replies
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If you want four guys to come.. invite twelve! You always get less than half to actually show up. Thats bee our experience.
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Swinging & Special Occasions...
undercovercpl replied to telly2's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
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Same Room or Separate Room Swinging?
undercovercpl replied to Tia Vampire's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
Doesn't matter to us really- 79 replies
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Both of us think it is the hottest thing for either of us to masturbate in front of others. At a party or just with each other. Masturbation is very hot.
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What do you live in?
undercovercpl replied to couple4fun2821's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
To add to this post. I don't think Couple4fun2821 was saying it mattered one way or another, it was just an interesting poll. We live in a "Modular Home" Its a site built manufactured home on a foundation. But yes the vanillas do have a lot stereotypes for us and some times when I hear them, I like to just smile and say something like " I know, can you believe that people would actual swap partners, I think you are right, they would have to have something wrong in their relationship to do that" Then I go home get the wife ready and go swap partners! LOL