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Hello, My name is Jezzebell, My husband and I are new to this whole swinging lifestyle. We are interested in looking for a female for a threesome. I have been with women and have had threesomes before. My husband has never had a threesome and I want to give him his first threesome. We are located near Chicago. How can we go about contacting women for this? -
My husband and I have been together for almost 10 years. I have always been bi- curious, but kept it as secret until the last month. Little did I know that he had a small feeling (thanks to a few drunk nights with my friend). Our marriage is very strong, and we are very opened with each other. I told him that I wanted to have a have sexual encounter with another female. He is on board, and we even talked about a MFM threesome as well. Here is my issue... How do I find someone? That friend is no longer a friend, I can't do dating apps because of my job, and I personally don't want someone we know. I have looked into Swinger Clubs, and I realize that finding a bisexual/lesbian female who is single is hard. We are opened to a couple if need be. I just want my husband there and or involved. My question is... What is it like going to a swingers club? Will there be people our age (27-30), are "predators" real, and how do I find a club? We are located in Washington, PA. -
Hiya, I’m a single guy looking for a relationship. I want to find someone who enjoys swinging but I have no idea where to look. Most websites like POF there’s no function to search for people who like swinger. Any ideas or website recommendations? Many thanks.
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Hello I should probably start by saying this is something totally new to us and the idea was put to me by my wife, it does pose a few questions! So here goes... Been married for 8 years, wife is very open with discussing how attractive other women are, she is not the jealous time at all, she has suggested that we find a stranger and have a threesome because she likes the idea of sharing another woman with me and having another woman pleasure her as well. To be honest, I'm a little scared and unsure how this sort of thing works! We quiet often stay at hotels just to chill, to get away from our busy lives and she's said that this is the place that we could initiate a threesome. She also said she would prefer to do this before we have children, which to me makes sense and suits us both. My questions are: Is this sort of thing common for wives to want to watch their husband be pleasured by another woman? What are the dangers/risks? Is this something that is tricky to initiate with a stranger at a bar, located at the hotel we will be staying at? Pro's/cons?
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Hey everyone! So, my wife has discovered she likes girls and wants to experience a lesbian encounter while I watch. She said she may want me to play with her, but not with the other woman. I'm totally cool with this! The only thing is she really isn't comfortable with another guy being there, and I'm not sure if I an either. We have been together for 17 years. We almost had a threeway with one of her friends when we were dating, but it never came up again until recently. One night while at a dance club, these two hot chicks were flirting and dancing with my wife. When we got home she was all hot and ready for some action. In the midst of our love making, she tells me she wants to have sex with a woman. Then she proceeds to get on the computer and pulls up some lesbian porn. I was like "WOW!" This is something I have always wanted! She has never been into porn or girls before, at least not that I know of. Now her sex drive is off the charts! We have gone from once a week to two or three times a day. We have discussed what she wants and I want. She wants to play with a woman while I play with her, but doesn't want any contact between the other woman and I. So far we have tried Craigslist, but got nowhere. She was totally turned off by the whole CL thing. There is a club where we live, but she doesn't want to go there for fear of being hit on by some guy or me being hit on by some girl. We did ask a girl we met at a nightclub out, but she turned us down because she has a boyfriend. My question(s) is how do we find a woman who is into that? Also, what potential pitfalls could someone in my circumstance avoid? I have a gay friend who said he would try to get us hooked up with someone, but the waiting is driving both of us mad! Any suggestions on how to find someone, or are we going about this all wrong? At this point, couples and Craigslist are out of the question.
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Just for fun. Another thread got me to wondering which is more difficult to find; a well hung (8+ inches) guy or a unicorn? Based on the stats posted in the other thread, 8+ inches occurs in about 1/1000 men. I am not sure there is a statistical analysis of the unicorn population. But I doubt we have met a 1000 different swinging males (maybe though) and we have met several unicorns. We have not met a guy that we KNOW is 8+, although a few we have met claim to be, they haven't caught my wife's fancy, so we have no proof. -
First off I need to say this is NOT a "how do we get a single bi-fem into our bed?" post. We are experienced traditional full swap swingers who are at the clubs almost weekly and in many ways are a successful and confident couple. In fact my question may apply equally well to single males as single females. We have always preferred couples and will continue to prefer them but we have been talking about getting more involved with singles. My question is, due to the low numbers of single females in the lifestyle (and of the ones there are being so bi) is it even a viable place to look for single fem in the first place or are there other avenues that would be a better place to look? We have had a couple FMFs before but it was with vanillas who had no interest in "swinging" per se, and quite frankly, when they found out we were open to having a threesome with them they jumped at the chance. So I got to thinking that maybe the lifestyle isn't even a viable place to look in the first place. I don't mean to knock the single women that are in the lifestyle but most of the ones we have seen have been borderline attractive at best, have lots of issues, are primarily looking for bi experiences and have fan clubs waiting a mile long to get a crack at them and many are quite the primadonnas because of that demand (please don't get mad or defensive, that has just been our observation and experience. Your mileage may vary). And while sane, sober, attractive, pleasant and available women are a rarity in the lifestyle, there are a lot of them in the vanilla world. Just wondered what some of your thoughts on this are and if you have any insights or advice? I'd be interested to hear any thoughts or experiences you may have had. -
I get asked quite a bit why it is so hard to find single females to play with. I get asked this by both couples and single males. The general answer is that there really aren't many single females in the lifestyle. And the few that are are only interested in playing with couples/ threesomes/ female/ female fun. This explains why it's hard for single males to find females to partner with them for clubs/ socials. Does any one have any tips on finding the elusive single females?
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First, I will tell you that as a new single female swinger, I have been inundated with responses ...even without a picture on the profile...which I did not expect. Couples don’t seem to care what I look like…as long as I am breathing…and I find that suspect. I wouldn’t buy a car sight unseen just because it is a Mercedes, it could be a rusted out wreck! That is just not good business acumen. So I find the correlation very disturbing…albeit in my favor. Question 1: Why do you do that? Why would couples want to meet someone they haven’t seen a picture of? Also, many of the couples who have contacted me seem to be rather possessive in nature. They are interested in me becoming..."their"...single-bi female. Is the desire for exclusivity that common or am I just dealing with wading through the backwater? Question 2: How can I do that? I mean...I am interested in a MMF...how does a single female accomplish that? My concern is ending up in a circumstance wherein I loose control of the situation in a very unsavory manner. I would like to have fun and not be used…this is the area in my opinion where couples do have the advantage. The woman knows her mate will look out for her. I do not have that luxury. It is a bit of a quandary … but I am sure the advice here will be eye opening and interesting at the least.
