Elderly couple wants to get into swinging

[sirlancelot 15]

Hi. We are in our 70's and would like get into swinging...where would we be welcome, or is there even a place for us?

[SexyRedmondCpl 128]

Well, for starters... You've found the right place to start, and everyone's welcome here.

 

In our experience, there's no upper limit in the lifestyle. Our regular club's core demographic is 30-60, but there are plenty of members on both sides of that. As long as you approach the lifestyle with an honest and open mind, you can have fun at any age.

 

~Mike & Lea

[SW_PA_Couple 4,023]

hi

we are in our 70s and would like get into swinging....where would we be welcome or is this a place for us

 

JoAnn and I are approaching 60. We see and interact with many people of your age group. We find them in all the same places that people of other age groups are found -- at private parties, swingers' clubs, on-line hook-up sites . . .

 

~Michael

[sahajacpl 95]

hi

we are in our 70s and would like get into swinging....where would we be welcome or is this a place for us

 

Hello there, and welcome to the Swingersboard and the swinging lifestyle. You have come to the right place to get your questions answered by very knowledgeable couples ,who are members of this Board, and have been swinging for years. You will also find, when you explore the many posts, that all age groups are represented in the swinging lifestyle.

 

Also, for most couples who swing, and, enjoy having sex with someone other than their own spouse, mate or S.O., chronological age is the isue of least importance. Us swingers are open to playing with fun-loving and broad-minded couples, regardless of age. In fact, many swingers, ourselves included, look forward to playing with and swapping mates with older couples for the whole range of sexual activities that includes intercourse. Its entirely upto you two to set your limits as to how far and how quickly you wish to proceed in exploring the swinging lifestyle.

 

So, have no fear. You haven taken the first and most important step toward enjoyment of this wonderful lifestyle where both of you, husband and wife can swap partners, play and enjoy sex with a variety of partners.

 

One is never too old to enjoy sex between the two of you as a couple and also sharing your partner with another couple for social, and, more importantly for sexual intercourse. There is a whole new world of sexual enjoyment awaiting the two of you.

 

[Rackir 159]

Welcome to the board!!!!!

 

The cool thing about the swining community (in my expierence), is that even if you don't fit nicelly into the norm, (due to weight, age, preferences, whatever) there are still going to be people out there that are into you.

 

There was an older couple (late 60's, mid 70's) at the club the last time we were there go at it hot and heavy on the dance floor, and the overwhelming consensous from those we were talking too was how cool it was that they werent letting somthing as silly as age get in the way of thier fun. Though I diddnt see how thier evening went, I'm willing to bet that they diddnt wind up in a room as just a couple .

 

So yup, totally welcomed and embraced!

[talltim123 69]

I am in my 70's and play with one couple who are also in their 70's as well as with another couple who are about 60. On several occasions other ladies from late 50's to late 70's have joined us. I have found that older ladies are often more at ease with their own sexual desires and open to trying new experiences. A single male friend (late 50's) and I have introduced 5 ladies ages 48 to 75, to their first mfm and a couple of them progressed to enjoying mfmf as well as exploring their bi curiosity. One is never too old to explore and enjoy multiple person encounters, though the pool of those interested and willing is smaller than the 20-50 age group, as evidenced by the few seniors posting on swinging sites.

[AskMeOk 148]

Sure! Welcome! Get out there and mix and mingle. It may not be the cake walk that is would have been in you 20's, but what the heck. Get out there and have a good time.

 

We find that house parties are the venue of choice for the "older" crowd, but the clubs have us oldsters in residence, too.

 

Since we are on the subject. Can anybody give us a clue why 1) the older we get the more time, money, and experience and less (fertility we have (that's a plus)), 2) the less like it is that we are (still?) swinging? We just don't get it!

[sahajacpl 95]

I am in my 70's and play with one couple who are also in their 70's as well as with another couple who are about 60. On several occasions other ladies from late 50's to late 70's have joined us. I have found that older ladies are often more at ease with their own sexual desires and open to trying new experiences. A single male friend (late 50's) and I have introduced 5 ladies ages 48 to 75, to their first mfm and a couple of them progressed to enjoying mfmf as well as exploring their bi curiosity. One is never too old to explore and enjoy multiple person encounters, though the pool of those interested and willing is smaller than the 20-50 age group, as evidenced by the few seniors posting on swinging sites.

 

Great to hear you are still actively swinging in you 70s. The few swing experiences we have had with mature ladies (60s, 70s) have been just great. We agree that these ladies are at ease with their sexual desires and therefore make great partners for play and intercourse. We think the reasons seniors do not post on the swing sites in great numbers is that they fear rejection.

 

Is there a way we can promote swinging to the seniors?

 

[Alura 2,773]

Sir Lancelot! I was shocked recently when I told a friend that I'll turn 70 in December. She said she thought I was in my early fifties. Well... she may be a diplomat or she may be like others who aren't really very good at judging peoples' ages.

 

I'd suggest just keeping your mouth shut about age unless the subject comes up.

 

Mr. Alura

[SecretAsianMan 348]

 

This is definately a place for you - if you're looking for a place to talk about the lifestyle and getting information about doing it.

 

There's no age limit to the people here - as long as you're a consenting adult.

 

Glad to have you here & we'll be happy to help you along in your path towards discovering this new lifestyle for y'all

[TheLorax 173]

Since we are on the subject. Can anybody give us a clue why 1) the older we get the more time, money, and experience and less (fertility we have (that's a plus)), 2) the less like it is that we are (still?) swinging? We just don't get it!

 

I think it has a lot to do with novelty, drive, energy, and attitude.

 

I've found that as I've gotten older and more experienced, I have less drive to do something "new" because I've done almost all of it and learned what I like and what I'm not that fond of. Newness is a powerful drive for most folks and once that goes away there may not have been much other drive underlying. Sex drive generally diminishes as people age, for some folks it goes away completely, for others it just drops off (and there are some folks for whom it gets stronger, but that's less common).

 

Attitude is also important. There's a lot of social pressure for folks to become less sexual as they get older. Constantly bucking social pressure is tiring.

 

As far as I'm concerned though, human sexuality doesn't end at an arbitrary age, and if folks want to swing at 90 and are attracting partners, I say more power to them!

[Rackir 159]

I've found that as I've gotten older and more experienced, I have less drive to do something "new" because I've done almost all of it and learned what I like and what I'm not that fond of. Newness is a powerful drive for most folks and once that goes away there may not have been much other drive underlying.

 

Interestingly I've found the opposite. I've always been an experience junkie, but I find that the older I get, the stronger the urge to find something "new" (or at least different) becomes. When I was younger I really I could content myself with constraining the "quest for something new" to only particular aspects of my life, but now I find that the aspects of my life where I can comfort in the routine are growing smaller and smaller (hence being a student again at 38).

 

Part of it is undoubtedly a sense of growing mortality compared to the infinite list of human potential. One scale (time) is growing shorter, while the other (stuff to try) never shrinks. But I think that a largest part is the fact that the more try, the more I fond I like and so I am constantly finding new branches of experience I want to explore.

[TheLorax 173]

Interestingly I've found the opposite. I've always been an experience junkie, but I find that the older I get, the stronger the urge to find something "new" (or at least different) becomes..

 

I think that's a slight tangent to what I was talking about. I still have the drive to find something "new", but the things I did that were "new" back then are either part of my normal routine and are no longer "new", or I found I didn't care for them. As far as sex goes, while there are a few permutations that I haven't done, I've pretty much experienced the full range of sexuality and there isn't much more that is "new" for me.

 

I was getting at the fact that the novelty itself is a powerful drive and once the novelty wears off that particular drive goes away.

[wild stud 17]

hi

we are in our 70s and would like get into swinging....where would we be welcome or is this a place for us

 

We have found the older you are the harder it is to find swinging partners.We or both 62. If you or interested in a MMF threesome then usally no problem.But most couples thing we or just to old for this kind of life style or that has been the way with us.We feel we or just aged to prefection and still enjoy what we did in our 20s 30s 40s 50s Just takes a little longer now. Our two cents

DON & DONNA:cunny:

[N&G 207]

There are plenty of older swingers but they are harder to find. Usually if you hit it off with one couple they will introduce you to others. We see a woman in her 70's at a monthly hotel party all the time. If you can find a local hotel or house party that has an older crowd that should work well as long as you like those kind of parties. Sometimes you will meet people that you can also see outside of the parties if that works for you.

[Swamprat 42]

Welcome to the board. Cum on in, the water's fine.

As everyone else has said, the House Parties usually has the crowd you're searching for. We've managed to find our niche and really enjoy it. When we go to clubs, we travel in a pack and have the best of both worlds.

Just remember....."At our age it may be more difficult to cut the mustard like we used to but we can always lick the jar.

[oldrrob 20]

I'm 67 and just today I spent a fantastic afternoon with a couple just a few years younger than myself. They had been on a break for several years as I have, and we were able to connect and once again live the moment. Sometimes it's just a matter of the right place at the right time.

 

I can't recall a time where I would say this community in general rejected anyone because of age, or size, or looks. I'll qualify that by saying that some people have preferences, and that's their right of course. But believe me, there are plenty of well over 60's folks still interested, and even some younger who, for whatever reason, bless them, find us 'mature' people attractive.

 

You've come to the right place for great advice and listeners.

[willyoats 324]

The first swingers party we went to was at the (now defunct) Club Sensitivity in Florida. There was a woman there who was a regular, so we were told, who 75. She was confident and sexy as hell, albeit her birthday suit had not been ironed recently.

 

As it happened, we were invited to party with a couple about our age (then 50). If we had not been engaged to early in the evening, I am pretty sure that I would have hit on her.

 

That was a few years ago. Now in the last three years, I have not had a partner for intercourse who was younger than 66. (I have had two regular mutual masturbation and oral sex partners for a dozen or so encounters who are in their mid 30's.)

 

The point: you are definitely not too late to find like-minded folks to have a good time with. Thye may be quite young or they may be close to your age. Who cares, so long as you all get along well.

[sahajacpl 95]

That was a few years ago. Now in the last three years, I have not had a partner for intercourse who was younger than 66.

The point: you are definitely not too late to find like-minded folks to have a good time with. Thye may be quite young or they may be close to your age. Who cares, so long as you all get along well.

 

We fully agree with your exerience. We have played and copulated with (full swap of mates) for intercourse on a couple of occasions, with couples who were in their late 60s or early seventies (our guess). Both times the play and subsequent intercourse with each other's partner was very delightful and satisfying. The male, we found, actually was very adept at pleasuring the wife (mine) with the variety of ways he did intercourse and fucked her with great finesse. His penis was almost 8 inches, fully erect and used it very effectively after penetrating and entering into her vagina. His wife was also fully relaxed and it was a pleasure playing with her and doing intercourse. Her vagina was still extremely snug and she could contract it at will to give additional pleasure to my penis embedded in her as we played and fucked to orgasm. We suppose, experience does matter when you swap mates with another couple/s for intercourse, and, the older couples certainly have more sexual experience to draw upon.

 

With more and more people living healthy lives well into 70s or even 80s there are bound to be more mature couples around that are interested in swapping mates with other couples for sexual intercourse. Ergo, we feel that this phenomena of more and more mature couples interested in the swinging lifestyle provides the possibility of more and richer sexual experiences for younger (and older) folks to enjoy sensuous play and sexual intercourse with couples regardless of age.

 

[Mr.Essex 264]

70 isn't that old. tongue in cheekLast year, I was evilly seduced by an older woman who refused to tell me her age until I satisfied her depraved lusts. As I lay gasping beside her, drained from our earlier activity, she told me that she was 82 years old and said that I was the best partner who she'd had that year.tongue removed from cheek

 

In all seriousness, I thought that she was about 60 years old and I still let her lead me into a bedroom for playtime, so (if you're fit enough to keep up the pace) I don't see any reason why you'd let your age stop you from entering the lifestyle. Like the old saying goes, "You're as young as the people you feel."

[Guest BamaRide]

I'm sure you'll find people in your age range, and I think it's cool to see someone your age in the lifestyle!

 

I agree! I'm working on getting there myself!

 

BamaRide

[Guest mysticon]

Bet you get there too Bama, with that twinkle in your eyes

[Rock n Tits 184]

On 10/25/2009 at 9:18 PM, oldrrob said:

I'm 67 and just today I spent a fantastic afternoon with a couple just a few years younger than myself. They had been on a break for several years as I have, and we were able to connect and once again live the moment. Sometimes it's just a matter of the right place at the right time.

 

I can't recall a time where I would say this community in general rejected anyone because of age, or size, or looks. I'll qualify that by saying that some people have preferences, and that's their right of course. But believe me, there are plenty of well over 60's folks still interested, and even some younger who, for whatever reason, bless them, find us 'mature' people attractive.

 

You've come to the right place for great advice and listeners.

We find that with couples over 60 the ladies tend to be body conscious .. I find that a few drinks help that and getting to know them we have had drinks than a few weeks later dinner some like to go slow but once they open up its fun

[lcmim 1,079]

Maybe they still are.

 

[njbm 2,863]

1 hour ago, lovtosuc said:

it helps a lot if you have nice bodies, of course if you don't, age doesn't matter either

Don’t think having a nice body is the most important thing, within reason. It’s the attitude. 

[PeterJ 932]

Agreed, "have fun while you can." That said (and I’ve posted previously here on the board about this) a few years ago, when I was in my mid-60s, I played with a couple who were in their mid-80s. It was a new experience for me, playing with people whose bodies were so old, but they were game and it was enjoyable. I later was told by a mutual lifestyle acquaintance that they had been swinging since before that was a term. And that on their night they had staged a post-nuptials orgy — around the year I was born!

 

(As an aside, due to my involvement with the lifestyle I’ve had sex with five women on their wedding nights, only three of whom were my wives…😉😊)

[njbm 2,863]

We were on a lifestyle cruise and pretty new to swinging. We were in our fifties and we met a couple in their seventies who asked if we wanted to play with them. They seemed a lot older than us, but we thought if they have the courage to ask, why not. 
 

Well, we both had a very nice experience. The woman had this tantric technique that used her hands on my manhood in which she simulated entering and exiting a vagina. Fun! My wife wanted me to show her how this woman did it, but I didn’t know. 
 

The husband used some kind of glove with electrostim on my wife. She liked it. Overall, these people had their tricks and we had fun. Don’t judge a book by its cover and give people a chance.

 

We find the men are gaga for my wife, the women so so for me, but I have lit up a few clits in my time, which has resulted in a reevaluation by the females brave enough to give me a chance. We find the credo of give people a chance has served us well. 

Edited November 14, 2021 by njbm

[Rock n Tits 184]

On 11/14/2021 at 5:50 AM, lovtosuc said:

it helps a lot if you have nice bodies, of course if you don't, age doesn't matter either

Yes we are in 60s sooo the bod is not great but I love to watch Tits having sex esp doggie and her huge DDD tits swing back and forth and she is still beautiful and hot

[Rock n Tits 184]

On 11/14/2021 at 11:26 AM, PeterJ said:

Agreed, "have fun while you can." That said (and I’ve posted previously here on the board about this) a few years ago, when I was in my mid-60s, I played with a couple who were in their mid-80s. It was a new experience for me, playing with people whose bodies were so old, but they were game and it was enjoyable. I later was told by a mutual lifestyle acquaintance that they had been swinging since before that was a term. And that on their night they had staged a post-nuptials orgy — around the year I was born!

 

(As an aside, due to my involvement with the lifestyle I’ve had sex with five women on their wedding nights, only three of whom were my wives…😉😊)

It’s weird I know but I love to see Tits have sex with 50 plus fat guys with big thick cocks

[Rock n Tits 184]

On 10/22/2009 at 10:40 AM, wild stud said:

 

We have found the older you are the harder it is to find swinging partners.We or both 62. If you or interested in a MMF threesome then usally no problem.But most couples thing we or just to old for this kind of life style or that has been the way with us.We feel we or just aged to prefection and still enjoy what we did in our 20s 30s 40s 50s Just takes a little longer now. Our two cents

DON & DONNA:cunny:

Your welcome here!!!!!!

[Rock n Tits 184]

6 minutes ago, Rock n Tits said:

It’s weird I know but I love to see Tits have sex with 50 plus fat guys with big thick cocks

She used to work for a guy as his personal assistant his office was in his house. I stopped by one afternoon to bring Tits her lunch she forgot. As I walked by window in kitchen and I saw them at table they were naked and fucking. Him in chair her on his lap that is when I saw Richards huge fat cock! He was very over wieght she was facing him and her huge tits in this face him sucking her 1” nipples when she stood up to turn around I saw his cock was at least 9 inches long and the size of small v8 can. I could not help myself I took out my cock and jacked off. We talked about what I saw later that night and she said she fucks him once a week. 

[Fun and pleasure 0]

On 10/10/2009 at 7:38 PM, sirlancelot said:

Hi. We are in our 70's and would like get into swinging...where would we be welcome, or is there even a place for us?

 

[Fun and pleasure 0]

Everyone should be welcome. It’s someone out there for everyone to have some fun😉

[TnA83 303]

On 12/3/2009 at 5:45 PM, Mr.Essex said:

70 isn't that old. tongue in cheekLast year, I was evilly seduced by an older woman who refused to tell me her age until I satisfied her depraved lusts. As I lay gasping beside her, drained from our earlier activity, she told me that she was 82 years old and said that I was the best partner who she'd had that year.tongue removed from cheek

 

In all seriousness, I thought that she was about 60 years old and I still let her lead me into a bedroom for playtime, so (if you're fit enough to keep up the pace) I don't see any reason why you'd let your age stop you from entering the lifestyle. Like the old saying goes, "You're as young as the people you feel."

What month of the year was it?