tiger4play
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- Birthday 04/10/1961
Personal Info
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Relationship Status
S Female
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Location
Vista, California
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Swinging Experience
1.5 years
Swinger Info
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Favorite Club(s)
Club Taboo & Thad's
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tiger4play started following Theme Nights - Yay or Nay?, What do we do to fix this? Performance Anxiety, Does swinging make us better lovers? and and 5 others
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Swingers, could you be open to poly?
tiger4play replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Some Swingers Do - Poly, BDSM, & Nudism
My husband and I have been in both kinds of relationships...he could be in another poly relationship, but not me. I have found it VERY common that when seeking out other couples either one or the other is not compatible with either hubbie or myself. He will like the woman and I am not sure about the guy, and vice versa! I have heard that it is a rare thing to find a matching couple. -
What do we do to fix this? Performance Anxiety
tiger4play replied to livinitup77's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Yes...this is normal. Actually for M and F swingers..... it is really hard to concentrate sometimes with so much going on around you both while trying to play. Hubbie and I were at a club recently and during 6 or 7 hours of on-and-off play we each had trouble for one reason or another reaching an orgasm. People talking loudly while being voyeurs, got too hot in the room, and not feeling comfortable with the other players. I agree with DE BBC.... don't go to drugs just yet. Give it a few more tries and abstain a couple of days prior to playing and see if it doesn't improve naturally. Once you get comfortable and are excited, it should help a lot. Also, try and experience activities you enjoy when you are home at the party i.e. videos, watching others play, flirt or experience foreplay more intensely prior to wanting to have sex. In other words, make yourself as horny as possible then give it a try.... might work! I know it would with me! -
Does swinging make us better lovers?
tiger4play replied to socolais's topic in Curious About Swinging?
We feel swinging can make people better partners if they want to be, and are seeking to learn and enjoy all kinds of people and play (within each person's boundaries). We have found throughout our experiences those who are willing and eager to learn, those who think they already know everything, and those who are happy with who they are....as they are. And each experience has been unique...some to be repeated and others not to be repeated. Isn't that the fun of it??? Putting yourselves out there to meet people and possibly have a wonderful experience. And even if it's not GREAT.... you can take the good, and not repeat the not-so-good. That's an awesome thing about swinging.... you can chose to not repeat!!! -
Theme Nights - Yay or Nay?
tiger4play replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
I like the idea!! It gives the night/club/party a sense of togetherness before you even get there! And sometimes we'll join in and sometimes not! As long as the theme isn't mandatory.... I think it's great! You'd be surprised at what you can find in a pinch too! Using your imagination can be fun when trying to get an outfit together!- 43 replies
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Pineapple flag as an indicator of swinging?
tiger4play replied to JMR's topic in Finding People to Swing With
Don't you think it would be hard to have one symbol or flag.... just due to the fact that there are so many combinations of people and lifestyles that make up "The Lifestyle"... that someone would perhaps be left out??? It would need to be something that a M or F would be comfortable with displaying too, don't you think? I am not sure it is possible! I would sure like to have one to display though if it is ever decided on!! -
Ladies: How bare will you go in public?
tiger4play replied to Tadahiko's topic in Look and Feel Your Best!
I too agree with The Fuse... and let's add age appropriateness too??? I think that is what PB&J was getting at...yes? And clubwear? I wear as little as possible... I don't want to keep putting things on and taking them off again!!!! Things that tie are good!!- 42 replies
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Harder, faster, more...more...more, yummy, deeper, cum for me.... talking? Yes, definitely!!! If you don't.... your missing out on something arousing and telling!
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Female half of tiger4play.... Hell yes!!! When hubbie didn't shave it caused a lot of redness and it can feel like a bunch of pins are sticking you!!! Ouch! But he is a compassionate person and he shaved regularly. He used Gillette Fusion..... until he discovered waxing!! Now we have our special waxing weekends at the spa!! Fun and kind of a sexy way to start the two days off... being pampered!
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3 strikes and you're out... Meeting a couple
tiger4play replied to a topic in Adventures in Swinging
I've heard of things like this happening to singles.... that sucks! "Pun intended!" Thanks for the warning.... only Starbucks meetings...got it!- 13 replies
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