SCcpl40
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Rank
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- Birthday 08/07/1956
Personal Info
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Relationship Status
couple
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Location
columbia, sc
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Interests
travel, him-golf, her-shopping
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Swinging Experience
Since 1995
Swinger Info
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SLS Name
sccpl40
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Favorite Club(s)
Southern Socials, Carolina Friends, Club Entice
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While I dress to impress, I'm going to know the proper attire to any occasion. From simple casual dress, to total over the top slut.
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The silent partner- the female of a controlling husband in the lifestyle. He's lays down the rules and picks the partners, she goes along with it because it does offer her a chance to have fulfilling sex once in a while. She doesn't open up unless he's in another room. Then she's an animal.
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We didn't make it all the way home without stopping to have sex. All the talk about what we did, what we want to do the next time, we got so horny, we pulled over and had great sex!
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We're thankful for the computer age, it made our plunge into the lifestyle easy.
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She likes to role play so it may lead to any type of discussion or situation, he's all man and tends to take control and handles the woman mentally and physically, but passionately.
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We're a full swap lifestyle couple.
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Bed Hoppers & Post Notchers...
SCcpl40 replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Finding People to Swing With
When meeting couples online or through swinger sites, the question has come up from time to time, "How long have you two been involved in the lifestyle?" We try to answer, for a while instead of the actual number, because the experience thing tends to drive away or scare new couples who are entertaining the thought about getting involved in the lifestyle away. We say in our profile that we're not professional swingers nor bed hoppers, but people tend to label. Do we swing on the first date? If we're attracted to the couple, yes. Do we make friendships through the lifestyle? Yes and we maintain them. Have we been with a couple only once? Several times, usually it's because the distance is too great to meet again after meeting up at a convention. I heard once that what people say about you behind your back, defines you to the world. There is no emotion through emails or profiles, just words, that's why we like to meet for dinner and drinks. We approach the lifestyle like dating, so for us a little romance, flirtation goes a long way. Will we meet a couple just for sex? Give us a shout and see.- 46 replies
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Does the old saying, one man's junk is another man's treasure. We each have our own idea what is sexy. We're not complex people, so a simple pic of the couple together, G rated is enough to explore the possibility of meeting.
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Generational differences in swinging
SCcpl40 replied to lustylearning's topic in Curious About Swinging?
Maturity is not measured by actual age, but more by actions, intentional or unintentional. The lifestyle is made up by a broad spectrum of people. There are those that have more acceptance of differences as in; age, color, religion, social status and experiences, and then there are those who put up limitations and exclusions which are defined in their profiles or their social attitudes. For us mature,non judgmental people we meet in the lifestyle, are true lifestyle people. Genuine, honest, open minded, and accepting. Those people will always draw more in the long run than those who are all flash have no substance. -
There are always those people who look at everything like a competition. To have the best, biggest and be the first. They may be the belle of the ball, but when it is all said and done, there's no substance. All good things come to those who wait, slow and steady wins the race. Just be real and trust in fate and never worry about the ones that got away, just be happy with the ones that play.
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How to introduce my wife to swinging
SCcpl40 replied to letsplaymac's topic in Curious About Swinging?
It's easy to flirt because it's safe and most feel it's harmless and not crossing any lines. The fantasies, the pillow talk doesn't break the norm and doesn't let someone else into your bed. Some couples never get pass that point. Some venture out a little bit with being voyeurs, a little more adventurous like the girl/girl play and soft swingers. Each of them have their own reasons for not going forward to becoming totally into the lifestyle. If you both are very secure in yourselves and your relationship, you have complete honesty and trust, the migration from fantasy to reality will move along at the pace of the one who's most resistant. Nurture each other, never judge, and have no regrets. Remember sex is fun and fulfilling, not something just to do or be pressured into. -
Sometimes single men think with one head when they should be thinking with two. That may be where the saying "two heads are better than one" came from. For MFM, it's all about the woman. The seduction of being the center of attention is overwhelming. Keep focused on the objective, which is the woman, don't let the "hard" head cloud your vision which could be either one. The moment it's not about her, you're going down in flames. __________________
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Sometimes single men think with one head when they should be thinking with two. That may be where the saying "two heads are better than one" came from. For MFM, it's all about the woman. The seduction of being the center of attention is overwhelming. Keep focused on the objective, which is the woman, don't let the "hard" head cloud your vision which could be either one. The moment it's not about her, you're going down in flames.