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SecretAsianMan last won the day on February 13 2010
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348 ExcellentAbout SecretAsianMan
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Tastes Great Less Filling
- Birthday 12/29/1970
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Relationship Status
Single Male
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Location
Los Angeles
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Interests
Good friends, Movies, Books, Television, Renaissance Faires, Military History, Weapons (Swords & Guns), Parties, Games, and Casinos
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Administrator
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Swinging Experience
Nearly a decade...
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Secret_Asian_Man
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Favorite Club(s)
Gary & Margaret's (Loma Linda, CA)
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SecretAsianMan started following Our First Time! It was Great!, What's Your Current Favorite Site & Why?, Do any other swinger guys like to suck cock besides me? and and 4 others
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Do any other swinger guys like to suck cock besides me?
SecretAsianMan replied to Suntan51's topic in Bisexual Swingers
I've enjoyed it a few times ... originally as the recipient of the oral attentions from the couple. Eventually opened up to the act of giving. The hottest part of it was seeing / hearing how much the gal enjoyed seeing it.- 144 replies
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Exploring male bisexuality through swinging
SecretAsianMan replied to Erotics's topic in Bisexual Swingers
Feeling nervous is "perfectly normal" Some folk may be uncomfortable with your "heteroflexibility" (a term I really like, by the way) ... and you don't have to worry about labeling yourself. The term "bisexual" (in my opinion) has always been a bit too vague and the meaning of it has always been different from person-to-person. In the privacy of your relationships & sexual encounters - as long as you're comfortable with who you are and what you're comfortable doing, just enjoy it. The fact that your wife is comfortable with your explorations ... in fact, she sounds like she's encouraging it! ...means you've got a "safe" place from which you can do that exploration.- 51 replies
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Just haven't been on here much in the last year or so ... mostly been pre-occupied with a few different social-networks (i.e., Facebook & Fet-Life) There've been a few life changes in the past year ... job situation has changed & my time in the Lifestyle has greatly reduced. I'm still online and checking messages from this Board ... hope everyone is good.
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Learned something new during anal play...
SecretAsianMan replied to SecretAsianMan's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
I spoke to my doctor about it a few months ago & they ran an EKG and did some preliminary tests ... everything was "normal" on their tests. I haven't had any further incidents ... but I've avoided any sex in the shower since then. -
It'll be different strokes for different folks ... MOST couples want to play with another couple - but there are plenty of folks who're open to playing with single people as well. (Nothing wrong with it, but there's definately a bit of a "stigma" versus single guys ... there have been too many instances where rude, crude and bad behavior by single guys have turned folks away from wanting to play with another single-guy) Basically, take your time & establish yourself in your local community - be honest with people (including your partner / wife / etc) and don't do anything behind their back. (Establishing that your partner has given you permission to "play" without her is always going to be a bit tricky) As far as bisexuality goes... sadly, MOST of the groups I've encountered are very one-sided when it comes to bisexuality. Women are thoroughly encouraged to explore & express their bisexuality. Men, however are NOT. (Sure, there are exceptions to this - but they're rare) MOST bisexual men (in a couple) will sell themselves publically as "straight" because of the stigma attached to it... I do hope you find what you're looking for & y'all (as a couple) can explore & express yourselves in your adventures together. Good luck to y'all
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Medical supply stores sell "pads" for hospital beds which are HIGHLY absorbent If you don't want to spend the $90 for "lliberator throws" - a cheap and fully functional solution is to slip a cheap shower-curtain between the mattress and the sheets... change the sheets and pull off the plastic shower curtain after you're done & you've still got a dry mattress to sleep on
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Hard to find bi male/straight female couple
SecretAsianMan replied to MasterHack2007's topic in Bisexual Swingers
Yep... it's definitely much harder to find bisexual men in the lifestyle (at least guys who'll openly declare their bisexuality) A resource you might want to try are your local "kink" communities ... BDSM / Kink-Groups (at least in my experience) are usually much more open to bisexual / heteroflexible / gay men. -
What size is considered BBW?
SecretAsianMan replied to shrevecouple's topic in Look and Feel Your Best!
Being a "BBW" is kind of like being a "swinger" - there's no specific hard-rule as to exactly what it is or how it should be done... but if you want to consider yourself a BBW, I'm sure you'd find plenty of supporters. I wouldn't worry too much about it. If you're healthy & like the way you look (or at the very least, you're healthy and your partner(s) enjoy the look of you... just revel in that worry less about the "labels" -
You've heard of the Snuggie?
SecretAsianMan replied to two4youinswva's topic in Look and Feel Your Best!
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Our First Time! It was Great!
SecretAsianMan replied to Speed and Syn's topic in First Swinging Experiences
- Glad y'all had a great time & everyone was happy and satisfied (No regrets about going back on the "anal being off-limits at the party" -discussion?) Thank you very much for sharing your experience with us- 13 replies
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Nice... enjoy your time & I look forward to hearing your adventures.
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Our first threesome with a female friend!!
SecretAsianMan replied to Clease's topic in First Swinging Experiences
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Glory hole at swing clubs?
SecretAsianMan replied to Soundspell's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
Sort of like a "black-out party" idea ... total darkness and you have to hope that everyone you touch & encounter at that event is someone you trust enough to play with! A bit scary but it can also be a lot of fun with the right people- 27 replies
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Glory hole at swing clubs?
SecretAsianMan replied to Soundspell's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
I've seen it at a party where everyone (more or less) knew each other and it was a fun little novelty-thing ... but I'd be a bit squeamish about just randomly approaching such a thing with total strangers.- 27 replies
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While not specifically "swingers" ... Notable people in "open marriages" : Edna St. Vincent Millay, (American poet) Havelock Ellis, (sexologist) Robert Crumb and Aline Crumb, (cartoonists) Charles Laughton and Elsa Lanchester, (actor & actress) Andrei Kirilenko, (professional basketball player) Cindy Margolis, (model) Jean-Paul Sartre and Simone de Beauvoir, (philosophers) Dolly Parton, (country singer) Will Smith and Jada Pinkett, (actor & actress) Kate Hudson and Chris Robinson, (actress & musician) Shirley MacLaine, (actress) Thomas Braden, (journalist) Jenny Block, (author) writer of "Open: Love, Sex and Life in an Open Marriage" Tilda Swinton and John Byrne, (actress & painter/director/writer) Margaret Sanger, (founder of Planned Parenthood) Alfred Kinsey (researcher/author of "the Kinsey Report") and Clara Bracken McMillen Mo'Nique, (actress/comedian) Ossie Davis and Ruby Dee, (actors) Julian Beck and Judith Malina, (actors, writers, directors, and founders of "The Living Theatre") George Henry Lewes, (philosopher) Larry King, (talk show host) and Shawn Southwick, (singer)